S/O: So what do men find attractive?

[Anonymous]

A smile, confidence and eye contact.

Most men are simple creatures.

[Anonymous]

I'm the "curves!" PP. Don't get me wrong, I like other stuff too -- but those were the primary things that push my buttons. And, once the sex starts happening, physical attributes become secondary to how sexually creative the woman is.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think most men are attracted to a non-overweight figure with a pretty face. 85% of all women could meet this low bar, yet so many women disqualify themselves because they are overweight.

So that’s it: just non-overweight and pretty face. At that point, her sexual views now are far more important than any further physical beauty.

As for my own tastes, I value physical fitness. That 6 pack abs lady can have me as her domestic slave if she just gets naked with me a few times/week.

I would argue even minimally overweight is not a deal breaker for most men.

+1

Lots of awesome sex and BJs is way more important than perfect fitness.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Curves! Wide hips and big boobs, but there has to be a narrowing at the waist. It doesn't have to be crazy small, but the waist does have to be smaller than the hips. On top of that, long hair, full lips, pretty smile, big eyes.

I guess I do not fulfill your type. I do not have big boobs or full lips, but I have been told I am sexy regardless.

This is why these threads are so annoying. Individual man gives his own preferences, woman who doesn't meet them gets pissy. Who CARES- you aren't sexy to everyone, none of us are!! He's not talking bad about YOU.

I am the one who responded. I am not being pissy. I know everybody has their own tastes

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Confidence

A woman said this.

For the umpteenth time, men do not give a sht about your confidence. That is what YOU like in men, not what they like in you.

Wrong. Confidence is way more attractive than insecurity.

But I don't care about a woman who is confident but annoying and/or ugly.

You're making my point for me. All the confidence in the world isn't going to compensate for it if a woman is fat, ugly, or annoying.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Confidence

A woman said this.

For the umpteenth time, men do not give a sht about your confidence. That is what YOU like in men, not what they like in you.

My c suite male boss told me that. I am sorry that your wife is not giving you sex.

Your boss is right. I am sorry you are fat and that your "confident attitude" (i.e., being strident and argumentative) isn't making men like you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think most men are attracted to a non-overweight figure with a pretty face. 85% of all women could meet this low bar, yet so many women disqualify themselves because they are overweight.

So that’s it: just non-overweight and pretty face. At that point, her sexual views now are far more important than any further physical beauty.

As for my own tastes, I value physical fitness. That 6 pack abs lady can have me as her domestic slave if she just gets naked with me a few times/week.

I would argue even minimally overweight is not a deal breaker for most men.

+1

Lots of awesome sex and BJs is way more important than perfect fitness.

So true , a woman that appreciates a mans gift of his body is the best

[Anonymous]

If women want to know what most men like. Study the Dallas cowboy cheerleaders and what their female coaches tell them they have to do. The basic figures , hairstyles , makeup , voices and attitudes are almost scientifically proven to be what men really want.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If women want to know what most men like. Study the Dallas cowboy cheerleaders and what their female coaches tell them they have to do. The basic figures , hairstyles , makeup , voices and attitudes are almost scientifically proven to be what men really want.

[Anonymous]

Do you have any solution for not being built for monogamy?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do you have any solution for not being built for monogamy?

We try to keep things exciting and nurture our sex life, but her efforts and execution often falls short of what I want/need.

Not sure I can happily be monogamous for decades, but I guess we'll see.

[Anonymous]

Sex and relationships is all in the head. If mind is relaxed for both partners, I think everything will be great. Less nagging and bit(hing for her and showing more compassion for him is the key?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sex and relationships is all in the head. If mind is relaxed for both partners, I think everything will be great. Less nagging and bit(hing for her and showing more compassion for him is the key?

Sure, as long as she’s not fat.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Confidence

A woman said this.

For the umpteenth time, men do not give a sht about your confidence. That is what YOU like in men, not what they like in you.

+100000

Men like nice bodies. Good chests, legs and tight ass.

“She is so hot. Look at that confidence!” — no man ever

[Anonymous]

Personally I like an athletic type — not too skinny from distance running, but fit body, nice smile.