Split check on first date...

[Anonymous]

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Ironic comment, considering that this thread was started by a woman who was complaining that a man dared split a bill, at her own request, no less.

Double standards don't apply to women, don't you understand? It's their birth right.

Don't you have an aborion clinic to be protesting or something?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I usually make the effort to pay on the first date and it is usually turned down. Went out with someone who let me split. Otherwise I liked him, but it was a turnoff. Is it a red flag?

Isn't this the same as when no mean yes = date rape. Or no mean no? Or no sometimes means yes?

Uhhhhhh no it's not actually. Having sex with someone when they have told you no is not the same as being disappointed when someone who has invited you out wants you to pay. Nice job trying to justify rape, though.

She offered to pay. Then she was upset that he agreed to let her pay. W T F ! You women are freaks!

[Anonymous]

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You might want to cut out all the porn, it seems you're starting to confuse it with reality. I guarantee you, no quality girl is sucking your nerdy friends off in the line for a movie. I have personally been on dates where guys have dropped THOUSANDS (yes, I did say thousands- not hundreds, thousands) on me and it wasn't a guaranteed thing of jumping in bed. But it certainly does say something about a person when they care so much about my enjoyment and how much fun I'm having to spend that kind of cash. And it proves that they will give me the kind of lifestyle I was raised with.

But like I said, maybe there are some desperate losers out there who will go for your schtick. I sincerely doubt it, but good luck dude. You're going to need it with that personality.

Just more evidence since it doesn't matter how much you spend on them, spend as little as possible.

Good rule of thumb for YOU, since your chances of getting some action, with THAT personality, are nil.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I usually make the effort to pay on the first date and it is usually turned down. Went out with someone who let me split. Otherwise I liked him, but it was a turnoff. Is it a red flag?

Isn't this the same as when no mean yes = date rape. Or no mean no? Or no sometimes means yes?

Uhhhhhh no it's not actually. Having sex with someone when they have told you no is not the same as being disappointed when someone who has invited you out wants you to pay. Nice job trying to justify rape, though.

She offered to pay. Then she was upset that he agreed to let her pay. W T F ! You women are freaks!

"You women." Nice touch.
It CERTAINLY doesnt compare to rape.... it's offensive to even suggest that.

You've never offered someone something and been miffed when they took you up on it? Never offered to stay late at work and been annoyed when your boss said, "That sounds great"?

[Anonymous]

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I usually make the effort to pay on the first date and it is usually turned down. Went out with someone who let me split. Otherwise I liked him, but it was a turnoff. Is it a red flag?



Isn't this the same as when no mean yes = date rape. Or no mean no? Or no sometimes means yes?



Uhhhhhh no it's not actually. Having sex with someone when they have told you no is not the same as being disappointed when someone who has invited you out wants you to pay. Nice job trying to justify rape, though.


She offered to pay. Then she was upset that he agreed to let her pay. W T F ! You women are freaks!


"You women." Nice touch.
It CERTAINLY doesnt compare to rape.... it's offensive to even suggest that.

You've never offered someone something and been miffed when they took you up on it? Never offered to stay late at work and been annoyed when your boss said, "That sounds great"?

You are funny. Pissed that someone took up your offer....what a fake.

[Anonymous]

I'm ashamed to be a woman after reading this.

[Anonymous]

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I usually make the effort to pay on the first date and it is usually turned down. Went out with someone who let me split. Otherwise I liked him, but it was a turnoff. Is it a red flag?



Isn't this the same as when no mean yes = date rape. Or no mean no? Or no sometimes means yes?



Uhhhhhh no it's not actually. Having sex with someone when they have told you no is not the same as being disappointed when someone who has invited you out wants you to pay. Nice job trying to justify rape, though.


She offered to pay. Then she was upset that he agreed to let her pay. W T F ! You women are freaks!


"You women." Nice touch.
It CERTAINLY doesnt compare to rape.... it's offensive to even suggest that.

You've never offered someone something and been miffed when they took you up on it? Never offered to stay late at work and been annoyed when your boss said, "That sounds great"?

You are funny. Pissed that someone took up your offer....what a fake.

Lol... how does this make someone a "fake"? It's called being polite, dumbass.

This problem would never happen to me though, I never volunteer to split the check.

[Anonymous]

cannot bear to read 15 pages but why would you offer to split if you don't mean it and if in fact you hold it against him?

Women fight hard enough to be taken seriously, at their word (no means no, etc), and for equality. Please don't mess it up for us with your crazy mind tricks.

If you don't want to split the check, don't offer. simple. Otherwise, don't be surprised when someone takes you up on it. More and more women are making as much or more than men (even if we still don't have equal pay for equal work), why not split the check or pick up the tab?

[Anonymous]

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Just more evidence since it doesn't matter how much you spend on them, spend as little as possible.

Good rule of thumb for YOU, since your chances of getting some action, with THAT personality, are nil.

Bwahah, are you fucking kidding? Just like that woman previously said about guys spending thousands on her and she didn't put out. Doesn't matter how much you spend.

[Anonymous]

Should be more concerned with the fact that he let you pay OP. Must be ugly as shit or dull as f%k for him not to insist on paying. I mean let's be real - chivalry is basically foreplay; only reason men are chivalrous is cause they're trying to get laid. If a guy won't open the door for you or pull out your chair or pick up the check he ain't trying to f%k and if he ain't trying to f%k then he must not be interested.

[Anonymous]

Some women like to fuck (fixed that for you PP) men whom they are attracted to and don't require a steak dinner as a prerequisite to opening their legs. Some women have higher standards. If you are witty, intelligent and when we spend time together I can't stop thinking about fucking you the entire time, your wallet isn't even remotely part of the equation.

[Anonymous]

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She offered to pay. Then she was upset that he agreed to let her pay. W T F ! You women are freaks!

+1
With men you have to be very straight forward. Next tome just say "sorry, I left my wallet".

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Some women like to fuck (fixed that for you PP) men whom they are attracted to and don't require a steak dinner as a prerequisite to opening their legs. Some women have higher standards. If you are witty, intelligent and when we spend time together I can't stop thinking about fucking you the entire time, your wallet isn't even remotely part of the equation.

Evidently it's part of the OP's equation otherwise she wouldn't be wondering about a red flag if dude didn't pick up the check despite her protest.

[Anonymous]

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She offered to pay. Then she was upset that he agreed to let her pay. W T F ! You women are freaks!

Women live for double standards. They thrive on them.

With men you have to be very straight forward. Next tome just say "sorry, I left my wallet".

That's my line, and I'm a guy.

[Anonymous]

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She offered to pay. Then she was upset that he agreed to let her pay. W T F ! You women are freaks!

Women live for double standards. They thrive on them.

With men you have to be very straight forward. Next tome just say "sorry, I left my wallet".

That's my line, and I'm a guy.

If you tried that with me I would pay my part and bounce, give the Maitre-d your cell number if you tried to run out on the check. "Oh no, I only brought enough to cover my half! Sorry... good luck in jail!" lol.