Ex husband and wife throwing a birthday party for our child

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here, it was a little awkward, but I survived. Outside of saying hi, my ex and I didn't speak. His wife didn't acknowledge me at all nor did his other family members with the exception of his mom. DD however enjoyed her birthday and was glad that I came.

They invited you, but then they wouldn't speak to you? That's pretty amusing, actually! Hope you were see the humor in it later.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here, it was a little awkward, but I survived. Outside of saying hi, my ex and I didn't speak. His wife didn't acknowledge me at all nor did his other family members with the exception of his mom. DD however enjoyed her birthday and was glad that I came.

Thanks for the update.
Sounds a bit awkward - ex-DH didn't speak to you?
Glad you went - I'm sure your DD is happy.
I hope you have a party for her next year regardless of what they are doing.

Other than saying hi, he didn't say anything.

Well, he must have some understanding of what an ass he is then.
Hope things get easier for you in the future and that you have much joy in your life soon.

I hope so too!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP here, it was a little awkward, but I survived. Outside of saying hi, my ex and I didn't speak. His wife didn't acknowledge me at all nor did his other family members with the exception of his mom. DD however enjoyed her birthday and was glad that I came.

They invited you, but then they wouldn't speak to you? That's pretty amusing, actually! Hope you were see the humor in it later.

I did, hopefully we won't have to do this again for a long time!

[Anonymous]

Well done OP! Way to take the high road.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here, it was a little awkward, but I survived. Outside of saying hi, my ex and I didn't speak. His wife didn't acknowledge me at all nor did his other family members with the exception of his mom. DD however enjoyed her birthday and was glad that I came.

Thanks for the update. Wow, what a family but glad you got through it. I think those were the signs to do separate celebrations in the future. Your daughter will see those slights by his family.

OP those two did you a favor, he's the cheater yet his family can't say Hi or ask how you are. Next year have a sleep over for your daughter at your house. Ex can take her out to eat or something on a different day. That's how we did it, worked out great!

[Anonymous]

OP did you bring a friend for moral support?

[Anonymous]

Sorry they were jerks.

And that was great you were there for your DD.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP did you bring a friend for moral support?

Yes, I was so grateful that she came!

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Anonymous wrote:OP I wouldn't be able to go and pretend to be nice. My face would betray my disgust at those two. I wouldn't give them more ammunition to talk about you after you leave. This is a bad idea.

No, she should go and be mature about it. No bringing a hot date with her, either. If she went and was cheerful and pleasant to both of them, that would actually sting them pretty good.

Regardless of the circumstances of the breakup, the OP will unavoidably have to deal with her Ex and his new wife in various offspring-related events. Might as well steel herself to deal with it now.

But the other woman living in OPs house that she and her ex husband bought right before he dropped the news? That OP picked out but never got to live in due to that whore and her cheating husband?!?

This goes beyond being the bigger person.

What a bitch that new wife is.

OP, if this is true, you are my new hero! Your DD is lucky to have you.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP did you bring a friend for moral support?

Yes, I was so grateful that she came!

What a great friend

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP I wouldn't be able to go and pretend to be nice. My face would betray my disgust at those two. I wouldn't give them more ammunition to talk about you after you leave. This is a bad idea.

No, she should go and be mature about it. No bringing a hot date with her, either. If she went and was cheerful and pleasant to both of them, that would actually sting them pretty good.

Regardless of the circumstances of the breakup, the OP will unavoidably have to deal with her Ex and his new wife in various offspring-related events. Might as well steel herself to deal with it now.

But the other woman living in OPs house that she and her ex husband bought right before he dropped the news? That OP picked out but never got to live in due to that whore and her cheating husband?!?

This goes beyond being the bigger person.

What a bitch that new wife is.

OP, if this is true, you are my new hero! Your DD is lucky to have you.

Sadly, this is true.

[Anonymous]

OP next year do your own thing with DD.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DD is turning 10 in a few weeks and originally I was going to throw a party for her. Her dad told her that he and her stepmom were going throw a pool party for her and she told me she rather do that instead. I told her that was fine and that we can go out to dinner or something another day to celebrate. Turns out DD wants me to come to the party her dad is throwing. I really don't want to go because his wife, I know that's petty, but she's the reason for my divorce so I really don't want to be around either one of them. I know it's not about me, it's about DD, but this is hard. Any advice on what to do in this situation?

Rent a buff sexy man opposite race of your ex husband who is 5 to 10 years younger. Oil him up and Go!