Do you tell the wife that her wonderful husband cheated on her for two years?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:All I can say is that if you are going to say something to the wife, please be specific and do it because you are coming from a good place. I got an anonymous email once claiming that my husband cheated. No details about who, when, where etc and when I responded all I got back was riddles and mean-spirited things, i.e. "think about who he knows in the office", "not everything that happens at work is stressful, it can be quite enjoyable", "has anyone given him a present lately" etc. It was really stressful and horrible and took me a long time to get over. There was never any evidence and I ultimately decided to move on, but it still haunts me at times. To this day I don't know who did this. Oh, and I was 7 months pregnant with a high risk pregnancy too...

This sounds like me. It nearly killed me, and I was six months along a high-risk pregnancy. I thought I would lose the baby.

NEVER ever ever send an anonymous note to someone about anything. It's cowardly, it's unethical, and it's just a horrible thing for a human being to do to someone else. It's abhorrent to me.

Could you check the IP address of the email & see where it originated from or who sent it?

I tried but it was sent to my work email and I didn't want to get IT involved.. The person also sent messages to my Facebook from a made up account. I only found those messages part since it had gone to my other folder.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:So text the wife from a burner phone?

No, that happened to me - anonymous email - and it was just mean and horrible. I to this day have no idea if whoever did it was telling the truth or just being spiteful.

You don't know if your spouse cheated on you?

Nope. I'm the PP who got the anonymous emails with riddles.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:All I can say is that if you are going to say something to the wife, please be specific and do it because you are coming from a good place. I got an anonymous email once claiming that my husband cheated. No details about who, when, where etc and when I responded all I got back was riddles and mean-spirited things, i.e. "think about who he knows in the office", "not everything that happens at work is stressful, it can be quite enjoyable", "has anyone given him a present lately" etc. It was really stressful and horrible and took me a long time to get over. There was never any evidence and I ultimately decided to move on, but it still haunts me at times. To this day I don't know who did this. Oh, and I was 7 months pregnant with a high risk pregnancy too...

This sounds like me. It nearly killed me, and I was six months along a high-risk pregnancy. I thought I would lose the baby.

NEVER ever ever send an anonymous note to someone about anything. It's cowardly, it's unethical, and it's just a horrible thing for a human being to do to someone else. It's abhorrent to me.

Could you check the IP address of the email & see where it originated from or who sent it?

I tried but it was sent to my work email and I didn't want to get IT involved.. The person also sent messages to my Facebook from a made up account. I only found those messages part since it had gone to my other folder.

Wow. There are two of us. I'm the other woman who got an email when I was pregnant. I got it at work too, and that pained me more than anything. I was so ashamed that IT and my colleagues would find out.

NEVER SEND AN ANONYMOUS EMAIL. It's so cowardly and evil. If you feel strongly enough to say something, stand up and say it to someone's face as you destroy their life. Look them in the eye. And then see how you sleep at night.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:All I can say is that if you are going to say something to the wife, please be specific and do it because you are coming from a good place. I got an anonymous email once claiming that my husband cheated. No details about who, when, where etc and when I responded all I got back was riddles and mean-spirited things, i.e. "think about who he knows in the office", "not everything that happens at work is stressful, it can be quite enjoyable", "has anyone given him a present lately" etc. It was really stressful and horrible and took me a long time to get over. There was never any evidence and I ultimately decided to move on, but it still haunts me at times. To this day I don't know who did this. Oh, and I was 7 months pregnant with a high risk pregnancy too...

This sounds like me. It nearly killed me, and I was six months along a high-risk pregnancy. I thought I would lose the baby.

NEVER ever ever send an anonymous note to someone about anything. It's cowardly, it's unethical, and it's just a horrible thing for a human being to do to someone else. It's abhorrent to me.

Could you check the IP address of the email & see where it originated from or who sent it?

I tried but it was sent to my work email and I didn't want to get IT involved.. The person also sent messages to my Facebook from a made up account. I only found those messages part since it had gone to my other folder.

Wow. There are two of us. I'm the other woman who got an email when I was pregnant. I got it at work too, and that pained me more than anything. I was so ashamed that IT and my colleagues would find out.

NEVER SEND AN ANONYMOUS EMAIL. It's so cowardly and evil. If you feel strongly enough to say something, stand up and say it to someone's face as you destroy their life. Look them in the eye. And then see how you sleep at night.

Wow, can't believe hos similar our stories are. People suck. I really wish I knew who did this. And I agree with everything you just said!

[Anonymous]

Yes. Tell. Anonymous is fine! Relative was cheating on spouse. Anonymous email alerted spouse to the TRUTH! Sad situation but at least spouse knew! Please tell even if anonymously.