Can we analyze jennifer lopez?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Poster above. And my contention is that this is why he left. He saw her as she is.

Agree with this but he was also feeding her delusions. But she should have listened.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Poster above. And my contention is that this is why he left. He saw her as she is.

You’re probably 100% right. Jennifer only sees her needs first and anyone else’s concerns are secondary and I’m sure that drove Ben up the wall. The at home alcohol commercials she shot and award shows she wanted to go to with Ben were alcohol flows freely probably drove him, a recovering alcoholic, crazy

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Poster above. And my contention is that this is why he left. He saw her as she is.

Agree with this but he was also feeding her delusions. But she should have listened.

Yes of course, they are both very limited people psychologically

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Poster above. And my contention is that this is why he left. He saw her as she is.

You’re probably 100% right. Jennifer only sees her needs first and anyone else’s concerns are secondary and I’m sure that drove Ben up the wall. The at home alcohol commercials she shot and award shows she wanted to go to with Ben were alcohol flows freely probably drove him, a recovering alcoholic, crazy

Yea her capacity to dig deep and have any real empathy seems unlikely. She also looks thin skinned and humorless... In her doc he teases her about wanting to be young...28 or something, and he finds this funny she says it's not about her, she's going "meta". Then she calls him an idiot. This is not a person to have as a partner.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Poster above. And my contention is that this is why he left. He saw her as she is.

You’re probably 100% right. Jennifer only sees her needs first and anyone else’s concerns are secondary and I’m sure that drove Ben up the wall. The at home alcohol commercials she shot and award shows she wanted to go to with Ben were alcohol flows freely probably drove him, a recovering alcoholic, crazy

Yea her capacity to dig deep and have any real empathy seems unlikely. She also looks thin skinned and humorless... In her doc he teases her about wanting to be young...28 or something, and he finds this funny she says it's not about her, she's going "meta". Then she calls him an idiot. This is not a person to have as a partner.

ugh.... no wonder he ran for the hills.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Poster above. And my contention is that this is why he left. He saw her as she is.

Agree with this but he was also feeding her delusions. But she should have listened.

At age 55, with 4 marriages/divorces and 2 broken engagements and other broken relationships, Ms. Lopez needs to get into serious therapy and learn what's truly meaningful in life. Her emotional immaturity has been on full display for a very long time.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:J Lo is taking each kid one at a time for a day out. She took BA’s boy to Needless Markup to buy cologne.

And this is weird.

JLo was with Ben for 2 years. Presumably they didn’t introduce Ben’s kids right away. They traveled without the kids a lot at the beginning. I have no clue how JLo could be that important to his kids—or why he and Garner would allow such access.

I’m guessing the Affleck/Damon movie featuring JLo is terrible and they know it, so they are faking the split and curated a storyline to keep the media engaged. I predict a miraculous reunion just as the movie is released, complete with a family pap walk on the red carpet.

I used to respect Garner for being the responsible adult, but I doubt any of this stuff would be happening without her blessing.

Garner can't forbid her Ex from taking the kids around the new wife or giving the new wife access to the kids especially when they are old enough to consent to going themselves.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Poster above. And my contention is that this is why he left. He saw her as she is.

Agree with this but he was also feeding her delusions. But she should have listened.

At age 55, with 4 marriages/divorces and 2 broken engagements and other broken relationships, Ms. Lopez needs to get into serious therapy and learn what's truly meaningful in life. Her emotional immaturity has been on full display for a very long time.

She dressed up as an 18th century British queen from Bridgerton for her birthday last month. I agree she is a bit much for any man to deal with. Too much pageantry, no real intimacy. She showed a team of her songwriter and producer squad all of bens love letters to her. Those were meant to be private and Ben even says this in the documentary that he wasn’t comfortable. At one point, one of the songwriters says in the studio, they started calling Ben “ Pen Affleck” as a joke.

[Anonymous]

Because she needs every single person to know how much Ben is in love with her. Otherwise what is the point?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Because she needs every single person to know how much Ben is in love with her. Otherwise what is the point?

+1 like a teenager

[Anonymous]

Seems to be a lot of infidelity "rumors" surrounding her relationships. She has become a diva and how does a man compete with that? Mariah Carey, diva. Dianna Ross, diva. She's in her 50's. She should figure out herself first, before she jumps into another relationship. What is she teaching her daughter? Rebound Aaron fast as you can? She's not prioritizing her kids. Leaving dating alone for a long time JLO.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Seems to be a lot of infidelity "rumors" surrounding her relationships. She has become a diva and how does a man compete with that? Mariah Carey, diva. Dianna Ross, diva. She's in her 50's. She should figure out herself first, before she jumps into another relationship. What is she teaching her daughter? Rebound Aaron fast as you can? She's not prioritizing her kids. Leaving dating alone for a long time JLO.

She has always struggled to be alone.

[Anonymous]

To figure herself out, she would have needed time alone. She has not beenn capable of doing the work therapeutically. So the patterns repeat...maybe this time she will do it. I really hope so, for her sake and the sake of anyone who cares about her.

[Anonymous]

Jlo has never been in rehab, suffered from alcoholism, etc. She keeps herself healthy, fit. She should just sit back and let this man continue to self destruct. She will be just fine. Time will reveal… it always does.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Seems to be a lot of infidelity "rumors" surrounding her relationships. She has become a diva and how does a man compete with that? Mariah Carey, diva. Dianna Ross, diva. She's in her 50's. She should figure out herself first, before she jumps into another relationship. What is she teaching her daughter? Rebound Aaron fast as you can? She's not prioritizing her kids. Leaving dating alone for a long time JLO.

She has always struggled to be alone.

That may really be the one thing they have most in common.