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This. Run the NPC. Only ED your first choice. If you make too much for need-based aid and still want to shop around/negotiate, ED is not for you. No matter how many times you pout that it's not fair. |
I agree but my objection is with counselor's pushing kids to do exactly that. It is not the kids themselves coming up with this "strategy." I think ED is a fantastic for a student who really does have a clear first choice. I just don't believe, based on convos with most kids/parents I know who have been through it is the situation for many kids who ED, even more of a problem for the EDII round. |
Maybe the private school counselors aren't that good after all then. Public school counselors do not push kids into ED. At all. |
Private school counselors definitely push and have reason to- they and their schools are very much judged by where their graduates go to college. Their job is to get as many kids as possible into T50 (T20 for the top 10-20% of the class), it is not to maximize individual outcomes. It works but parents have to really understand and know their own kid as they go through the process. |
Sounds like a parenting/school related issue. Not an inherent problem with the ED model. |
+1000 |
Not really! Those who do not like ED or think it's unfair are typically in one category: Those who want to search for merit but also don't want to miss out on the slight advantage ED might provide. it is perfectly fine to need to/want to compare merit offers from schools. But you have to be informed about how it works and understand that most T25 schools do NOT offer merit (sure Duke has 10-15 merit scholarships, but that's it for 2K freshman, so in reality, they do not really offer merit). So if the NPC says you owe Full pay that is what you owe. It's the same for ED as well as RD/EA. So what those people really want is to see if the "next tier" of schools offers their kid good merit, and if it's a "good enough school with good enough merit to make it worthwhile attending" otherwise they are willing to find a way to be Full pay at the T25 that their kid really wants to attend. Except that is not how ED works. If you want to compare offers then you have EA/RD as an option. So yes, the only reason someone thinks ED is "unfair" is because of financials. But that is a "you choice". Everyone has the choice to accept the NPC for any school and apply ED (if it's an option). It helps both students and the schools. |
+1000 Life isn't always "fair" Also, those people would be much happier if they didn't waste their time and energy complaining about gaining admission to a school that has single digit acceptance rates---odds are you are not getting admission (heck, my own 1540/3.98UW/8AP kid didn't get into 4 schools with single digit acceptance rates, they are successful and very happy at their next choices just outside the T30) |
I agree this is the issue and have not seen anyone directly refute it. |
Oh dear god! If a kid is "qualified" for a T25-30 school, they should be quite capable of understanding all of this. If not, they will have issues with many colleges they might attend. And yes, if you don't get in ED1, then you have a choice to make about ED2. My own kid had to do that. They could have ED2 to their "actual best choice school" where they ultimately ended up (I think it was the perfect fit school for them and I saw that both times we visited---they just lit up differently after and during the visit and I could tell it was their place). They were deferred from their ED1, knew that an acceptance during RD wasn't very likely (I'm an alum so that's likely why the "deferral"), but my kid wanted to see/know if they would get in. So they didn't ED2 to their next Top choice, because they already had 3 great acceptances in hand and knew they would ultimately be fine at any of those and they also knew the ED2 choice was likely going to come thru in EA (T30-40 with acceptance rates in the 35% range). They are now at what would have been their ED2 choice. So all is good. But they would have had access to a better freshman dorm had they been accepted via ED2. Then again, they might have an entirely different group of friends had they done that. |
+2 Financials is by far the biggest gripe, and I still keep seeing posts that ED benefits "rich" kids. That's not true, because the need-based financial aid package is the same no matter when you apply. Merit aid has nothing to do with need, and is a totally separate issue. ED is typically used for top-tier schools that don't offer merit aid anyway. The other, more tangential issue is the claim that counselors push kids to ED to "lesser" schools that are not their first choice. That was not our experience--DC's counselor told them to aim higher for ED. For the counselors that do recommend aiming lower, that is often good strategy but you are free to ignore it. Game theory is the right descriptor. You can take a risky approach, applying to a high reach that offers the lowest odds of acceptance, or a conservative approach, applying to a lower-ranked school with higher odds of acceptance. You can understand why counselors often advocate for the latter but every kid/family can decide for themselves which approach they prefer to take. Some of it is being realistic about where you stand relative to your cohort. I personally think kids should only ED to their first choice school, period. But if a kid wants to be more strategic, that's understandable. Just be absolutely sure there will be no regrets. A counselor can't force a kid to do anything. |
Correct. I would never hire anyone who told me that they did this. Granted the subject would be unlikely to come up. |
Well real human beings in admissions offices have told us otherwise. Multiple, at different schools including a service academy. Also our college counselor. So, I believe them rather than AI. |
Every school wants to pad its stats. My kid got a letter from Harvard Law School asking him to apply. He correctly thought that there was no way he would be accepted and didn’t bother. He did attend another T-14. |