Why or why not have a 4th child?

[Anonymous]

The environment. Major con against >2 biological kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My spouse comes from a larger family and their siblings have told me they never got one-on-one time with either of their parents and they really could’ve used it as they got older. They never had talks or just alone time with a parent when they were struggling. It’s always logistics and just feeding or shuttling the kids somewhere.

Additionally, they never got to choose sports or activities THEY wanted to do. They either got signed up for something piggybacking on what other siblings did or they didn’t get to do anything outside of what was offered at school.

big deal. i signed my kids for activities THEY wanted to do multiple times. and as soon as they needed to put in some effort, they wanted to do something else. again and again.