S/O: So what do men find attractive?

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Anonymous wrote:I need to get my DW a$$ drunk to get a bløwjøb. Fortunately abc stores are open all week!!


Mine is horrible at being sexually giving, blowhobs are rare

Really a downside of being married to her.. makes me envious of guys who have it better



I'm blessed to have an attractive wife who will play with my package many different ways. As each year goes by she gets better and better. She's a girl next door type whose bedroom skills would surprise her friends.


I'd be glad to let her surprise the he'll out of me.
Anonymous
He'll = hell
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Apparently someone didn't like my response.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:About your wife's sister's husband PP, the one who you said doesn't have much sex - do you believe him, or do you think he is looking to step out and have everyone think he not the bad guy? I know guys who lie about not getting sex, and the AP is so dumb, they believe it!


PP here. I could be wrong, but I don't think he has any interest in stepping out (although I doubt he would advertise that to me). They've been together for over a decade (early 40's) and have obviously made it work. I don't even think the issue is so much lack of volume, as just she doesn't particularly enjoy being touched (by anybody). That would be hard on me.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:How long of hair are we talking?


Remember Keri Russell on Felicity? Don’t do that.
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Anonymous wrote:I prefer a woman who is kinky.


That's a deal breaker for me also but I will add this. I'd rather be in a relationship with a woman who has suppressed kinky desires she never got a chance to explore before, than one who has been practicing kink for some time. I'll help her explore the life. But she still has to have long hair I can grab hold of.


Why? You only want her to be a kinky whore with you? Pig.


Yeah, pretty much. If you know the world of kink and the women in it, you would understand better. A lot of them get really get damaged by it because of the F'd up men they get with. Or they have really hardened views of what is the true way, as they've experienced it in the past. It's sooo much more fun to lead someone down that path myself and have her explore it as something new. And there are plenty of women who want to explore that side of them but have only been with vanilla men who would never think of it, or she would never approach him about it.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:Confidence


A woman said this.

For the umpteenth time, men do not give a sht about your confidence. That is what YOU like in men, not what they like in you.



This.
Anonymous
Too many women go through invasive, costly surgeries (my sister had a nose job, and her best friend just got her boobs done) when they could focus on easier, more directly controllable things like being pleasant to others, wearing sunscreen instead of tanning, getting out and seeing the world (so they have interesting stories and experiences to share), etc.


Trust me, you didn't approach your wife because she wore sunscreen or because she's seen the world
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Too many women go through invasive, costly surgeries (my sister had a nose job, and her best friend just got her boobs done) when they could focus on easier, more directly controllable things like being pleasant to others, wearing sunscreen instead of tanning, getting out and seeing the world (so they have interesting stories and experiences to share), etc.


Trust me, you didn't approach your wife because she wore sunscreen or because she's seen the world


Woman here. Great skin can make up for a lot of things. It's the first thing people see.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:The 6 pack thread reminded me of a recent conversation with some friends at a happy hour. We were pointing out which women we found attractive, and my male friends had very different opinions than my female friends. I’ve also noticed this with celebrities- I don’t find the ones that men seem to like all that attractive.

So, guys, what exactly is it that you like?


Beauty and warmth.
Anonymous
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Too many women go through invasive, costly surgeries (my sister had a nose job, and her best friend just got her boobs done) when they could focus on easier, more directly controllable things like being pleasant to others, wearing sunscreen instead of tanning, getting out and seeing the world (so they have interesting stories and experiences to share), etc.


Trust me, you didn't approach your wife because she wore sunscreen or because she's seen the world


Woman here. Great skin can make up for a lot of things. It's the first thing people see.


Showing all your skin compensates for lack of sunscreen.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
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Too many women go through invasive, costly surgeries (my sister had a nose job, and her best friend just got her boobs done) when they could focus on easier, more directly controllable things like being pleasant to others, wearing sunscreen instead of tanning, getting out and seeing the world (so they have interesting stories and experiences to share), etc.


Trust me, you didn't approach your wife because she wore sunscreen or because she's seen the world


Woman here. Great skin can make up for a lot of things. It's the first thing people see.


Not really. If a girl has a big nose, it's a problem. Much bigger problem than the skin without sunscreen [not even obvious in your twenties].
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:Anyone who will have sex with them.


This. My boyfriend told me basically the same thing ... "anybody who is willing to hold my dong". were his exact words.



gross
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Anonymous wrote:
Too many women go through invasive, costly surgeries (my sister had a nose job, and her best friend just got her boobs done) when they could focus on easier, more directly controllable things like being pleasant to others, wearing sunscreen instead of tanning, getting out and seeing the world (so they have interesting stories and experiences to share), etc.


Trust me, you didn't approach your wife because she wore sunscreen or because she's seen the world


Woman here. Great skin can make up for a lot of things. It's the first thing people see.


Not really. If a girl has a big nose, it's a problem. Much bigger problem than the skin without sunscreen [not even obvious in your twenties].


Big nose with bad skin sucks worse than big nose with smooth, gorgeous skin. You can already tell who uses sunscreen among twenty-somethings.
Anonymous


Are we like back in high school?
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