GF broke up with me because of money problems

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
And “hot women” don’t stay hot forever. When time catches up with them they get replaced by a younger model.
That’s why I laugh at my friends with daughters.

Yep! Men age like fine wine while women age like milk.

Your ex-wife is doing just fine, and your wine has soured.

Pity.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, you were an awful human being. Your gf of three years was on a very limited salary while in grad school and OBVIOUSLY got into debt keeping up your lifestyle.

You may have paid for some things, but did you ever stop to think about the fact that someone making 24k per year has ZERO disposable income? No, you didn't. You didn't care, you just wanted to sleep with a 21-24 year old.

Your only two decent options were to pay for everything or live like a grad student while dating her. What you did was put her under constant stress and you probably barely even noticed. That is why she hates you now. You have no empathy and you suck.

Who put a gun to her head and forced her to spend this money?

OP has said he wants her back. I am simply trying to help him. 8k really isn't bad and his ex gf wasn't asking him to pay all of it. She wanted him to help her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
And “hot women” don’t stay hot forever. When time catches up with them they get replaced by a younger model.
That’s why I laugh at my friends with daughters.

Yep! Men age like fine wine while women age like milk.

Your ex-wife is doing just fine, and your wine has soured.

Pity.

Yeah, keep telling yourself that.

[Anonymous]

Bro, I was with a lazy white American. He was always broke, one time jobs, mommy's boy who will give him money, do his laundry, etc. I was always bu nos side, encouraging him, I was young naive and it was my first serious relationship. If I had experience I would had broken up with him and see the red flags. But i didnt, i was in love. But he lied to me and couldn't forget about his crush. Hes such a loser. I feel bad for him and I already forgot him.

Dude, you are important too. Improve yourself, focus on you and then pursue a relationship. In a relationship you give a lot. Good luck in everything! You have 2 arms, 2 legs right? Use them. Just like my mom says to me when I'm feeling down or upset lol.

[Anonymous]

Why you not married? One of you has committed issues. Maybe she asked because wants to feel like a wife, asking for help. Since you couldn't fulfill that and not even asking her to marry you for 3 long as years then she feels you are not serious and she's not happy. Every girl dreams to be married after 6 months. 3 years is a waste. Stop using her you douchbag, I hope she finds a better man with balls.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You've been dating for 3 years, you don't live together, and she's in grad school at the moment. Most strong couples help each other out during grad school. It sounds like she was testing you and you failed.

Yup, he fails. He doesn't sound like a partner. I would never date a guy that long. He sounds like hes not committing in the relationship.
She will find a better man who can commit in the relationship.

[Anonymous]

She's probably hating you and feeling disappointing for falling fir you. OP your a failure.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, you were an awful human being. Your gf of three years was on a very limited salary while in grad school and OBVIOUSLY got into debt keeping up your lifestyle.

You may have paid for some things, but did you ever stop to think about the fact that someone making 24k per year has ZERO disposable income? No, you didn't. You didn't care, you just wanted to sleep with a 21-24 year old.

Your only two decent options were to pay for everything or live like a grad student while dating her. What you did was put her under constant stress and you probably barely even noticed. That is why she hates you now. You have no empathy and you suck.

Who put a gun to her head and forced her to spend this money?

OP has said he wants her back. I am simply trying to help him. 8k really isn't bad and his ex gf wasn't asking him to pay all of it. She wanted him to help her.

Sure if the genders were reversed, I am sure you would be in the boyfriend camp! LOL Equal rights means the girlfriend is a lazy loser.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why you not married? One of you has committed issues. Maybe she asked because wants to feel like a wife, asking for help. Since you couldn't fulfill that and not even asking her to marry you for 3 long as years then she feels you are not serious and she's not happy. Every girl dreams to be married after 6 months. 3 years is a waste. Stop using her you douchbag, I hope she finds a better man with balls.

Op here. My gf is only 24. She's not ready to be married yet. We did live together briefly but she's in grad school in Baltimore now. She usually stays at my home on the weekends.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why you not married? One of you has committed issues. Maybe she asked because wants to feel like a wife, asking for help. Since you couldn't fulfill that and not even asking her to marry you for 3 long as years then she feels you are not serious and she's not happy. Every girl dreams to be married after 6 months. 3 years is a waste. Stop using her you douchbag, I hope she finds a better man with balls.

Op here. My gf is only 24. She's not ready to be married yet. We did live together briefly but she's in grad school in Baltimore now. She usually stays at my home on the weekends.

She's not your gf. She dumped you. Move on.