Baby will only nap with cat in crib.. would you allow it?

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Anonymous wrote:Gross

And dangerous.

Yes, agreed!

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Anonymous wrote:OP my friend just lost her child last night due to SIDS. Please check the guidelines. No mother should go through what my friend is going through. Your baby is so gorgeous. Please be safe.

That is horrible and my worst nightmare. What happened? I am so sorry for your friend.

I am well aware of the guidelines. My daughter has been teething, and since I started this thread she has pretty much only taken naps in my own bed with me watching. Crib isn't even an option.

We're not sure yet. She's not answering messages or receiving visitors.

We co-sleep with both kids and I'm a strict follower of the guidelines to avoid SIDS and suffocation. Seeing all that stuff around your baby plus your pet gave me chills.

Wishing you all the best.

You co-sleep with your husband in the bed? Isn't that strictly against SIDS guidelines? I thought it was breastfeeding mom and baby only in order to be safe.

FWIW, the child is never left alone to nap with the cat or with blankets/pillows/stuffed animals, and at night she is alone in her crib, also without blankets, pillows, lovies, cat, etc.

Good for you, guys.

Co-sleeping is not necessarily bed sharing. They're two different things.

You should keep reading about the subject. Babies who die of SIDS and suffocation are usually napping or sleeping in a different environment.

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Anonymous wrote:OP my friend just lost her child last night due to SIDS. Please check the guidelines. No mother should go through what my friend is going through. Your baby is so gorgeous. Please be safe.

If your friend just lost her child last night, how do they know it's SIDS? It's not like it leaves purple spots or something - it would be some time before a diagnosis was made, and even then it's a diagnosis of exclusion.

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gross

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I think your cat should be starting her own blog, on sleep training issues.

BTW, what's the cat's name?

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Is it nap time yet?

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Anonymous wrote:OP my friend just lost her child last night due to SIDS. Please check the guidelines. No mother should go through what my friend is going through. Your baby is so gorgeous. Please be safe.

If your friend just lost her child last night, how do they know it's SIDS? It's not like it leaves purple spots or something - it would be some time before a diagnosis was made, and even then it's a diagnosis of exclusion.

Aaaand another nice thread gets wrecked by someone who doesn't recognize that there is a time and a place for personal troubles, and thinks that the whole world should stop right now and recognize that bad stuff happens. (Hint: Someone else's fun thread is NOT the place. And a tip: you may think you're "raising awareness" by publicizing your friend's grief, but thank you, we were already aware, and, what you're really doing is flaunting your friend's grief to get attention for yourself. Go away.)

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Anonymous wrote:OP my friend just lost her child last night due to SIDS. Please check the guidelines. No mother should go through what my friend is going through. Your baby is so gorgeous. Please be safe.

If your friend just lost her child last night, how do they know it's SIDS? It's not like it leaves purple spots or something - it would be some time before a diagnosis was made, and even then it's a diagnosis of exclusion.

I don't know how they know. This is all she said. Not sure what kind of person you are but I would never question her at this moment.

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Anonymous wrote:OP my friend just lost her child last night due to SIDS. Please check the guidelines. No mother should go through what my friend is going through. Your baby is so gorgeous. Please be safe.

If your friend just lost her child last night, how do they know it's SIDS? It's not like it leaves purple spots or something - it would be some time before a diagnosis was made, and even then it's a diagnosis of exclusion.

Aaaand another nice thread gets wrecked by someone who doesn't recognize that there is a time and a place for personal troubles, and thinks that the whole world should stop right now and recognize that bad stuff happens. (Hint: Someone else's fun thread is NOT the place. And a tip: you may think you're "raising awareness" by publicizing your friend's grief, but thank you, we were already aware, and, what you're really doing is flaunting your friend's grief to get attention for yourself. Go away.)

From all your stupid BS let me emphasize this.

No, not everybody is aware. OP is an example. She didn't even know that co-sleeping and bed sharing are not the same thing.

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Oh no! Our thread has been hijacked! Lets keep this just cute baby pics please!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think your cat should be starting her own blog, on sleep training issues.

BTW, what's the cat's name?

His name is Baby

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP my friend just lost her child last night due to SIDS. Please check the guidelines. No mother should go through what my friend is going through. Your baby is so gorgeous. Please be safe.

If your friend just lost her child last night, how do they know it's SIDS? It's not like it leaves purple spots or something - it would be some time before a diagnosis was made, and even then it's a diagnosis of exclusion.

Aaaand another nice thread gets wrecked by someone who doesn't recognize that there is a time and a place for personal troubles, and thinks that the whole world should stop right now and recognize that bad stuff happens. (Hint: Someone else's fun thread is NOT the place. And a tip: you may think you're "raising awareness" by publicizing your friend's grief, but thank you, we were already aware, and, what you're really doing is flaunting your friend's grief to get attention for yourself. Go away.)

From all your stupid BS let me emphasize this.

No, not everybody is aware. OP is an example. She didn't even know that co-sleeping and bed sharing are not the same thing.

if she doesn't use either, does it matter?

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OP, in last picture is DD laughing or crying? Please do not let the doom and gloom PPs keep you from updates. These snaps are Happy Pills.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP my friend just lost her child last night due to SIDS. Please check the guidelines. No mother should go through what my friend is going through. Your baby is so gorgeous. Please be safe.

If your friend just lost her child last night, how do they know it's SIDS? It's not like it leaves purple spots or something - it would be some time before a diagnosis was made, and even then it's a diagnosis of exclusion.

Aaaand another nice thread gets wrecked by someone who doesn't recognize that there is a time and a place for personal troubles, and thinks that the whole world should stop right now and recognize that bad stuff happens. (Hint: Someone else's fun thread is NOT the place. And a tip: you may think you're "raising awareness" by publicizing your friend's grief, but thank you, we were already aware, and, what you're really doing is flaunting your friend's grief to get attention for yourself. Go away.)

It's ok. If my 7 1/2 month old dies of SIDS while I am standing over her with a camera, I will let you all know so PP can say I told you so.

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Anonymous wrote:OP, in last picture is DD laughing or crying? Please do not let the doom and gloom PPs keep you from updates. These snaps are Happy Pills.

Laughing hysterically!