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Well, when you have posters above talking about Alex(a), sticking their fingers in their ears and singing "XX = girls LALALALALA!" and arguing that their pre-teen daughters see other players that are "corpulent" and "man"-ish so they must be trans, it's not really helping your cause. |
| My daughter's best friend in Kindergarten was Larlo, who was a few months younger than her. By second grade, Larlo was Larla and had 20 pounds and 2 inches on my (above average) tall second grader. Larla absolutely had a physical advantage over all the xx girls in their grade. |
I think science is still figuring it out. I wouldn’t want APS to do anything less inclusive than Virginia or the NCAA in the meantime though. My suspicions are though that some XX girls are gonna lose out before there’s sufficient scientific consensus on the issue. But I hope I’m wrong and XY girls can compete without enjoying significant physical advantages over their XX peers. |
Cool. Anecdotes aren't data. |
All you have to do is look at the standard growth charts for boys and girls to see that on average, boys are taller and heavier than girls at the same age. Why are you trying to deny reality? |
And on average, the girls who make their teams are stronger and taller than the other girls. I'm not trying to deny reality. I'm trying to say we should create science-based policies that are as fair as possible to BOTH cis and trans kids. And I'm acknowledging that that policy will likely impose burdens on both groups. But we need to act like the needs of trans kids, and the fairness we show to trans kids, is as important as the support we give cis kids. Trans kids have already been through a lot. We should keep that in mind. |
Sure. But when you have the public shaming bigot screaming crowd refusing to acknowledge any physical differences between XX and XY girls (despite standard growth charts for boys and girls) and commenting that any discussion of the issue will make transgender people commit suicide, it ain’t painting your cause in the best light either. |
That's fair. |
It's so obvious only ideological zealots deny it. |
EXACTLY. Now, it doesn't matter if they are "set in motion at conception" or later. What matters is that the growth trajectories look very different for boys and for girls, and some hormone treatments DO NOT change that biological reality. Pete Sampras or Andre Agassi with tetosterone supression therapy do not Maria Sharapova become. |
(Especially before reaching adulthood) |
And some do. Are these differences meaningful? At what ages? How meaningful? If you want to have a discussion, that can't just be "I've discussed my position END OF DISCUSSION" |
We aren’t discussing fairy tales. |
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If you want to get an idea of the differences and how early they come into play...
Have a good 7th grade boys basketball team play a great freshman girl’s team. you would think it would be a close game, and you will be shocked to see that it won’t be. The girls will get creamed. Writing from experience. |
HS boys, probably. 7th grade, no way. |