Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am naive and oblivious, I guess, but I am totally surprised that there are both rankings and 12 pages of comments about what's the best team for 10 year olds. How depressing.
My kids play soccer, but I guess they don't play "that" kind of soccer. They have fun, though!
I have a boy the same age and have found this ridiculous. Though I also have a 14-year old son and I have seen how at this age none of this matters. The ones most concerned with rankings usually don’t last.
Kid loving the ball and having a blast with teammates means so much more for keeping them in the sport and succeeding down the road. It’s much too early to care that much about a teams little kid rankings.
They have spelling bees for kids But thats ridiculous too since whats the point right?
Spelling bees is your analogy? So out of touch. 10-year old rankings mean absolutely nothing. You obviously never played soccer at a high level to understand this. When the hype started around Pulisic at 11/12/13/14, his own parents were the first to squash it. They repeatedly stated they have no idea how Christian would turn out and how he hadn't even gone through puberty. The parents played competitively and coached so they had seen this play out and know how unpredictable it is. They are a lot of the reason he has succeeded. They were never blowing smoke up this ass. He never was told or thought he was the best. He knew the landscape.
Most people that have truly talented kids are not the ones constantly boasting or talking about little kiddie stats or stars. It's a marathon and a long developmental process.
Parents like these are ruining the sport for the kids. It's about the parents' own inadequacies, not the kids. Fighting over little girls' 10/11-year old team standings---wow. Take a step back. When your kid is 18/19/20, come back and check in.
I do read the boards to avoid Club environments and parents like this--though taken with a grain of salt as I realize most are solely to disparage others. Certain Clubs are known to perpetuate this behavior, however. It's not good for the kids and most of the players have douchey attitudes because they get it from home.
Do your kids a favor now and don't tell them they are wonderful and how much better they are than their teammates and other teams at this age. They just might stick with it longer than middle school.