Can we analyze jennifer lopez?

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Anonymous wrote:She’s obsessed with herself.

https://nypost.com/2024/06/21/entertainment/jennifer-lopez-cant-stop-taking-swimsuit-selfies-in-italy-amid-ben-affleck-divorce-rumors/

Wearing heels on a boat?

I’m surprised the bikini is only 99 dollars. Someone’s manager has her on a budget .

If Ben really did restart drinking , it does seem rather insane she’s relaxing in Italy alone taking selfies while his life is falling apart lol.

What else can she do for him. He moved out. He is actively leaving their marriage. Should she stay put in case he needs some fast food or a ride somewhere? He's got a literal kother and Jen G. for that. He doesn't i dicate he wants Jen L. with him. So what is she to do?

Maybe being there for the partner she says she has a true love story with? Showing some empathy and compassion and nurturing toward him during this time..

She doesn’t seem to be the hand holding type which is fine but that is what addicts need. Their sensitivities and triggers are plenty and showboating and gallivanting around town and on yachts like a show pony probably frustrates him and trigger him to drink. She has a surface meaning of love. She just wants Ben to be a Ken doll for her to kiss and hold hands at red carpets and award shows (where alcohol abound), but she doesn’t care or is oblivious to the real work of caring and loving a partner .

What makes you think Ben wants Jen L. beside him in that role? He has given very little indication that he wants her to help him out.

The failure of their relationship triggered depression, which puts him at risk for relapse. Agree he doesn't want her around, she doesn't help. His mom and his ex have a deeper understanding of his problems and are more generous in terms of solid support, which actually does help him.

BS. Garner has to be concerned about his alcoholism or drug abuse because they have kids together. She loves her kids and knows their dad being an f-up hurts them. Lopez can not fix his addiction problems and if she was smart she would have dumped him the minute he went off of whatever wagon he was on.

No evidence whatsoever he's off the wagon at all, just there is concern about the risk.

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Anonymous wrote:I've liked other movies she's been in recently - the mother on Netflix was good.

I liked Shotgun Wedding for the campy action movie it was.

Monster in Law is great as well . It was also Fonda’s comeback movie and Jennifer’s commercial comeback after the flop of Gigli . She starred opposite Garner’s ex boyfriend and costar Michael Vartan in that movie as his fiancée . I wonder if she chose that on purpose because Garner was Affleck’s rebound.

These two have some sort of ax to grind about Ben. I am sure Garner was the one leaking stories about Ben leaning on her shoulder for help. It’s not appropriate for her to spend days and nights with Ben without the kids . He’s a married man.

Lopez didn't dump Affleck, he dumped her for Garner.

I think there’s bad blood there . On Ellen Degeneres show, J Lo refused to say Garner when asked to mention other famous Jennifers in a five second recall game lol. She feigned ignorance when reminded by Ellen of Jennifer Garner

There is 100%. Ben and JLO were engaged when Garner was all heart eyes about him. I think one of them even said they fell in lovd during daredevil while he was still very much with jlo. Now I d agree with the pp, he didn't leave JLO for Garner but Garner definitely played a part. Ben did anything and everything to get out that engagement. JLO obviously feels a certain way about her still and that's fair

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Anonymous wrote:Ben also hooked up with Britney. Britney posted they made out in 1999. She deleted it after commenters noted she was 17 at the time.

She then apologized and said her memory is bad so she’s not sure when it happened. Yeah, right.

Bens PR is scandal - sensitive. They don’t want any stink from his past or J Los past to sully him. Ben actually wants to go into politics in the future. Dems have a white male problem and he’s being groomed to be a possible future candidate .

I remember during the first era of Bennifer there were rumors he wanted a future in politics, which was why JLo dumped her manager at the time - to move away from the “urban” image. Ben’s such a public mess now is that still a goal of his?

That same manager Benny Medina is her current manager .

Benny Medina is the reason J Lo is a household name . He was able to spin gold out of a non-singer and ok actress . He was the former manager for Will Smith and the real life inspiration behind the show The Fresh Prince of Bel Air. He’s a very interesting character and the only real man Jennifer Lopez has been with the longest.

He happens to be gay and he’s also the one J Lo blamed for the diva demands like white candles and counting sheets by the thread count and all that ridiculous diva nonsense. He also managed Mariah Carey around this time era after he and J Lo broke business relations and he put Mariah through the same mess. Affleck didn’t like Medina in 2003, and when all those reports came out about J Los ridiculous diva behavior and dressing room demands , Benny Medina was blamed for it and J Lo listened to Affleck and fired Benny.

Benny gave her a gift when she was pregnant with the twins and they reconnected and she hired him 5 -6 years later . He is the even the godfather of her kids. His sensibilities for “Old Hwood glam” and “diva” fit J Lo’s as a glove but it is the antithesis of Ben Affleck

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Anonymous wrote:She’s obsessed with herself.

https://nypost.com/2024/06/21/entertainment/jennifer-lopez-cant-stop-taking-swimsuit-selfies-in-italy-amid-ben-affleck-divorce-rumors/

Wearing heels on a boat?

I’m surprised the bikini is only 99 dollars. Someone’s manager has her on a budget .

If Ben really did restart drinking , it does seem rather insane she’s relaxing in Italy alone taking selfies while his life is falling apart lol.

What else can she do for him. He moved out. He is actively leaving their marriage. Should she stay put in case he needs some fast food or a ride somewhere? He's got a literal kother and Jen G. for that. He doesn't i dicate he wants Jen L. with him. So what is she to do?

Maybe being there for the partner she says she has a true love story with? Showing some empathy and compassion and nurturing toward him during this time..

She doesn’t seem to be the hand holding type which is fine but that is what addicts need. Their sensitivities and triggers are plenty and showboating and gallivanting around town and on yachts like a show pony probably frustrates him and trigger him to drink. She has a surface meaning of love. She just wants Ben to be a Ken doll for her to kiss and hold hands at red carpets and award shows (where alcohol abound), but she doesn’t care or is oblivious to the real work of caring and loving a partner .

What makes you think Ben wants Jen L. beside him in that role? He has given very little indication that he wants her to help him out.

The failure of their relationship triggered depression, which puts him at risk for relapse. Agree he doesn't want her around, she doesn't help. His mom and his ex have a deeper understanding of his problems and are more generous in terms of solid support, which actually does help him.

BS. Garner has to be concerned about his alcoholism or drug abuse because they have kids together. She loves her kids and knows their dad being an f-up hurts them. Lopez can not fix his addiction problems and if she was smart she would have dumped him the minute he went off of whatever wagon he was on.

No evidence whatsoever he's off the wagon at all, just there is concern about the risk.

+1 It's just the JLo stans who want him to be culpable. He moved out and then moved all of his things out when she was away because he doesn't want to be married to her and her lifestyle anymore. Not saying she's entirely at fault, it really comes down to the fact that they're just too different, but she didn't seem willing to make any adjustments to make him more comfortable either.

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J Lo can survive the loss of any man but not Benny Medina. He is irreplaceable to her as her career tanked without him.

He was the one who got her American Idol as penance for the diva rumors/blacklisting

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Anonymous wrote:I've liked other movies she's been in recently - the mother on Netflix was good.

I liked Shotgun Wedding for the campy action movie it was.

Monster in Law is great as well . It was also Fonda’s comeback movie and Jennifer’s commercial comeback after the flop of Gigli . She starred opposite Garner’s ex boyfriend and costar Michael Vartan in that movie as his fiancée . I wonder if she chose that on purpose because Garner was Affleck’s rebound.

These two have some sort of ax to grind about Ben. I am sure Garner was the one leaking stories about Ben leaning on her shoulder for help. It’s not appropriate for her to spend days and nights with Ben without the kids . He’s a married man.

Lopez didn't dump Affleck, he dumped her for Garner.

I think there’s bad blood there . On Ellen Degeneres show, J Lo refused to say Garner when asked to mention other famous Jennifers in a five second recall game lol. She feigned ignorance when reminded by Ellen of Jennifer Garner

There is 100%. Ben and JLO were engaged when Garner was all heart eyes about him. I think one of them even said they fell in lovd during daredevil while he was still very much with jlo. Now I d agree with the pp, he didn't leave JLO for Garner but Garner definitely played a part. Ben did anything and everything to get out that engagement. JLO obviously feels a certain way about her still and that's fair

At one point earlier this year, both J Lo and Garner bat signaled about wanting MORE kids . They’re both in their 50’s. They’re both older than Ben. J Lo was first with news stories about surrogacy..

I wonder if that’s what pushed this current divorce and why Ben is running. Ben has always put his foot down that he doesn’t want any more kids. Frankly, I don’t think he even wanted the ones he has. His family line is plagued with substance abuse and depression and I don’t think he even wanted to marry Garner but girlfriend was able to make sure she got off birth control to trap him fast and hence they had their shotgun wedding . All credit to J Lo because even she didn’t go that far in her chase of Ben

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Ben has said his biggest fear is his kids inheriting his troubles the way he inherited it from his father.

Having a crazy breeder wife is the last thing he needs and it seems he had one on his hands with both wives

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Anonymous wrote:Ben also hooked up with Britney. Britney posted they made out in 1999. She deleted it after commenters noted she was 17 at the time.

She then apologized and said her memory is bad so she’s not sure when it happened. Yeah, right.

Bens PR is scandal - sensitive. They don’t want any stink from his past or J Los past to sully him. Ben actually wants to go into politics in the future. Dems have a white male problem and he’s being groomed to be a possible future candidate .

I remember during the first era of Bennifer there were rumors he wanted a future in politics, which was why JLo dumped her manager at the time - to move away from the “urban” image. Ben’s such a public mess now is that still a goal of his?

That same manager Benny Medina is her current manager .

Benny Medina is the reason J Lo is a household name . He was able to spin gold out of a non-singer and ok actress . He was the former manager for Will Smith and the real life inspiration behind the show The Fresh Prince of Bel Air. He’s a very interesting character and the only real man Jennifer Lopez has been with the longest.

He happens to be gay and he’s also the one J Lo blamed for the diva demands like white candles and counting sheets by the thread count and all that ridiculous diva nonsense. He also managed Mariah Carey around this time era after he and J Lo broke business relations and he put Mariah through the same mess. Affleck didn’t like Medina in 2003, and when all those reports came out about J Los ridiculous diva behavior and dressing room demands , Benny Medina was blamed for it and J Lo listened to Affleck and fired Benny.

Benny gave her a gift when she was pregnant with the twins and they reconnected and she hired him 5 -6 years later . He is the even the godfather of her kids. His sensibilities for “Old Hwood glam” and “diva” fit J Lo’s as a glove but it is the antithesis of Ben Affleck

I'm just impressed anyone KNOWS this stuff!

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Anonymous wrote:I've liked other movies she's been in recently - the mother on Netflix was good.

I liked Shotgun Wedding for the campy action movie it was.

Monster in Law is great as well . It was also Fonda’s comeback movie and Jennifer’s commercial comeback after the flop of Gigli . She starred opposite Garner’s ex boyfriend and costar Michael Vartan in that movie as his fiancée . I wonder if she chose that on purpose because Garner was Affleck’s rebound.

These two have some sort of ax to grind about Ben. I am sure Garner was the one leaking stories about Ben leaning on her shoulder for help. It’s not appropriate for her to spend days and nights with Ben without the kids . He’s a married man.

Lopez didn't dump Affleck, he dumped her for Garner.

I think there’s bad blood there . On Ellen Degeneres show, J Lo refused to say Garner when asked to mention other famous Jennifers in a five second recall game lol. She feigned ignorance when reminded by Ellen of Jennifer Garner

There is 100%. Ben and JLO were engaged when Garner was all heart eyes about him. I think one of them even said they fell in lovd during daredevil while he was still very much with jlo. Now I d agree with the pp, he didn't leave JLO for Garner but Garner definitely played a part. Ben did anything and everything to get out that engagement. JLO obviously feels a certain way about her still and that's fair

At one point earlier this year, both J Lo and Garner bat signaled about wanting MORE kids . They’re both in their 50’s. They’re both older than Ben. J Lo was first with news stories about surrogacy..

I wonder if that’s what pushed this current divorce and why Ben is running. Ben has always put his foot down that he doesn’t want any more kids. Frankly, I don’t think he even wanted the ones he has. His family line is plagued with substance abuse and depression and I don’t think he even wanted to marry Garner but girlfriend was able to make sure she got off birth control to trap him fast and hence they had their shotgun wedding . All credit to J Lo because even she didn’t go that far in her chase of Ben

She did not say she wanted more kids. She made a comment that she got pregnant very easily and made a joke that as a 50 something year old woman she could probably still get pregnant today.

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Anonymous wrote:https://people.com/ben-affleck-moves-things-out-jennifer-lopez-shared-mansion-source-8671237

He's officially moved everything out. This update wasn't really needed. I assume the officially announcement will be around the 4th like people predicted

Yeah, they dumped this update on a Friday afternoon. The divorce will probably be announced next Friday, the day after the holiday.

This is embarrassing for J Lo. She just spent $20 million of her own money producing an album and documentary about their great love affair. She had to cancel her tour due to poor sales and now her marriage is over just months after she repeatedly gushed over Ben and their supposed great love story.

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Anonymous wrote:https://people.com/ben-affleck-moves-things-out-jennifer-lopez-shared-mansion-source-8671237

He's officially moved everything out. This update wasn't really needed. I assume the officially announcement will be around the 4th like people predicted

Yeah, they dumped this update on a Friday afternoon. The divorce will probably be announced next Friday, the day after the holiday.

This is embarrassing for J Lo. She just spent $20 million of her own money producing an album and documentary about their great love affair. She had to cancel her tour due to poor sales and now her marriage is over just months after she repeatedly gushed over Ben and their supposed great love story. [/quote]

After 120 pages of this thread I think we're all aware of this stuff. You don't need to repeat it, we're not goldfish.

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Anonymous wrote:https://people.com/ben-affleck-moves-things-out-jennifer-lopez-shared-mansion-source-8671237

He's officially moved everything out. This update wasn't really needed. I assume the officially announcement will be around the 4th like people predicted

Yeah, they dumped this update on a Friday afternoon. The divorce will probably be announced next Friday, the day after the holiday.

This is embarrassing for J Lo. She just spent $20 million of her own money producing an album and documentary about their great love affair. She had to cancel her tour due to poor sales and now her marriage is over just months after she repeatedly gushed over Ben and their supposed great love story.

It's sad they dragged the kids in this mess. Ben should have never reached out to her.

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Anonymous wrote:https://people.com/ben-affleck-moves-things-out-jennifer-lopez-shared-mansion-source-8671237

He's officially moved everything out. This update wasn't really needed. I assume the officially announcement will be around the 4th like people predicted

Yeah, they dumped this update on a Friday afternoon. The divorce will probably be announced next Friday, the day after the holiday.

This is embarrassing for J Lo. She just spent $20 million of her own money producing an album and documentary about their great love affair. She had to cancel her tour due to poor sales and now her marriage is over just months after she repeatedly gushed over Ben and their supposed great love story.

It's sad they dragged the kids in this mess. Ben should have never reached out to her.

+1 the kids had gotten to know Anna then straight to JLo. (Don’t know if they ever met Shookus). He’s such a mess. As is she.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I've liked other movies she's been in recently - the mother on Netflix was good.

I liked Shotgun Wedding for the campy action movie it was.

Monster in Law is great as well . It was also Fonda’s comeback movie and Jennifer’s commercial comeback after the flop of Gigli . She starred opposite Garner’s ex boyfriend and costar Michael Vartan in that movie as his fiancée . I wonder if she chose that on purpose because Garner was Affleck’s rebound.

These two have some sort of ax to grind about Ben. I am sure Garner was the one leaking stories about Ben leaning on her shoulder for help. It’s not appropriate for her to spend days and nights with Ben without the kids . He’s a married man.

Lopez didn't dump Affleck, he dumped her for Garner.

I think there’s bad blood there . On Ellen Degeneres show, J Lo refused to say Garner when asked to mention other famous Jennifers in a five second recall game lol. She feigned ignorance when reminded by Ellen of Jennifer Garner

There is 100%. Ben and JLO were engaged when Garner was all heart eyes about him. I think one of them even said they fell in lovd during daredevil while he was still very much with jlo. Now I d agree with the pp, he didn't leave JLO for Garner but Garner definitely played a part. Ben did anything and everything to get out that engagement. JLO obviously feels a certain way about her still and that's fair

At one point earlier this year, both J Lo and Garner bat signaled about wanting MORE kids . They’re both in their 50’s. They’re both older than Ben. J Lo was first with news stories about surrogacy..

I wonder if that’s what pushed this current divorce and why Ben is running. Ben has always put his foot down that he doesn’t want any more kids. Frankly, I don’t think he even wanted the ones he has. His family line is plagued with substance abuse and depression and I don’t think he even wanted to marry Garner but girlfriend was able to make sure she got off birth control to trap him fast and hence they had their shotgun wedding . All credit to J Lo because even she didn’t go that far in her chase of Ben

Garner did not say she wanted more kids. I don’t know why people are pushing this rumor from one comment taken out of context. She and Christy Turlington have a mutual friend who works for a nonprofit raising money for maternal health. Jen and Christy went on her podcast - the whole topic was their mothers, becoming a mom, their journey in motherhood. For the purpose of raising awareness For the nonprofit that works for global maternal health.

Jen was asked about her pregnancies and she talked about how each time she got pregnant very easily. The host said, “so you were born to breed huh?” Jen laughed and made a joke about how she could probably go out on a field and pop one out at 52. She was obviously kidding.

A few years ago, some fans commented during an appearance for her organic kids food company that she looked pregnant in her overalls. At the time she said, “I’m not pregnant. I’m 48. I’ve had three kids…. This pupper is done, and I will never be pregnant again.”

She has not said anywhere that she wants more kids.

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Anonymous wrote:https://people.com/ben-affleck-moves-things-out-jennifer-lopez-shared-mansion-source-8671237

He's officially moved everything out. This update wasn't really needed. I assume the officially announcement will be around the 4th like people predicted

Yeah, they dumped this update on a Friday afternoon. The divorce will probably be announced next Friday, the day after the holiday.

This is embarrassing for J Lo. She just spent $20 million of her own money producing an album and documentary about their great love affair. She had to cancel her tour due to poor sales and now her marriage is over just months after she repeatedly gushed over Ben and their supposed great love story.

It's sad they dragged the kids in this mess. Ben should have never reached out to her.

+1 the kids had gotten to know Anna then straight to JLo. (Don’t know if they ever met Shookus). He’s such a mess. As is she.

That would be a no. She was an affair partner for years before she was an official "girlfriend". The one Garner flew to NY to ask if she'd please leave her husband alone.