Who should pay for a date?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If the woman likes the guy she will buy him dinner and then have wild sex with him.

If she's unwilling to do that then she doesn't really like him.

Any woman who has the expectation that men she goes out on casual dates with should pay her way are greedy or delusional. If they were all that they wouldn't be available on the dating market anyway, right? They'd be in a relationship.

I guess they just don't see the connection between their transparent avarice and their inability to actually remain in a long term relationship.

Umm no. I've had plenty of wild sex but didn't have to pay for a man's dinner to get any. Lol

[Anonymous]

Of course, none of the above is unique to women -- men will break every internal rule they've got for a woman they think is hot, too. We're human beings, it's only natural that what a woman wants for the night can vary from what she wants to wake up with every morning. Still, though:

Rule 1: Be attractive.

Rule 2: Don't be unattractive.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Umm no. I've had plenty of wild sex but didn't have to pay for a man's dinner to get any. Lol

There you go, validating your self worth on your ability to extract money from men.

[Anonymous]

Lots of sexism going on. If two people go eat dinner, one gender should not be expected to pay. It's split. The "inviter" rule is BS because women rarely initiate dates.

It would be different if the inviter says "Can I take you out to dinner?" But that's not what happens these days. A date is a 'let's try each other out' mutual event.