Well thank god for that at least. What a beyotch. (of course primary responsibility rests with Ben) |
J Lo’s kids were crying when she broke up with A Rod. She is introducing multiple surrogate dads into her children’s lives and then traumatizing them when her relationships inevitably implode. |
This is why I don't feel sorry for her. It was weeks between Arod and Ben. Her kids had llttle time to greive. She's selfish and doesnt realize you cant act like a love struck teenager when you have kids. Your kids will get hurt in the process. He's also a POS and I believe he was stringing her along until it got too much. He knows how JLO is and knows he was the one who got away. What's up with the whole "Not Going Anywhere" stunt he said in the letters and ring? He was just telling her what she wanted to hear. |
I feel so sorry for JLO's kids. She and her ex simply plow through partners on impulse. THey're going to be so screwed up. No sympathy for her from me. |
That people article makes me question if it was Ben who originally leaked they weren't living together. Someone in one of the threads said there was some kind of connection with him and intouch weekly. |
Three stepdads . Each relationship for four years. Casper Smart . He was a backup dancer she dated in 2011 right after divorce. She was with him till 2016. 2017-2021 she was with A Rod. 2021-present Affleck. That’s alot of men to bond with before 18. Marc Anthony also has a revolving door of wives . Her kids are probably tired of meeting people and going to their parents weddings |
It’s emotional abuse. Why did he beg her to come back to him and give her a ring saying “not going anywhere” only to dump her? Why did he congratulate her and praise her for making her own movie and even star in it? The IG post J Lo liked about a gaslighting manipulative partner may be right. These two are a total train wreck but she’s getting most of the blame when he is at fault as well. He introduced his kids to Lindsay Shookus, Ana de Armas and he didn’t need to introduce them to the nanny because they already knew her . He’s a total mess just like Jennifer Lopez |
yes, but at least he is not making a movie about himself and his one true love. |
I suspect her and Arod separated long before we knew it. |
I think Ben has dramatic mood swings, either bipolar or manic. Difficult to live with him. |
DP. This was a big misstep in her part. No one is saying it wasn't. I'd rather she go all in on the marriage to a absurd degree than be like Ben who says he's in it forever but has a foot out the door at all times. |
^^ He left the marriage at 2 years. She didn't. |
Agree. My brother was self-medicating (alcohol) bipolar. Classic mix of highs, lows, and frequent irritability. Very hard to live with. Ben does seem similar. |
It's a good example of love bombing. If he really loved her or really meant what he said he wouldn't have left so easily. What JLO did was unacceptable BUT he acknowledged he she had issues she was working through. He has every right to deem the relationship too much but he hasn't been truthful and shouldn't have fed into her fantasy. Shame on him for that. |
That’s because J Lo isn’t his one true love. His one true love is Jack Daniels. |