Husband doesn’t want me to get surgery

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My wife wanted a breast aug. I wasn’t thrilled with the idea of her going under the knife. I tried to talk her out of it but its something that was really important to her. She ended up getting the surgery and honestly she looks great. She wasn’t doing it for attention either, she’s very confident and accomplished as a person. She was trying to even out the way her body looks.

Eh, I think the money would be better spent on therapy.

I’m sure everybody can use some therapy. Overall, she’s a wonderful person.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My wife wanted a breast aug. I wasn’t thrilled with the idea of her going under the knife. I tried to talk her out of it but its something that was really important to her. She ended up getting the surgery and honestly she looks great. She wasn’t doing it for attention either, she’s very confident and accomplished as a person. She was trying to even out the way her body looks.

So happy for her and for you to be reasonable and respective of her life choices! We live once - everyone should do what makes them feel better and more confident in their body.
I don’t regret a second doing my procedure in my 40s

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My wife wanted a breast aug. I wasn’t thrilled with the idea of her going under the knife. I tried to talk her out of it but its something that was really important to her. She ended up getting the surgery and honestly she looks great. She wasn’t doing it for attention either, she’s very confident and accomplished as a person. She was trying to even out the way her body looks.

So happy for her and for you to be reasonable and respective of her life choices! We live once - everyone should do what makes them feel better and more confident in their body.
I don’t regret a second doing my procedure in my 40s

What did you have done?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My wife wanted a breast aug. I wasn’t thrilled with the idea of her going under the knife. I tried to talk her out of it but its something that was really important to her. She ended up getting the surgery and honestly she looks great. She wasn’t doing it for attention either, she’s very confident and accomplished as a person. She was trying to even out the way her body looks.

So happy for her and for you to be reasonable and respective of her life choices! We live once - everyone should do what makes them feel better and more confident in their body.
I don’t regret a second doing my procedure in my 40s

What did you have done?

Breast augmentation and lipo on stomach “mommy makeover”

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My wife wanted a breast aug. I wasn’t thrilled with the idea of her going under the knife. I tried to talk her out of it but its something that was really important to her. She ended up getting the surgery and honestly she looks great. She wasn’t doing it for attention either, she’s very confident and accomplished as a person. She was trying to even out the way her body looks.

So happy for her and for you to be reasonable and respective of her life choices! We live once - everyone should do what makes them feel better and more confident in their body.
I don’t regret a second doing my procedure in my 40s

What did you have done?

Breast augmentation and lipo on stomach “mommy makeover”

Are you happy with the results?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My wife wanted a breast aug. I wasn’t thrilled with the idea of her going under the knife. I tried to talk her out of it but its something that was really important to her. She ended up getting the surgery and honestly she looks great. She wasn’t doing it for attention either, she’s very confident and accomplished as a person. She was trying to even out the way her body looks.

So happy for her and for you to be reasonable and respective of her life choices! We live once - everyone should do what makes them feel better and more confident in their body.
I don’t regret a second doing my procedure in my 40s

What did you have done?

Breast augmentation and lipo on stomach “mommy makeover”

Are you happy with the results?

Yes, very much ! I’m at my top lifetime physical shape. Also it made workouts easier (the belly was on the way when I tried to do Pilates etc ).
My only recommendation - get the smelliest implants that fit your body in natural way. Large boobs have higher complications rate and add weight load on your back and neck. My friends who went several sizes up were less satisfied. I pretty much stayed in my natural size and just added perkiness - didn’t have to tailor my dresses etc.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My wife wanted a breast aug. I wasn’t thrilled with the idea of her going under the knife. I tried to talk her out of it but its something that was really important to her. She ended up getting the surgery and honestly she looks great. She wasn’t doing it for attention either, she’s very confident and accomplished as a person. She was trying to even out the way her body looks.

So happy for her and for you to be reasonable and respective of her life choices! We live once - everyone should do what makes them feel better and more confident in their body.
I don’t regret a second doing my procedure in my 40s

What did you have done?

Breast augmentation and lipo on stomach “mommy makeover”

Are you happy with the results?

Yes, very much ! I’m at my top lifetime physical shape. Also it made workouts easier (the belly was on the way when I tried to do Pilates etc ).
My only recommendation - get the smelliest implants that fit your body in natural way. Large boobs have higher complications rate and add weight load on your back and neck. My friends who went several sizes up were less satisfied. I pretty much stayed in my natural size and just added perkiness - didn’t have to tailor my dresses etc.

*the smallest

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Who are these two or three people who are so obsessively pedantic on this topic? "GOTCHA!!!! YOU HAD TWO PROCEDURES AT THE SAME TIME, SO NOW YOU'RE AN ADDICT." Lord almighty, shut up.

Nobody "gotcha'd" in allcaps, hunty. We just understand the difference between one and two, necessary and cosmetic, risk-free and worth deeper consideration. Sorry you're so bent about it. Maybe touch grass...

You seem oddly angry about what other people do to their own bodies.

This is such a nonsense "comeback", pp. Nothing about that comment seems "angry". The comment they're responding to, maybe, but not the response.

Wow. You just don’t stop. Like a dog with a bone.
-dp, who is in agreement the counting poster is overly pedantic

You are a sockpuppet, and there's more than one commenter here who can count.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It's an unnecessary surgery for vanity purposes. I would not want me or my spouse to get it either.

While it's agree it's your body...what does it matter what your breasts look like as long as your DH is happy? Who else needs be looking at, judging, and liking your breasts?

It’s how I like to look. Not to brag but I had pretty great 38DD breasts. Not so much now.

They are huge! I thought only small boobs sagged. And how do you remove cellulite?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:How old is your youngest kid? I think you both have excellent reasons to do or not do the surgery. His are more sound but it’s your body and if you feel it’s important, work on giving him enough information to feel it’s a safe procedure. Although I will say I appreciate is POV and acceptance of your body. My DH would like me to get a breast lift or even implants postpartum and it annoys me. Having children changed them and I wish he made me feel comfortable about the change. I’m on the fence about a breast lift - against implants because of reports of autoimmune issues.

Youngest is 1.5. Nursed both him and his brother for 1 year each.

What??? You’re considering cosmetic surgery that will require your husband to take care of you and your very young children for weeks while you recover, and your youngest is not even two??!

Wow.

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