S/O: So what do men find attractive?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Serious question-do men like a challenge anymore?

Men have never liked a challenge. We want to get from Point A to B as quick as possible.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Serious question-do men like a challenge anymore?

1. Women who describe themselves as giving men a "challenge" are usually just difficult people that like to see their personal flaws as some kind of saucy appeal.

2. Most men do not want their dating lives to be a challenge. They want it to be enjoyable and pleasant.

3. The challenge-dynamic where the man is expected to work for your affection sets a bad precedent for the relationship.

4. If you try to give men a "challenge" you will disproportionately attract people who want to overcome the challenge and sleep with you and then move on.

5. The whole "challenge" dynamic where women are expected to male things difficult and men are supposed to fight through it, is heavily interrelated with a lot of bad and harmful things in our culture (sexual assault, harassment, etc). It's not good for women and not good for men.

Nailed it

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Serious question-do men like a challenge anymore?

1. Women who describe themselves as giving men a "challenge" are usually just difficult people that like to see their personal flaws as some kind of saucy appeal.

2. Most men do not want their dating lives to be a challenge. They want it to be enjoyable and pleasant.

3. The challenge-dynamic where the man is expected to work for your affection sets a bad precedent for the relationship.

4. If you try to give men a "challenge" you will disproportionately attract people who want to overcome the challenge and sleep with you and then move on.

5. The whole "challenge" dynamic where women are expected to male things difficult and men are supposed to fight through it, is heavily interrelated with a lot of bad and harmful things in our culture (sexual assault, harassment, etc). It's not good for women and not good for men.

Seriously if the woman does not meet you 1/2 and show interest, you move on down the road. If they start playing games, it ends. The days of men chasing women who are challenging/ not interested are over. Its not the movies, you are just not that special or interesting.