Split check on first date...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I usually make the effort to pay on the first date and it is usually turned down. Went out with someone who let me split. Otherwise I liked him, but it was a turnoff. Is it a red flag?

Isn't this the same as when no mean yes = date rape. Or no mean no? Or no sometimes means yes?

Uhhhhhh no it's not actually. Having sex with someone when they have told you no is not the same as being disappointed when someone who has invited you out wants you to pay. Nice job trying to justify rape, though.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The man is pursuing the women period. F that up and you f up the balance of the entire relationship.
Broke man on a budget? Don't want to waste money on a maybe gurl? We have free museums and coffe is 2 bucks.

And here in lies the fundamental problem. You can pursue them - it completely fucks you up once you marry them. They are used to be presued - who the hell are you now supposed to be even partners. You know what - now that I think about it - he did the right thing - women want to be equals so why not start our as equals. Flame away ladies but that's your problem - you want your cake and eat it too - he should be so helpful around the house, and so open minded just don't forget to pay for everything and kiss your ass. That's why I don't see the younger male generation going for it. Its classic bait and switch. And you did it to yourselves.

Lol at this threat. Go ahead and make all your dates go Dutch. Just be prepared to not get laid anytime soon. This generation CAN have our cake and eat it too... And ya know what? It tastes delicious, thankyouverymuch.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The man is pursuing the women period. F that up and you f up the balance of the entire relationship.
Broke man on a budget? Don't want to waste money on a maybe gurl? We have free museums and coffe is 2 bucks.

And here in lies the fundamental problem. You can pursue them - it completely fucks you up once you marry them. They are used to be presued - who the hell are you now supposed to be even partners. You know what - now that I think about it - he did the right thing - women want to be equals so why not start our as equals. Flame away ladies but that's your problem - you want your cake and eat it too - he should be so helpful around the house, and so open minded just don't forget to pay for everything and kiss your ass. That's why I don't see the younger male generation going for it. Its classic bait and switch. And you did it to yourselves.

Lol at this threat. Go ahead and make all your dates go Dutch. Just be prepared to not get laid anytime soon. This generation CAN have our cake and eat it too... And ya know what? It tastes delicious, thankyouverymuch.

Wow, im a woman and if I went on a date with you I would have probably excused myself half way through and escaped through the window in the bathroom.

[Anonymous]

So you offered to pay but didn't really mean it?

Sounds like he really dodged a bullet with you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The man is pursuing the women period. F that up and you f up the balance of the entire relationship.
Broke man on a budget? Don't want to waste money on a maybe gurl? We have free museums and coffe is 2 bucks.

And here in lies the fundamental problem. You can pursue them - it completely fucks you up once you marry them. They are used to be presued - who the hell are you now supposed to be even partners. You know what - now that I think about it - he did the right thing - women want to be equals so why not start our as equals. Flame away ladies but that's your problem - you want your cake and eat it too - he should be so helpful around the house, and so open minded just don't forget to pay for everything and kiss your ass. That's why I don't see the younger male generation going for it. Its classic bait and switch. And you did it to yourselves.

Lol at this threat. Go ahead and make all your dates go Dutch. Just be prepared to not get laid anytime soon. This generation CAN have our cake and eat it too... And ya know what? It tastes delicious, thankyouverymuch.

PP Poster here - check in with me after you turn 30 - better yet about 32 and the baby cravings are palpable. Trust me - it all equals out in the end.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The man is pursuing the women period. F that up and you f up the balance of the entire relationship.
Broke man on a budget? Don't want to waste money on a maybe gurl? We have free museums and coffe is 2 bucks.

And here in lies the fundamental problem. You can pursue them - it completely fucks you up once you marry them. They are used to be presued - who the hell are you now supposed to be even partners. You know what - now that I think about it - he did the right thing - women want to be equals so why not start our as equals. Flame away ladies but that's your problem - you want your cake and eat it too - he should be so helpful around the house, and so open minded just don't forget to pay for everything and kiss your ass. That's why I don't see the younger male generation going for it. Its classic bait and switch. And you did it to yourselves.

Lol at this threat. Go ahead and make all your dates go Dutch. Just be prepared to not get laid anytime soon. This generation CAN have our cake and eat it too... And ya know what? It tastes delicious, thankyouverymuch.

PP Poster here - check in with me after you turn 30 - better yet about 32 and the baby cravings are palpable. Trust me - it all equals out in the end.

keep telling yourself that... No woman over 30 would put up with that bullshit or your nasty attitude towards women, maybe a desperate loser but that seems to be your natural counterpart.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My husband and I always went Dutch went we first dated, then alternated who paid as we were more established as a couple. All of my relationships were very egalitarian. Any man who wouldn't let me reciprocate a dinner or pay my fair share didn't last, so I guess we had different values.

I'm with you. I can't imagine "expecting" a man to pay for my stuff. I've graciously accepted if they insisted on occasion, but I've also paid my way plenty of times. I can't even imagine writing someone off just because he didn't pay for the entire date. This is why some people think feminism is a joke. If you are a strong, interdependent woman, you can certainly manage to pay for your own dinner.

I had a girlfriend like this. She did not want to feel that a man was paying and then had some kind of expectation. As time went on, I would pick up the tab for a night and then she would pick it up for the next occasion.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The man is pursuing the women period. F that up and you f up the balance of the entire relationship.
Broke man on a budget? Don't want to waste money on a maybe gurl? We have free museums and coffe is 2 bucks.

And here in lies the fundamental problem. You can pursue them - it completely fucks you up once you marry them. They are used to be presued - who the hell are you now supposed to be even partners. You know what - now that I think about it - he did the right thing - women want to be equals so why not start our as equals. Flame away ladies but that's your problem - you want your cake and eat it too - he should be so helpful around the house, and so open minded just don't forget to pay for everything and kiss your ass. That's why I don't see the younger male generation going for it. Its classic bait and switch. And you did it to yourselves.

Lol at this threat. Go ahead and make all your dates go Dutch. Just be prepared to not get laid anytime soon. This generation CAN have our cake and eat it too... And ya know what? It tastes delicious, thankyouverymuch.

She's right. There is always some horndog or need, pathetic guy who is going to wine and dine a woman if you don't.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The man is pursuing the women period. F that up and you f up the balance of the entire relationship.
Broke man on a budget? Don't want to waste money on a maybe gurl? We have free museums and coffe is 2 bucks.

And here in lies the fundamental problem. You can pursue them - it completely fucks you up once you marry them. They are used to be presued - who the hell are you now supposed to be even partners. You know what - now that I think about it - he did the right thing - women want to be equals so why not start our as equals. Flame away ladies but that's your problem - you want your cake and eat it too - he should be so helpful around the house, and so open minded just don't forget to pay for everything and kiss your ass. That's why I don't see the younger male generation going for it. Its classic bait and switch. And you did it to yourselves.

Lol at this threat. Go ahead and make all your dates go Dutch. Just be prepared to not get laid anytime soon. This generation CAN have our cake and eat it too... And ya know what? It tastes delicious, thankyouverymuch.

PP Poster here - check in with me after you turn 30 - better yet about 32 and the baby cravings are palpable. Trust me - it all equals out in the end.

keep telling yourself that... No woman over 30 would put up with that bullshit or your nasty attitude towards women, maybe a desperate loser but that seems to be your natural counterpart.

What bullshit is that ? That you won't put out unless some guy spends money on you - is that really what you are saying - because if it is then you really should evaluate your self worth.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The man is pursuing the women period. F that up and you f up the balance of the entire relationship.
Broke man on a budget? Don't want to waste money on a maybe gurl? We have free museums and coffe is 2 bucks.

And here in lies the fundamental problem. You can pursue them - it completely fucks you up once you marry them. They are used to be presued - who the hell are you now supposed to be even partners. You know what - now that I think about it - he did the right thing - women want to be equals so why not start our as equals. Flame away ladies but that's your problem - you want your cake and eat it too - he should be so helpful around the house, and so open minded just don't forget to pay for everything and kiss your ass. That's why I don't see the younger male generation going for it. Its classic bait and switch. And you did it to yourselves.

Lol at this threat. Go ahead and make all your dates go Dutch. Just be prepared to not get laid anytime soon. This generation CAN have our cake and eat it too... And ya know what? It tastes delicious, thankyouverymuch.

She's right. There is always some horndog or need, pathetic guy who is going to wine and dine a woman if you don't.

Every single guy in his early thirties that I knew in my professional circle was literally beating women with a stick. They didn't have to pay for dinner, hell they's suck him off waiting in line for the movies they were so desperate. I'm talking white, high tech middle management. They needed fly swatters. And no way were these guys putting up with the bullshit.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
You have no idea how expensive it is to be a good looking woman.

Boo fucking hoo.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The man is pursuing the women period. F that up and you f up the balance of the entire relationship.
Broke man on a budget? Don't want to waste money on a maybe gurl? We have free museums and coffe is 2 bucks.

And here in lies the fundamental problem. You can pursue them - it completely fucks you up once you marry them. They are used to be presued - who the hell are you now supposed to be even partners. You know what - now that I think about it - he did the right thing - women want to be equals so why not start our as equals. Flame away ladies but that's your problem - you want your cake and eat it too - he should be so helpful around the house, and so open minded just don't forget to pay for everything and kiss your ass. That's why I don't see the younger male generation going for it. Its classic bait and switch. And you did it to yourselves.

Lol at this threat. Go ahead and make all your dates go Dutch. Just be prepared to not get laid anytime soon. This generation CAN have our cake and eat it too... And ya know what? It tastes delicious, thankyouverymuch.

She's right. There is always some horndog or need, pathetic guy who is going to wine and dine a woman if you don't.

Every single guy in his early thirties that I knew in my professional circle was literally beating women with a stick. They didn't have to pay for dinner, hell they's suck him off waiting in line for the movies they were so desperate. I'm talking white, high tech middle management. They needed fly swatters. And no way were these guys putting up with the bullshit.

You might want to cut out all the porn, it seems you're starting to confuse it with reality. I guarantee you, no quality girl is sucking your nerdy friends off in the line for a movie. I have personally been on dates where guys have dropped THOUSANDS (yes, I did say thousands- not hundreds, thousands) on me and it wasn't a guaranteed thing of jumping in bed. But it certainly does say something about a person when they care so much about my enjoyment and how much fun I'm having to spend that kind of cash. And it proves that they will give me the kind of lifestyle I was raised with.

But like I said, maybe there are some desperate losers out there who will go for your schtick. I sincerely doubt it, but good luck dude. You're going to need it with that personality.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
You have no idea how expensive it is to be a good looking woman.

Boo fucking hoo.

Says the lameo who wont quit whining about paying for dates....

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The man is pursuing the women period. F that up and you f up the balance of the entire relationship.
Broke man on a budget? Don't want to waste money on a maybe gurl? We have free museums and coffe is 2 bucks.

And here in lies the fundamental problem. You can pursue them - it completely fucks you up once you marry them. They are used to be presued - who the hell are you now supposed to be even partners. You know what - now that I think about it - he did the right thing - women want to be equals so why not start our as equals. Flame away ladies but that's your problem - you want your cake and eat it too - he should be so helpful around the house, and so open minded just don't forget to pay for everything and kiss your ass. That's why I don't see the younger male generation going for it. Its classic bait and switch. And you did it to yourselves.

Lol at this threat. Go ahead and make all your dates go Dutch. Just be prepared to not get laid anytime soon. This generation CAN have our cake and eat it too... And ya know what? It tastes delicious, thankyouverymuch.

She's right. There is always some horndog or need, pathetic guy who is going to wine and dine a woman if you don't.

Every single guy in his early thirties that I knew in my professional circle was literally beating women with a stick. They didn't have to pay for dinner, hell they's suck him off waiting in line for the movies they were so desperate. I'm talking white, high tech middle management. They needed fly swatters. And no way were these guys putting up with the bullshit.

You might want to cut out all the porn, it seems you're starting to confuse it with reality. I guarantee you, no quality girl is sucking your nerdy friends off in the line for a movie. I have personally been on dates where guys have dropped THOUSANDS (yes, I did say thousands- not hundreds, thousands) on me and it wasn't a guaranteed thing of jumping in bed. But it certainly does say something about a person when they care so much about my enjoyment and how much fun I'm having to spend that kind of cash. And it proves that they will give me the kind of lifestyle I was raised with.

But like I said, maybe there are some desperate losers out there who will go for your schtick. I sincerely doubt it, but good luck dude. You're going to need it with that personality.

I just threw up a little bit.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
You have no idea how expensive it is to be a good looking woman.

Boo fucking hoo.

Says the lameo who wont quit whining about paying for dates....

Ironic comment, considering that this thread was started by a woman who was complaining that a man dared split a bill, at her own request, no less.