YouTube Influencer Myka Stauffer "rehomes" adopted son

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Anonymous wrote:The crazy thing is, she will be making bank off this announcement. Think of all the clicks she is getting.

Sponsors don’t want hate clicks.

Who is hate clicking? I read through her YouTube comments and 95% are loving and nice comments.

They must be doing some heavy deleting. If I wasn't worried for the innocent children still with her I might be tempted to post some harsh words, myself.

Wtf are you even talking about? Why would you be worried about her children? They don’t abuse their kids. This is as simple as an extremely special needs child, needing a better fit.


“After multiple assessments, after multiple evaluations, numerous medical professionals have felt that he needed a different fit and that with his medical needs, he needed more.”

You realize that is code for they were not willing to put in the effort for this kid and get him the therapies and change their lifestyle like most good parents would, it was easier to get rid of him using the fancy term rehoming. Look at the code - multiple assessments and evaluations. No discussion about therapies, changing their routine or lifestyle, etc. They wanted a perfect child to fit into their world they could use to make money and when he didn't fit that mold and was not an easy fix they got rid of him.

Many families have kids with lots of SN, more than he does and they do what they need to do to make it work.

Many families with kids with lots of SN sacrifice everything, including their marriage and the well-being of their other kids, to try to make this impossible situation work. Let’s not pretend that with enough grit and determination you can make everything okay no matter how profound the SN. I

It may not be "ok" but you do what you have to do to make it work. If I had to choose my husband over my child, which thankfully I don't, I would choose my child. What are you teaching your other kids? What are you teaching this child? What kind of person are you to make a commitment and not follow through?

If your child had severe SN, would you just throw up your hands and walk away so you can have a better and easier life or would you make it work? Once you adopt, this is your child.

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Here’s a clip where she talks about him switching to a different therapist because it’s cheaper.

She’s got a 5k bracelet on.

https://m.imgur.com/a/xVWbBDx

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Anonymous wrote:The crazy thing is, she will be making bank off this announcement. Think of all the clicks she is getting.

Sponsors don’t want hate clicks.

Who is hate clicking? I read through her YouTube comments and 95% are loving and nice comments.

They must be doing some heavy deleting. If I wasn't worried for the innocent children still with her I might be tempted to post some harsh words, myself.

Wtf are you even talking about? Why would you be worried about her children? They don’t abuse their kids. This is as simple as an extremely special needs child, needing a better fit.


“After multiple assessments, after multiple evaluations, numerous medical professionals have felt that he needed a different fit and that with his medical needs, he needed more.”

You realize that is code for they were not willing to put in the effort for this kid and get him the therapies and change their lifestyle like most good parents would, it was easier to get rid of him using the fancy term rehoming. Look at the code - multiple assessments and evaluations. No discussion about therapies, changing their routine or lifestyle, etc. They wanted a perfect child to fit into their world they could use to make money and when he didn't fit that mold and was not an easy fix they got rid of him.

Many families have kids with lots of SN, more than he does and they do what they need to do to make it work.

Many families with kids with lots of SN sacrifice everything, including their marriage and the well-being of their other kids, to try to make this impossible situation work. Let’s not pretend that with enough grit and determination you can make everything okay no matter how profound the SN.

It may not be "ok" but you do what you have to do to make it work. If I had to choose my husband over my child, which thankfully I don't, I would choose my child. What are you teaching your other kids? What are you teaching this child? What kind of person are you to make a commitment and not follow through?

If your child had severe SN, would you just throw up your hands and walk away so you can have a better and easier life or would you make it work? Once you adopt, this is your child.

I posted already that my family did adopt a child with SN. My sibling. Who lives with me now because our parents are no longer able to handle it. So don’t preach to me about sacrifice.

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Anonymous wrote:Here’s a clip where she talks about him switching to a different therapist because it’s cheaper.

She’s got a 5k bracelet on.

https://m.imgur.com/a/xVWbBDx

I have one of these. It was $8 from Taobao.

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She is so hawt!

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Anonymous wrote:Who adopts a BOY from China? Was he special needs

he has autism

OMG I can't bear to watch, I hate this who does this. Either adopt or don't but to send a child back to their country, who is gonna adopt him now?

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Anonymous wrote:The crazy thing is, she will be making bank off this announcement. Think of all the clicks she is getting.

Sponsors don’t want hate clicks.

Who is hate clicking? I read through her YouTube comments and 95% are loving and nice comments.

They must be doing some heavy deleting. If I wasn't worried for the innocent children still with her I might be tempted to post some harsh words, myself.

Wtf are you even talking about? Why would you be worried about her children? They don’t abuse their kids. This is as simple as an extremely special needs child, needing a better fit.


“After multiple assessments, after multiple evaluations, numerous medical professionals have felt that he needed a different fit and that with his medical needs, he needed more.”

You realize that is code for they were not willing to put in the effort for this kid and get him the therapies and change their lifestyle like most good parents would, it was easier to get rid of him using the fancy term rehoming. Look at the code - multiple assessments and evaluations. No discussion about therapies, changing their routine or lifestyle, etc. They wanted a perfect child to fit into their world they could use to make money and when he didn't fit that mold and was not an easy fix they got rid of him.

Many families have kids with lots of SN, more than he does and they do what they need to do to make it work.

Many families with kids with lots of SN sacrifice everything, including their marriage and the well-being of their other kids, to try to make this impossible situation work. Let’s not pretend that with enough grit and determination you can make everything okay no matter how profound the SN.

It may not be "ok" but you do what you have to do to make it work. If I had to choose my husband over my child, which thankfully I don't, I would choose my child. What are you teaching your other kids? What are you teaching this child? What kind of person are you to make a commitment and not follow through?

If your child had severe SN, would you just throw up your hands and walk away so you can have a better and easier life or would you make it work? Once you adopt, this is your child.

I posted already that my family did adopt a child with SN. My sibling. Who lives with me now because our parents are no longer able to handle it. So don’t preach to me about sacrifice.

Exactly the point. Your parents nor you just gave up and walked away. You all made the best of a bad/difficult situation.

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The kid probably got aggressive towards the baby. Which is exactly why experts recommend NOT getting pregnant right after you adopt.

It’s their own fault they’re in this position. Lots of SN parents find out later and just have to roll with it. They knew from the start that he had severe issues.

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Anonymous wrote:She is so hawt!

And has the brainz to match.

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Anonymous wrote:The crazy thing is, she will be making bank off this announcement. Think of all the clicks she is getting.

Sponsors don’t want hate clicks.

Who is hate clicking? I read through her YouTube comments and 95% are loving and nice comments.

They must be doing some heavy deleting. If I wasn't worried for the innocent children still with her I might be tempted to post some harsh words, myself.

Wtf are you even talking about? Why would you be worried about her children? They don’t abuse their kids. This is as simple as an extremely special needs child, needing a better fit.


“After multiple assessments, after multiple evaluations, numerous medical professionals have felt that he needed a different fit and that with his medical needs, he needed more.”

You realize that is code for they were not willing to put in the effort for this kid and get him the therapies and change their lifestyle like most good parents would, it was easier to get rid of him using the fancy term rehoming. Look at the code - multiple assessments and evaluations. No discussion about therapies, changing their routine or lifestyle, etc. They wanted a perfect child to fit into their world they could use to make money and when he didn't fit that mold and was not an easy fix they got rid of him.

Many families have kids with lots of SN, more than he does and they do what they need to do to make it work.

Many families with kids with lots of SN sacrifice everything, including their marriage and the well-being of their other kids, to try to make this impossible situation work. Let’s not pretend that with enough grit and determination you can make everything okay no matter how profound the SN.

It may not be "ok" but you do what you have to do to make it work. If I had to choose my husband over my child, which thankfully I don't, I would choose my child. What are you teaching your other kids? What are you teaching this child? What kind of person are you to make a commitment and not follow through?

If your child had severe SN, would you just throw up your hands and walk away so you can have a better and easier life or would you make it work? Once you adopt, this is your child.

I posted already that my family did adopt a child with SN. My sibling. Who lives with me now because our parents are no longer able to handle it. So don’t preach to me about sacrifice.

Exactly the point. Your parents nor you just gave up and walked away. You all made the best of a bad/difficult situation.

Yes so I can speak with authority when I say it is not my job to police how much sacrifice others need to make. Nor is it yours.

[Anonymous]

Is raising a child with autism really this hard?

I mean I’ve obviously heard it is very difficult but I’ve never heard of someone giving their kid away because of it.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The crazy thing is, she will be making bank off this announcement. Think of all the clicks she is getting.

Sponsors don’t want hate clicks.

Who is hate clicking? I read through her YouTube comments and 95% are loving and nice comments.

They must be doing some heavy deleting. If I wasn't worried for the innocent children still with her I might be tempted to post some harsh words, myself.

Wtf are you even talking about? Why would you be worried about her children? They don’t abuse their kids. This is as simple as an extremely special needs child, needing a better fit.


“After multiple assessments, after multiple evaluations, numerous medical professionals have felt that he needed a different fit and that with his medical needs, he needed more.”

You realize that is code for they were not willing to put in the effort for this kid and get him the therapies and change their lifestyle like most good parents would, it was easier to get rid of him using the fancy term rehoming. Look at the code - multiple assessments and evaluations. No discussion about therapies, changing their routine or lifestyle, etc. They wanted a perfect child to fit into their world they could use to make money and when he didn't fit that mold and was not an easy fix they got rid of him.

Many families have kids with lots of SN, more than he does and they do what they need to do to make it work.

Many families with kids with lots of SN sacrifice everything, including their marriage and the well-being of their other kids, to try to make this impossible situation work. Let’s not pretend that with enough grit and determination you can make everything okay no matter how profound the SN.

It may not be "ok" but you do what you have to do to make it work. If I had to choose my husband over my child, which thankfully I don't, I would choose my child. What are you teaching your other kids? What are you teaching this child? What kind of person are you to make a commitment and not follow through?

If your child had severe SN, would you just throw up your hands and walk away so you can have a better and easier life or would you make it work? Once you adopt, this is your child.

I posted already that my family did adopt a child with SN. My sibling. Who lives with me now because our parents are no longer able to handle it. So don’t preach to me about sacrifice.

Exactly the point. Your parents nor you just gave up and walked away. You all made the best of a bad/difficult situation.

Yes so I can speak with authority when I say it is not my job to police how much sacrifice others need to make. Nor is it yours.

She's an influencer makes her money of YOUTUBE, sickening! IF all this was private and wasn't a whole online video process for the views! UGH disgusted

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is raising a child with autism really this hard?

I mean I’ve obviously heard it is very difficult but I’ve never heard of someone giving their kid away because of it.

No one ever said it was autism alone. And he has the most severe grade of autism.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The kid probably got aggressive towards the baby. Which is exactly why experts recommend NOT getting pregnant right after you adopt.

It’s their own fault they’re in this position. Lots of SN parents find out later and just have to roll with it. They knew from the start that he had severe issues.

“I just let all that go in one ear and out the other.”

M. Stauffer

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Anonymous wrote:The crazy thing is, she will be making bank off this announcement. Think of all the clicks she is getting.

Sponsors don’t want hate clicks.

Who is hate clicking? I read through her YouTube comments and 95% are loving and nice comments.

They must be doing some heavy deleting. If I wasn't worried for the innocent children still with her I might be tempted to post some harsh words, myself.

Wtf are you even talking about? Why would you be worried about her children? They don’t abuse their kids. This is as simple as an extremely special needs child, needing a better fit.


“After multiple assessments, after multiple evaluations, numerous medical professionals have felt that he needed a different fit and that with his medical needs, he needed more.”

You realize that is code for they were not willing to put in the effort for this kid and get him the therapies and change their lifestyle like most good parents would, it was easier to get rid of him using the fancy term rehoming. Look at the code - multiple assessments and evaluations. No discussion about therapies, changing their routine or lifestyle, etc. They wanted a perfect child to fit into their world they could use to make money and when he didn't fit that mold and was not an easy fix they got rid of him.

Many families have kids with lots of SN, more than he does and they do what they need to do to make it work.

Many families with kids with lots of SN sacrifice everything, including their marriage and the well-being of their other kids, to try to make this impossible situation work. Let’s not pretend that with enough grit and determination you can make everything okay no matter how profound the SN.

It may not be "ok" but you do what you have to do to make it work. If I had to choose my husband over my child, which thankfully I don't, I would choose my child. What are you teaching your other kids? What are you teaching this child? What kind of person are you to make a commitment and not follow through?

If your child had severe SN, would you just throw up your hands and walk away so you can have a better and easier life or would you make it work? Once you adopt, this is your child.

I posted already that my family did adopt a child with SN. My sibling. Who lives with me now because our parents are no longer able to handle it. So don’t preach to me about sacrifice.

Exactly the point. Your parents nor you just gave up and walked away. You all made the best of a bad/difficult situation.

Yes so I can speak with authority when I say it is not my job to police how much sacrifice others need to make. Nor is it yours.

She's an influencer makes her money of YOUTUBE, sickening! IF all this was private and wasn't a whole online video process for the views! UGH disgusted

CLICKBATE headline for post when they discuss the return of their baby for views - who would do this! Is nothing sacred anymore!