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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]All I can say is that if you are going to say something to the wife, please be specific and do it because you are coming from a good place. I got an anonymous email once claiming that my husband cheated. No details about who, when, where etc and when I responded all I got back was riddles and mean-spirited things, i.e. "think about who he knows in the office", "not everything that happens at work is stressful, it can be quite enjoyable", "has anyone given him a present lately" etc. It was really stressful and horrible and took me a long time to get over. There was never any evidence and I ultimately decided to move on, but it still haunts me at times. To this day I don't know who did this. Oh, and I was 7 months pregnant with a high risk pregnancy too... [/quote] This sounds like me. It nearly killed me, and I was six months along a high-risk pregnancy. I thought I would lose the baby. NEVER ever ever send an anonymous note to someone about anything. It's cowardly, it's unethical, and it's just a horrible thing for a human being to do to someone else. It's abhorrent to me. [/quote] Could you check the IP address of the email & see where it originated from or who sent it? [/quote] I tried but it was sent to my work email and I didn't want to get IT involved.. The person also sent messages to my Facebook from a made up account. I only found those messages part since it had gone to my other folder.[/quote] Wow. There are two of us. I'm the other woman who got an email when I was pregnant. I got it at work too, and that pained me more than anything. I was so ashamed that IT and my colleagues would find out. NEVER SEND AN ANONYMOUS EMAIL. It's so cowardly and evil. If you feel strongly enough to say something, stand up and say it to someone's face as you destroy their life. Look them in the eye. And then see how you sleep at night. [/quote]
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