How do you tell a child they life they knew is over?

Anonymous
I thought this thread was going to be about a child who lost a parent to Covid.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:+1 your T cells have a memory component. It's kinda like your google search history, so when you are exposed again your body says oh I think I've seen this before.

For the love of god, I hope T-cells are nothing like my Google search history
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:OP you’re either trolling or need therapy


Total troll.
Anonymous
acknowledge feelings, acknowledge feelings, acknowledge feelings. kids need to learn how to deal with these and become emotionally intelligent. part of the reason we are in this mess is that many (upper middle class) Americans are poorly equipped to deal with adversity and we try to titanic and/or "be positive" our way out of it. acknowledge feelings, give kids the tools to deal with their feelings, and then reflect.
Anonymous
My 8th grader is majorly struggling with the change of life and , much like the parents in this forum, want to go back to school in person, see all her friends, play her sports and continue life as normal. I have her watch some of the news so that I will not be the blame. She gets it but really does not care. My 4 yo get´ it perfectly well. She will explain what we have to do differently and why, will tell children who come by that we are social distancing, and wears her mask valiantly. I am astonished that my 4 yo is world´s more together than my teen. She even did her zooms with gusto and will practice writing her letters and words and read with someone nearby. The teen on the other hand, hates getting up, and is like pulling teeth to get her to get started. Be open OP, and see how you can involve her in the changes in her life.
Anonymous
This is probably dumb but I'm kind of worried that my 23 year old daughter will never get married, cuz how's she gonna meet someone in this. She refuses to do online dating as well. If this goes on for 5 years, I think my DH will probably start getting really concerned about this.
Anonymous
Don't be so dramatic.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:This is probably dumb but I'm kind of worried that my 23 year old daughter will never get married, cuz how's she gonna meet someone in this. She refuses to do online dating as well. If this goes on for 5 years, I think my DH will probably start getting really concerned about this.


She's 23, leave her alone.
Anonymous
I feel like this is sort of a test for many Americans to see how well we are able to adapt and thrive while dealing with uncertainty and adversity. If anything we Americans should show the world that we can beat this and even though life is a little altered right now, our children can still grow and learn and ultimately become stronger more resilient individuals. It all depends on how you view the situation. I am competitive by nature and look at this as a challenge. We will prove the world wrong and show them that we can handle anything. We are stronger than this.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I feel like this is sort of a test for many Americans to see how well we are able to adapt and thrive while dealing with uncertainty and adversity. If anything we Americans should show the world that we can beat this and even though life is a little altered right now, our children can still grow and learn and ultimately become stronger more resilient individuals. It all depends on how you view the situation. I am competitive by nature and look at this as a challenge. We will prove the world wrong and show them that we can handle anything. We are stronger than this.


LOL
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I feel like this is sort of a test for many Americans to see how well we are able to adapt and thrive while dealing with uncertainty and adversity. If anything we Americans should show the world that we can beat this and even though life is a little altered right now, our children can still grow and learn and ultimately become stronger more resilient individuals. It all depends on how you view the situation. I am competitive by nature and look at this as a challenge. We will prove the world wrong and show them that we can handle anything. We are stronger than this.


LOL

Why do you LOL?! My grandparents survived the Great Depression and then had siblings go on to fight and die for our country in WWII, so, there’s no way will allow a virus to change me or my outlook on life.
Anonymous
I ain’t scared of no stinkin virus
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I ain’t scared of no stinkin virus


Come visit my ICU
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I ain’t scared of no stinkin virus


Come visit my ICU

How many patients in “your ICU” have no comorbidities? How many are under 65? How many are not obese? Just because the virus exists doesn’t mean I need to be terrified of living.
Anonymous
Scientists, 3/20: It will take about 18 months for us to develop a vaccine.

Americans, 7/20: THERE WILL NEVER BE A VACCINE FOMG LIFE IS OVERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR HOW DO I TELL MY CHILD THAT SHE WILL BE LIVING IN A SPACE SUIT FOR THE REST OF HER LIFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFE

jfc.
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