The Witch Trials of JK Rowling podcast

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Anonymous wrote:As someone who was almost brainwashed into thinking I was "non-binary", I love Rowling for sticking up for truth. Women with hormonal issues, disabilities, neurodivergent minds and other afflictions that make them look less "feminine", despite being deeply feminine in their hearts, are targets of this bizarre "non-binary" rhetoric. It's offensive and misogynistic.

Frankly I think there's something pretty sinister, too, in how the medical industry is sooooo eager to perform dangerous experiments on these sensitive teens in the name of "social justice". Like puberty blockers.

Rowling is the only celebrity with the courage to call it out. Many others who are as rich as she is still refuse to say a word. That alone sets her apart in my eyes.

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I also don't buy into this nonbinary nonsense btw. If you dissociate from your body due to trauma and then decide you're nonbinary, then that's your hurdle to tackle. I won't refer to a woman as they/them because that's insane.

Oh look. Transgender trashing.

....you do realize that transgender and nonbinary are two different things, right?

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Anonymous wrote:This feels like the same person posting over and over, trying to convince us that it's ok to dislike trans people.

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"delusional"
"something men didn’t like"
women's prison!
and other faux hysterics

Standard RWNJ/TURF talking points.

If the trans “debate” isn’t misogynistic, why do people use TERF but without any equivalent term for men? Why do we say “trans women are women” 10x more frequently than we say trans men are men? Why do non-medically transitioned trans women demand to be in women only spaces (ie women’s prisons) while the trans men don’t? Why do trans women threaten to rape women but trans men don’t?

How many men are on DCUM and trashing transgender people 24x7? I mostly see hostile women - many older and/or lesbians.

If men were relentlessly attacking transgender people we could come up with a name for them. TERM?

This has nothing to do with DCUM because the word "TERF" wasn't invented on this forum, nor was it invented for this forum. (Nor do I see women here "trashing" transgender people but that's a separate issue.) Women don't do anything to transgender people except to ask them to respect our spaces. Men, on the other hand, are responsible 99% of the time for beating up, raping and/or killing transgender people.

Yet we get called TERF? For simply not feeling comfortable with OUR hard-won rights and safe spaces being appropriated or eroded? It's the absolute height of sexism.

I'm explaining why I use the term TERF. Because I'm addressing women. I will start using TERM when I start coming across anti-trans men.

Women are absolutely trashing transgender people. Regularly on DCUM. On this thread, we have "delusional" for starters.

DP, but it is delusional to say that trans women are in every way, both biologically and experientially, exactly and in all ways the same as biological women. That being born with a penis and raised as a boy is exactly the same as being born with a vaginas and raised as a girl. If this were true, transgenderism wouldn't exist because your sex wouldn't be a notable characteristic. But it does matter- it is a core and defining characteristic, which is the exact reason this issue generates controversy.

Who says that? I've never heard anyone on DCUM say that.

Lots and lots of people say that. If you say that trans women are a distinct category that are in any way separate from biological women, that is considered transphobic.

Agreed. Which is why I say the whole trans movement is rooted in sexier stereotypes. What does it mean to “feel like a woman” or “think like a man”?

This isn't my experience at all. Most transgender people I know are very fluid and exist in the middle of the spectrum, not at the extreme ends. Look at how many gender-neutral people there are. They are anti-stereotypes.

Actually they are not. They feel some sort of otherness, and decide that it means they are not sufficiently male or female enough. Why can’t they just be?

NB person here. I am just being. I don’t identify with womanhood or manhood. Neither feels right to me, so I am neither. Why do you have a problem with that?

No one has a problem with it, but you're not welcome in spaces where women are vulnerable and/or naked if you have a penis.

It's not about how you feel inside.

I use the changing room and bathroom that I know have the best chance of being safe in on any given day. Yes, I prioritize my safety over anyone's discomfort of suspecting I might have a penis.

So you can understand why women would do the exact same-- prioritize their safety over other people's discomfort. Right?

Of course! If they feel unsafe around me I would hope they prioritize their safety and choose not to share a space with me, as I unfortunately have to do frequently.

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Anonymous wrote:This feels like the same person posting over and over, trying to convince us that it's ok to dislike trans people.

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"delusional"
"something men didn’t like"
women's prison!
and other faux hysterics

Standard RWNJ/TURF talking points.

If the trans “debate” isn’t misogynistic, why do people use TERF but without any equivalent term for men? Why do we say “trans women are women” 10x more frequently than we say trans men are men? Why do non-medically transitioned trans women demand to be in women only spaces (ie women’s prisons) while the trans men don’t? Why do trans women threaten to rape women but trans men don’t?

How many men are on DCUM and trashing transgender people 24x7? I mostly see hostile women - many older and/or lesbians.

If men were relentlessly attacking transgender people we could come up with a name for them. TERM?

This has nothing to do with DCUM because the word "TERF" wasn't invented on this forum, nor was it invented for this forum. (Nor do I see women here "trashing" transgender people but that's a separate issue.) Women don't do anything to transgender people except to ask them to respect our spaces. Men, on the other hand, are responsible 99% of the time for beating up, raping and/or killing transgender people.

Yet we get called TERF? For simply not feeling comfortable with OUR hard-won rights and safe spaces being appropriated or eroded? It's the absolute height of sexism.

I'm explaining why I use the term TERF. Because I'm addressing women. I will start using TERM when I start coming across anti-trans men.

Women are absolutely trashing transgender people. Regularly on DCUM. On this thread, we have "delusional" for starters.

DP, but it is delusional to say that trans women are in every way, both biologically and experientially, exactly and in all ways the same as biological women. That being born with a penis and raised as a boy is exactly the same as being born with a vaginas and raised as a girl. If this were true, transgenderism wouldn't exist because your sex wouldn't be a notable characteristic. But it does matter- it is a core and defining characteristic, which is the exact reason this issue generates controversy.

Who says that? I've never heard anyone on DCUM say that.

Lots and lots of people say that. If you say that trans women are a distinct category that are in any way separate from biological women, that is considered transphobic.

Not "lots" of people.

I've literally never heard someone say that "trans women are in every way, both biologically and experientially, exactly and in all ways the same as biological women."

What does "trans women are women" mean to you?

It means be inclusive and respectful. It doesn't mean I think they had a vagina at birth or had the same exact experience as me.

Cis-gender woman can have a wide range of experiences themselves. It's not hard to widen the tent.

So can women have separate prisons that exclude people with penises?

No, because transwomen are women.

So we are back to square one, where transactivists claim there is no biological difference between transwomen and women. After people on this thread claimed that wasn’t what transwomen are women means.

Again, literally no one said that. You are pulling that out of your a$$.

Okay. So you agree they are not the same.

Literally zero people have said they are the exact same thing.

Again, you agree that transwomen are not identical to women. Maybe you and others in this thread mean to say “transwomen are women but some exclusions apply. However, if you think that’s not what trans activists are saying you aren’t paying attention.

I say transwomen are women because it's inclusive. We all have our own unique qualities and experiences. It's a big tent.

It’s a big tent. But it doesn’t include penises.

Why are you being exclusionary? It doesn't affect you.

How does it not affect me? Do I not have women only spaces where I interact with other women? Sure, I’m not in prison. But I have a gym membership. I go to spas. I have different priorities than people with penises when I advocate for women’s healthcare at work. So I have an interest in this. Almost all women do.

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Anonymous wrote:As someone who was almost brainwashed into thinking I was "non-binary", I love Rowling for sticking up for truth. Women with hormonal issues, disabilities, neurodivergent minds and other afflictions that make them look less "feminine", despite being deeply feminine in their hearts, are targets of this bizarre "non-binary" rhetoric. It's offensive and misogynistic.

Frankly I think there's something pretty sinister, too, in how the medical industry is sooooo eager to perform dangerous experiments on these sensitive teens in the name of "social justice". Like puberty blockers.

Rowling is the only celebrity with the courage to call it out. Many others who are as rich as she is still refuse to say a word. That alone sets her apart in my eyes.

+1

I also don't buy into this nonbinary nonsense btw. If you dissociate from your body due to trauma and then decide you're nonbinary, then that's your hurdle to tackle. I won't refer to a woman as they/them because that's insane.

Oh look. Transgender trashing.

....you do realize that transgender and nonbinary are two different things, right?

No, they're not. A non-binary person is also a transgender person.

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Anonymous wrote:This feels like the same person posting over and over, trying to convince us that it's ok to dislike trans people.

+1

"delusional"
"something men didn’t like"
women's prison!
and other faux hysterics

Standard RWNJ/TURF talking points.

If the trans “debate” isn’t misogynistic, why do people use TERF but without any equivalent term for men? Why do we say “trans women are women” 10x more frequently than we say trans men are men? Why do non-medically transitioned trans women demand to be in women only spaces (ie women’s prisons) while the trans men don’t? Why do trans women threaten to rape women but trans men don’t?

How many men are on DCUM and trashing transgender people 24x7? I mostly see hostile women - many older and/or lesbians.

If men were relentlessly attacking transgender people we could come up with a name for them. TERM?

This has nothing to do with DCUM because the word "TERF" wasn't invented on this forum, nor was it invented for this forum. (Nor do I see women here "trashing" transgender people but that's a separate issue.) Women don't do anything to transgender people except to ask them to respect our spaces. Men, on the other hand, are responsible 99% of the time for beating up, raping and/or killing transgender people.

Yet we get called TERF? For simply not feeling comfortable with OUR hard-won rights and safe spaces being appropriated or eroded? It's the absolute height of sexism.

I'm explaining why I use the term TERF. Because I'm addressing women. I will start using TERM when I start coming across anti-trans men.

Women are absolutely trashing transgender people. Regularly on DCUM. On this thread, we have "delusional" for starters.

DP, but it is delusional to say that trans women are in every way, both biologically and experientially, exactly and in all ways the same as biological women. That being born with a penis and raised as a boy is exactly the same as being born with a vaginas and raised as a girl. If this were true, transgenderism wouldn't exist because your sex wouldn't be a notable characteristic. But it does matter- it is a core and defining characteristic, which is the exact reason this issue generates controversy.

Who says that? I've never heard anyone on DCUM say that.

Lots and lots of people say that. If you say that trans women are a distinct category that are in any way separate from biological women, that is considered transphobic.

Not "lots" of people.

I've literally never heard someone say that "trans women are in every way, both biologically and experientially, exactly and in all ways the same as biological women."

What does "trans women are women" mean to you?

It means be inclusive and respectful. It doesn't mean I think they had a vagina at birth or had the same exact experience as me.

Cis-gender woman can have a wide range of experiences themselves. It's not hard to widen the tent.

So can women have separate prisons that exclude people with penises?

No, because transwomen are women.

NP.

So transmen should be housed in a male prison, right?

If Elliott Page was incarcerated, he should be put in a cell with another man. Right?

I believe she has medically transitioned. Most of us are objecting to the transwomen who identify without actually transitioning.

Ok, A. I don’t believe Elliott has medically transitioned.

And B. Should a transman, medically transitioned or not, be housed in a locked prison cell with another man. That is the question.

They should have cells for trans people.

But why? Transwomen are women and transmen are men, no?

What could possibly be the reason for keeping them separated?

You responded to someone arguing on the same side as you. Transwomen aren’t the same as women. I have no problem with the prison system recognizing that fact.

I am waiting for someone on the other side of this debate to answer these questions 👍

If they are able to, that is.

I answered earlier. Everyone should be safe in prison. Transgender women should not be men's prisons. I trust the wardens to find the best way to keep their inmates safe with the resources they have. If everyone isn't safe, then maybe we need to better fund prisons. Or rethink our prison system.

Why are Republicans so focused on these niche issues? As if they ever cared about women's safety in prisons before this. Or about women's sports? Just lazy excuses to trash transgender people.

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Anonymous wrote:This feels like the same person posting over and over, trying to convince us that it's ok to dislike trans people.

+1

"delusional"
"something men didn’t like"
women's prison!
and other faux hysterics

Standard RWNJ/TURF talking points.

If the trans “debate” isn’t misogynistic, why do people use TERF but without any equivalent term for men? Why do we say “trans women are women” 10x more frequently than we say trans men are men? Why do non-medically transitioned trans women demand to be in women only spaces (ie women’s prisons) while the trans men don’t? Why do trans women threaten to rape women but trans men don’t?

How many men are on DCUM and trashing transgender people 24x7? I mostly see hostile women - many older and/or lesbians.

If men were relentlessly attacking transgender people we could come up with a name for them. TERM?

This has nothing to do with DCUM because the word "TERF" wasn't invented on this forum, nor was it invented for this forum. (Nor do I see women here "trashing" transgender people but that's a separate issue.) Women don't do anything to transgender people except to ask them to respect our spaces. Men, on the other hand, are responsible 99% of the time for beating up, raping and/or killing transgender people.

Yet we get called TERF? For simply not feeling comfortable with OUR hard-won rights and safe spaces being appropriated or eroded? It's the absolute height of sexism.

I'm explaining why I use the term TERF. Because I'm addressing women. I will start using TERM when I start coming across anti-trans men.

Women are absolutely trashing transgender people. Regularly on DCUM. On this thread, we have "delusional" for starters.

DP, but it is delusional to say that trans women are in every way, both biologically and experientially, exactly and in all ways the same as biological women. That being born with a penis and raised as a boy is exactly the same as being born with a vaginas and raised as a girl. If this were true, transgenderism wouldn't exist because your sex wouldn't be a notable characteristic. But it does matter- it is a core and defining characteristic, which is the exact reason this issue generates controversy.

Who says that? I've never heard anyone on DCUM say that.

Lots and lots of people say that. If you say that trans women are a distinct category that are in any way separate from biological women, that is considered transphobic.

Agreed. Which is why I say the whole trans movement is rooted in sexier stereotypes. What does it mean to “feel like a woman” or “think like a man”?

This isn't my experience at all. Most transgender people I know are very fluid and exist in the middle of the spectrum, not at the extreme ends. Look at how many gender-neutral people there are. They are anti-stereotypes.

Actually they are not. They feel some sort of otherness, and decide that it means they are not sufficiently male or female enough. Why can’t they just be?

NB person here. I am just being. I don’t identify with womanhood or manhood. Neither feels right to me, so I am neither. Why do you have a problem with that?

No one has a problem with it, but you're not welcome in spaces where women are vulnerable and/or naked if you have a penis.

It's not about how you feel inside.

I use the changing room and bathroom that I know have the best chance of being safe in on any given day. Yes, I prioritize my safety over anyone's discomfort of suspecting I might have a penis.

So you can understand why women would do the exact same-- prioritize their safety over other people's discomfort. Right?

+100000

We are not taking this anymore.

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Anonymous wrote:This feels like the same person posting over and over, trying to convince us that it's ok to dislike trans people.

+1

"delusional"
"something men didn’t like"
women's prison!
and other faux hysterics

Standard RWNJ/TURF talking points.

If the trans “debate” isn’t misogynistic, why do people use TERF but without any equivalent term for men? Why do we say “trans women are women” 10x more frequently than we say trans men are men? Why do non-medically transitioned trans women demand to be in women only spaces (ie women’s prisons) while the trans men don’t? Why do trans women threaten to rape women but trans men don’t?

How many men are on DCUM and trashing transgender people 24x7? I mostly see hostile women - many older and/or lesbians.

If men were relentlessly attacking transgender people we could come up with a name for them. TERM?

This has nothing to do with DCUM because the word "TERF" wasn't invented on this forum, nor was it invented for this forum. (Nor do I see women here "trashing" transgender people but that's a separate issue.) Women don't do anything to transgender people except to ask them to respect our spaces. Men, on the other hand, are responsible 99% of the time for beating up, raping and/or killing transgender people.

Yet we get called TERF? For simply not feeling comfortable with OUR hard-won rights and safe spaces being appropriated or eroded? It's the absolute height of sexism.

I'm explaining why I use the term TERF. Because I'm addressing women. I will start using TERM when I start coming across anti-trans men.

Women are absolutely trashing transgender people. Regularly on DCUM. On this thread, we have "delusional" for starters.

DP, but it is delusional to say that trans women are in every way, both biologically and experientially, exactly and in all ways the same as biological women. That being born with a penis and raised as a boy is exactly the same as being born with a vaginas and raised as a girl. If this were true, transgenderism wouldn't exist because your sex wouldn't be a notable characteristic. But it does matter- it is a core and defining characteristic, which is the exact reason this issue generates controversy.

Who says that? I've never heard anyone on DCUM say that.

Lots and lots of people say that. If you say that trans women are a distinct category that are in any way separate from biological women, that is considered transphobic.

Not "lots" of people.

I've literally never heard someone say that "trans women are in every way, both biologically and experientially, exactly and in all ways the same as biological women."

What does "trans women are women" mean to you?

It means be inclusive and respectful. It doesn't mean I think they had a vagina at birth or had the same exact experience as me.

Cis-gender woman can have a wide range of experiences themselves. It's not hard to widen the tent.

So can women have separate prisons that exclude people with penises?

No, because transwomen are women.

NP.

So transmen should be housed in a male prison, right?

If Elliott Page was incarcerated, he should be put in a cell with another man. Right?

I believe she has medically transitioned. Most of us are objecting to the transwomen who identify without actually transitioning.

Ok, A. I don’t believe Elliott has medically transitioned.

And B. Should a transman, medically transitioned or not, be housed in a locked prison cell with another man. That is the question.

They should have cells for trans people.

But why? Transwomen are women and transmen are men, no?

What could possibly be the reason for keeping them separated?

You responded to someone arguing on the same side as you. Transwomen aren’t the same as women. I have no problem with the prison system recognizing that fact.

I am waiting for someone on the other side of this debate to answer these questions 👍

If they are able to, that is.

I answered earlier. Everyone should be safe in prison. Transgender women should not be men's prisons. I trust the wardens to find the best way to keep their inmates safe with the resources they have. If everyone isn't safe, then maybe we need to better fund prisons. Or rethink our prison system.

Why are Republicans so focused on these niche issues? As if they ever cared about women's safety in prisons before this. Or about women's sports? Just lazy excuses to trash transgender people.

So what are we: Republicans or feminists? Those two groups tend to be mutually exclusive.

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Anonymous wrote:This feels like the same person posting over and over, trying to convince us that it's ok to dislike trans people.

+1

"delusional"
"something men didn’t like"
women's prison!
and other faux hysterics

Standard RWNJ/TURF talking points.

If the trans “debate” isn’t misogynistic, why do people use TERF but without any equivalent term for men? Why do we say “trans women are women” 10x more frequently than we say trans men are men? Why do non-medically transitioned trans women demand to be in women only spaces (ie women’s prisons) while the trans men don’t? Why do trans women threaten to rape women but trans men don’t?

How many men are on DCUM and trashing transgender people 24x7? I mostly see hostile women - many older and/or lesbians.

If men were relentlessly attacking transgender people we could come up with a name for them. TERM?

This has nothing to do with DCUM because the word "TERF" wasn't invented on this forum, nor was it invented for this forum. (Nor do I see women here "trashing" transgender people but that's a separate issue.) Women don't do anything to transgender people except to ask them to respect our spaces. Men, on the other hand, are responsible 99% of the time for beating up, raping and/or killing transgender people.

Yet we get called TERF? For simply not feeling comfortable with OUR hard-won rights and safe spaces being appropriated or eroded? It's the absolute height of sexism.

I'm explaining why I use the term TERF. Because I'm addressing women. I will start using TERM when I start coming across anti-trans men.

Women are absolutely trashing transgender people. Regularly on DCUM. On this thread, we have "delusional" for starters.

DP, but it is delusional to say that trans women are in every way, both biologically and experientially, exactly and in all ways the same as biological women. That being born with a penis and raised as a boy is exactly the same as being born with a vaginas and raised as a girl. If this were true, transgenderism wouldn't exist because your sex wouldn't be a notable characteristic. But it does matter- it is a core and defining characteristic, which is the exact reason this issue generates controversy.

Who says that? I've never heard anyone on DCUM say that.

Lots and lots of people say that. If you say that trans women are a distinct category that are in any way separate from biological women, that is considered transphobic.

Agreed. Which is why I say the whole trans movement is rooted in sexier stereotypes. What does it mean to “feel like a woman” or “think like a man”?

This isn't my experience at all. Most transgender people I know are very fluid and exist in the middle of the spectrum, not at the extreme ends. Look at how many gender-neutral people there are. They are anti-stereotypes.

Actually they are not. They feel some sort of otherness, and decide that it means they are not sufficiently male or female enough. Why can’t they just be?

NB person here. I am just being. I don’t identify with womanhood or manhood. Neither feels right to me, so I am neither. Why do you have a problem with that?

No one has a problem with it, but you're not welcome in spaces where women are vulnerable and/or naked if you have a penis.

It's not about how you feel inside.

I use the changing room and bathroom that I know have the best chance of being safe in on any given day. Yes, I prioritize my safety over anyone's discomfort of suspecting I might have a penis.

So you can understand why women would do the exact same-- prioritize their safety over other people's discomfort. Right?

Of course! If they feel unsafe around me I would hope they prioritize their safety and choose not to share a space with me, as I unfortunately have to do frequently.

Okay, thank you. Seriously. I'm so tired of being shamed for prioritizing safety and women's rights.

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Anonymous wrote:As someone who was almost brainwashed into thinking I was "non-binary", I love Rowling for sticking up for truth. Women with hormonal issues, disabilities, neurodivergent minds and other afflictions that make them look less "feminine", despite being deeply feminine in their hearts, are targets of this bizarre "non-binary" rhetoric. It's offensive and misogynistic.

Frankly I think there's something pretty sinister, too, in how the medical industry is sooooo eager to perform dangerous experiments on these sensitive teens in the name of "social justice". Like puberty blockers.

Rowling is the only celebrity with the courage to call it out. Many others who are as rich as she is still refuse to say a word. That alone sets her apart in my eyes.

+1

I also don't buy into this nonbinary nonsense btw. If you dissociate from your body due to trauma and then decide you're nonbinary, then that's your hurdle to tackle. I won't refer to a woman as they/them because that's insane.

Oh look. Transgender trashing.

....you do realize that transgender and nonbinary are two different things, right?

No, they're not. A non-binary person is also a transgender person.

But a transgender person is not necessarily non-binary.

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Anonymous wrote:This feels like the same person posting over and over, trying to convince us that it's ok to dislike trans people.

+1

"delusional"
"something men didn’t like"
women's prison!
and other faux hysterics

Standard RWNJ/TURF talking points.

If the trans “debate” isn’t misogynistic, why do people use TERF but without any equivalent term for men? Why do we say “trans women are women” 10x more frequently than we say trans men are men? Why do non-medically transitioned trans women demand to be in women only spaces (ie women’s prisons) while the trans men don’t? Why do trans women threaten to rape women but trans men don’t?

How many men are on DCUM and trashing transgender people 24x7? I mostly see hostile women - many older and/or lesbians.

If men were relentlessly attacking transgender people we could come up with a name for them. TERM?

This has nothing to do with DCUM because the word "TERF" wasn't invented on this forum, nor was it invented for this forum. (Nor do I see women here "trashing" transgender people but that's a separate issue.) Women don't do anything to transgender people except to ask them to respect our spaces. Men, on the other hand, are responsible 99% of the time for beating up, raping and/or killing transgender people.

Yet we get called TERF? For simply not feeling comfortable with OUR hard-won rights and safe spaces being appropriated or eroded? It's the absolute height of sexism.

I'm explaining why I use the term TERF. Because I'm addressing women. I will start using TERM when I start coming across anti-trans men.

Women are absolutely trashing transgender people. Regularly on DCUM. On this thread, we have "delusional" for starters.

DP, but it is delusional to say that trans women are in every way, both biologically and experientially, exactly and in all ways the same as biological women. That being born with a penis and raised as a boy is exactly the same as being born with a vaginas and raised as a girl. If this were true, transgenderism wouldn't exist because your sex wouldn't be a notable characteristic. But it does matter- it is a core and defining characteristic, which is the exact reason this issue generates controversy.

Who says that? I've never heard anyone on DCUM say that.

Lots and lots of people say that. If you say that trans women are a distinct category that are in any way separate from biological women, that is considered transphobic.

Agreed. Which is why I say the whole trans movement is rooted in sexier stereotypes. What does it mean to “feel like a woman” or “think like a man”?

This isn't my experience at all. Most transgender people I know are very fluid and exist in the middle of the spectrum, not at the extreme ends. Look at how many gender-neutral people there are. They are anti-stereotypes.

Actually they are not. They feel some sort of otherness, and decide that it means they are not sufficiently male or female enough. Why can’t they just be?

NB person here. I am just being. I don’t identify with womanhood or manhood. Neither feels right to me, so I am neither. Why do you have a problem with that?

No one has a problem with it, but you're not welcome in spaces where women are vulnerable and/or naked if you have a penis.

It's not about how you feel inside.

I use the changing room and bathroom that I know have the best chance of being safe in on any given day. Yes, I prioritize my safety over anyone's discomfort of suspecting I might have a penis.

Oh, so you're a guy. Lead with that next time.

Frankly, I have a 13 year old daughter and a 9 year old daughter and I would NOT be comfortable letting a "Non Binary" man into the same bathroom they're using because he felt genderfluid that day or whatever. I have to play Russian roulette with my family's safety because you are going to switch up bathrooms and changing rooms based on how you feel that day?

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And here is the erasure of women again. Rowling pointing this out is what got her in so much trouble. But I'm not having my anatomy erased or appropriated.

Here's the definition of a woman, loud and clear: she has the inborn, natural capacity to menstruate and give birth, even if she does neither of those things.

Women are women. Men are men. Transwomen are transwomen and transmen are transmen. This is not up for debate. I am not having my biology erased anymore.

So what about the people who are born without a uterus?

No one is being erased. You can still say "woman". You are not impacted in any way if other people choose to use inclusive language.

But women are being erased by your so-called "inclusive" language. Why do we have to acknowledge your truth that transwomen are women but you can't respect biological women enough to acknowledge that only biological women can get pregnant and breastfeed? It's so just offensive to see our sex being erased before our eyes. JKR sees this, why can't most women?

Again, you are still a woman. You are not impacted in any way if other people choose to use inclusive language. You are still a women. You can do various things with your body.

And we don’t have to share our spaces with people with penises just because they claim to be women, right?

You can use an individual bathroom if you don't want to share spaces with others.

And, any man can dress up as a woman today and use the women's bathroom. Your fear of transgender penises in the bathroom is irrational.

Where did I say anything about fearing penises in the bathroom? Where did I even say anything about bathrooms at all? I have no issue with all-gender bathrooms. They have stalls, you know.

So you are OK with penises in bathrooms, etc?

Bathrooms, of course. Etc? No. I’m here for nuance and compromise. Rather unlike the transactivists who say transwomen are women and attack anyone who disagrees.

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Anonymous wrote:This feels like the same person posting over and over, trying to convince us that it's ok to dislike trans people.

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"delusional"
"something men didn’t like"
women's prison!
and other faux hysterics

Standard RWNJ/TURF talking points.

If the trans “debate” isn’t misogynistic, why do people use TERF but without any equivalent term for men? Why do we say “trans women are women” 10x more frequently than we say trans men are men? Why do non-medically transitioned trans women demand to be in women only spaces (ie women’s prisons) while the trans men don’t? Why do trans women threaten to rape women but trans men don’t?

How many men are on DCUM and trashing transgender people 24x7? I mostly see hostile women - many older and/or lesbians.

If men were relentlessly attacking transgender people we could come up with a name for them. TERM?

This has nothing to do with DCUM because the word "TERF" wasn't invented on this forum, nor was it invented for this forum. (Nor do I see women here "trashing" transgender people but that's a separate issue.) Women don't do anything to transgender people except to ask them to respect our spaces. Men, on the other hand, are responsible 99% of the time for beating up, raping and/or killing transgender people.

Yet we get called TERF? For simply not feeling comfortable with OUR hard-won rights and safe spaces being appropriated or eroded? It's the absolute height of sexism.

I'm explaining why I use the term TERF. Because I'm addressing women. I will start using TERM when I start coming across anti-trans men.

Women are absolutely trashing transgender people. Regularly on DCUM. On this thread, we have "delusional" for starters.

DP, but it is delusional to say that trans women are in every way, both biologically and experientially, exactly and in all ways the same as biological women. That being born with a penis and raised as a boy is exactly the same as being born with a vaginas and raised as a girl. If this were true, transgenderism wouldn't exist because your sex wouldn't be a notable characteristic. But it does matter- it is a core and defining characteristic, which is the exact reason this issue generates controversy.

Who says that? I've never heard anyone on DCUM say that.

Lots and lots of people say that. If you say that trans women are a distinct category that are in any way separate from biological women, that is considered transphobic.

Not "lots" of people.

I've literally never heard someone say that "trans women are in every way, both biologically and experientially, exactly and in all ways the same as biological women."

What does "trans women are women" mean to you?

It means be inclusive and respectful. It doesn't mean I think they had a vagina at birth or had the same exact experience as me.

Cis-gender woman can have a wide range of experiences themselves. It's not hard to widen the tent.

So can women have separate prisons that exclude people with penises?

No, because transwomen are women.

NP.

So transmen should be housed in a male prison, right?

If Elliott Page was incarcerated, he should be put in a cell with another man. Right?

I believe she has medically transitioned. Most of us are objecting to the transwomen who identify without actually transitioning.

Ok, A. I don’t believe Elliott has medically transitioned.

And B. Should a transman, medically transitioned or not, be housed in a locked prison cell with another man. That is the question.

They should have cells for trans people.

But why? Transwomen are women and transmen are men, no?

What could possibly be the reason for keeping them separated?

You responded to someone arguing on the same side as you. Transwomen aren’t the same as women. I have no problem with the prison system recognizing that fact.

I am waiting for someone on the other side of this debate to answer these questions 👍

If they are able to, that is.

I answered earlier. Everyone should be safe in prison. Transgender women should not be men's prisons. I trust the wardens to find the best way to keep their inmates safe with the resources they have. If everyone isn't safe, then maybe we need to better fund prisons. Or rethink our prison system.

Why are Republicans so focused on these niche issues? As if they ever cared about women's safety in prisons before this. Or about women's sports? Just lazy excuses to trash transgender people.

I’m asking about transmen in men’s prison. If you could answer the actual question that would be great, thanks.

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"delusional"
"something men didn’t like"
women's prison!
and other faux hysterics

Standard RWNJ/TURF talking points.

If the trans “debate” isn’t misogynistic, why do people use TERF but without any equivalent term for men? Why do we say “trans women are women” 10x more frequently than we say trans men are men? Why do non-medically transitioned trans women demand to be in women only spaces (ie women’s prisons) while the trans men don’t? Why do trans women threaten to rape women but trans men don’t?

How many men are on DCUM and trashing transgender people 24x7? I mostly see hostile women - many older and/or lesbians.

If men were relentlessly attacking transgender people we could come up with a name for them. TERM?

This has nothing to do with DCUM because the word "TERF" wasn't invented on this forum, nor was it invented for this forum. (Nor do I see women here "trashing" transgender people but that's a separate issue.) Women don't do anything to transgender people except to ask them to respect our spaces. Men, on the other hand, are responsible 99% of the time for beating up, raping and/or killing transgender people.

Yet we get called TERF? For simply not feeling comfortable with OUR hard-won rights and safe spaces being appropriated or eroded? It's the absolute height of sexism.

I'm explaining why I use the term TERF. Because I'm addressing women. I will start using TERM when I start coming across anti-trans men.

Women are absolutely trashing transgender people. Regularly on DCUM. On this thread, we have "delusional" for starters.

DP, but it is delusional to say that trans women are in every way, both biologically and experientially, exactly and in all ways the same as biological women. That being born with a penis and raised as a boy is exactly the same as being born with a vaginas and raised as a girl. If this were true, transgenderism wouldn't exist because your sex wouldn't be a notable characteristic. But it does matter- it is a core and defining characteristic, which is the exact reason this issue generates controversy.

Who says that? I've never heard anyone on DCUM say that.

Lots and lots of people say that. If you say that trans women are a distinct category that are in any way separate from biological women, that is considered transphobic.

Agreed. Which is why I say the whole trans movement is rooted in sexier stereotypes. What does it mean to “feel like a woman” or “think like a man”?

This isn't my experience at all. Most transgender people I know are very fluid and exist in the middle of the spectrum, not at the extreme ends. Look at how many gender-neutral people there are. They are anti-stereotypes.

Actually they are not. They feel some sort of otherness, and decide that it means they are not sufficiently male or female enough. Why can’t they just be?

NB person here. I am just being. I don’t identify with womanhood or manhood. Neither feels right to me, so I am neither. Why do you have a problem with that?

No one has a problem with it, but you're not welcome in spaces where women are vulnerable and/or naked if you have a penis.

It's not about how you feel inside.

I use the changing room and bathroom that I know have the best chance of being safe in on any given day. Yes, I prioritize my safety over anyone's discomfort of suspecting I might have a penis.

Oh, so you're a guy. Lead with that next time.

Frankly, I have a 13 year old daughter and a 9 year old daughter and I would NOT be comfortable letting a "Non Binary" man into the same bathroom they're using because he felt genderfluid that day or whatever. I have to play Russian roulette with my family's safety because you are going to switch up bathrooms and changing rooms based on how you feel that day?

I’m one of the “TERFs” posting on here. Your children’s safety isn’t at risk from non-binary and trans people nearly as much as it is from most men.

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+1

"delusional"
"something men didn’t like"
women's prison!
and other faux hysterics

Standard RWNJ/TURF talking points.

If the trans “debate” isn’t misogynistic, why do people use TERF but without any equivalent term for men? Why do we say “trans women are women” 10x more frequently than we say trans men are men? Why do non-medically transitioned trans women demand to be in women only spaces (ie women’s prisons) while the trans men don’t? Why do trans women threaten to rape women but trans men don’t?

How many men are on DCUM and trashing transgender people 24x7? I mostly see hostile women - many older and/or lesbians.

If men were relentlessly attacking transgender people we could come up with a name for them. TERM?

This has nothing to do with DCUM because the word "TERF" wasn't invented on this forum, nor was it invented for this forum. (Nor do I see women here "trashing" transgender people but that's a separate issue.) Women don't do anything to transgender people except to ask them to respect our spaces. Men, on the other hand, are responsible 99% of the time for beating up, raping and/or killing transgender people.

Yet we get called TERF? For simply not feeling comfortable with OUR hard-won rights and safe spaces being appropriated or eroded? It's the absolute height of sexism.

I'm explaining why I use the term TERF. Because I'm addressing women. I will start using TERM when I start coming across anti-trans men.

Women are absolutely trashing transgender people. Regularly on DCUM. On this thread, we have "delusional" for starters.

DP, but it is delusional to say that trans women are in every way, both biologically and experientially, exactly and in all ways the same as biological women. That being born with a penis and raised as a boy is exactly the same as being born with a vaginas and raised as a girl. If this were true, transgenderism wouldn't exist because your sex wouldn't be a notable characteristic. But it does matter- it is a core and defining characteristic, which is the exact reason this issue generates controversy.

Who says that? I've never heard anyone on DCUM say that.

Lots and lots of people say that. If you say that trans women are a distinct category that are in any way separate from biological women, that is considered transphobic.

Agreed. Which is why I say the whole trans movement is rooted in sexier stereotypes. What does it mean to “feel like a woman” or “think like a man”?

This isn't my experience at all. Most transgender people I know are very fluid and exist in the middle of the spectrum, not at the extreme ends. Look at how many gender-neutral people there are. They are anti-stereotypes.

Actually they are not. They feel some sort of otherness, and decide that it means they are not sufficiently male or female enough. Why can’t they just be?

NB person here. I am just being. I don’t identify with womanhood or manhood. Neither feels right to me, so I am neither. Why do you have a problem with that?

No one has a problem with it, but you're not welcome in spaces where women are vulnerable and/or naked if you have a penis.

It's not about how you feel inside.

I use the changing room and bathroom that I know have the best chance of being safe in on any given day. Yes, I prioritize my safety over anyone's discomfort of suspecting I might have a penis.

Oh, so you're a guy. Lead with that next time.

Frankly, I have a 13 year old daughter and a 9 year old daughter and I would NOT be comfortable letting a "Non Binary" man into the same bathroom they're using because he felt genderfluid that day or whatever. I have to play Russian roulette with my family's safety because you are going to switch up bathrooms and changing rooms based on how you feel that day?

I’m one of the “TERFs” posting on here. Your children’s safety isn’t at risk from non-binary and trans people nearly as much as it is from most men.

Same and I agree. But if the enbie who posted feels male one day, female the next, that's male enough to be excluded.

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Anonymous wrote:This feels like the same person posting over and over, trying to convince us that it's ok to dislike trans people.

+1

"delusional"
"something men didn’t like"
women's prison!
and other faux hysterics

Standard RWNJ/TURF talking points.

If the trans “debate” isn’t misogynistic, why do people use TERF but without any equivalent term for men? Why do we say “trans women are women” 10x more frequently than we say trans men are men? Why do non-medically transitioned trans women demand to be in women only spaces (ie women’s prisons) while the trans men don’t? Why do trans women threaten to rape women but trans men don’t?

How many men are on DCUM and trashing transgender people 24x7? I mostly see hostile women - many older and/or lesbians.

If men were relentlessly attacking transgender people we could come up with a name for them. TERM?

This has nothing to do with DCUM because the word "TERF" wasn't invented on this forum, nor was it invented for this forum. (Nor do I see women here "trashing" transgender people but that's a separate issue.) Women don't do anything to transgender people except to ask them to respect our spaces. Men, on the other hand, are responsible 99% of the time for beating up, raping and/or killing transgender people.

Yet we get called TERF? For simply not feeling comfortable with OUR hard-won rights and safe spaces being appropriated or eroded? It's the absolute height of sexism.

I'm explaining why I use the term TERF. Because I'm addressing women. I will start using TERM when I start coming across anti-trans men.

Women are absolutely trashing transgender people. Regularly on DCUM. On this thread, we have "delusional" for starters.

DP, but it is delusional to say that trans women are in every way, both biologically and experientially, exactly and in all ways the same as biological women. That being born with a penis and raised as a boy is exactly the same as being born with a vaginas and raised as a girl. If this were true, transgenderism wouldn't exist because your sex wouldn't be a notable characteristic. But it does matter- it is a core and defining characteristic, which is the exact reason this issue generates controversy.

Who says that? I've never heard anyone on DCUM say that.

Lots and lots of people say that. If you say that trans women are a distinct category that are in any way separate from biological women, that is considered transphobic.

Agreed. Which is why I say the whole trans movement is rooted in sexier stereotypes. What does it mean to “feel like a woman” or “think like a man”?

This isn't my experience at all. Most transgender people I know are very fluid and exist in the middle of the spectrum, not at the extreme ends. Look at how many gender-neutral people there are. They are anti-stereotypes.

Actually they are not. They feel some sort of otherness, and decide that it means they are not sufficiently male or female enough. Why can’t they just be?

NB person here. I am just being. I don’t identify with womanhood or manhood. Neither feels right to me, so I am neither. Why do you have a problem with that?

No one has a problem with it, but you're not welcome in spaces where women are vulnerable and/or naked if you have a penis.

It's not about how you feel inside.

I use the changing room and bathroom that I know have the best chance of being safe in on any given day. Yes, I prioritize my safety over anyone's discomfort of suspecting I might have a penis.

Oh, so you're a guy. Lead with that next time.

Frankly, I have a 13 year old daughter and a 9 year old daughter and I would NOT be comfortable letting a "Non Binary" man into the same bathroom they're using because he felt genderfluid that day or whatever. I have to play Russian roulette with my family's safety because you are going to switch up bathrooms and changing rooms based on how you feel that day?

I haven't revealed what genitalia I have, if that's what you're wondering. By looking at me you wouldn't be able to tell. You have to do what you have to do to prioritize your safety and your family's and I have to do what I have to do to prioritize mine. Depending on the location, demographics of the crowd, and how I might be presenting that day, that might be the men's room or the women's room or the unisex/gender neutral room. I'm not going to be ashamed for not wanting to be harassed or attacked.