Split check on first date...

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Anonymous wrote:The man is pursuing the women period. F that up and you f up the balance of the entire relationship.
Broke man on a budget? Don't want to waste money on a maybe gurl? We have free museums and coffe is 2 bucks.

And here in lies the fundamental problem. You can pursue them - it completely fucks you up once you marry them. They are used to be presued - who the hell are you now supposed to be even partners. You know what - now that I think about it - he did the right thing - women want to be equals so why not start our as equals. Flame away ladies but that's your problem - you want your cake and eat it too - he should be so helpful around the house, and so open minded just don't forget to pay for everything and kiss your ass. That's why I don't see the younger male generation going for it. Its classic bait and switch. And you did it to yourselves.

Lol at this threat. Go ahead and make all your dates go Dutch. Just be prepared to not get laid anytime soon. This generation CAN have our cake and eat it too... And ya know what? It tastes delicious, thankyouverymuch.

She's right. There is always some horndog or need, pathetic guy who is going to wine and dine a woman if you don't.

Every single guy in his early thirties that I knew in my professional circle was literally beating women with a stick. They didn't have to pay for dinner, hell they's suck him off waiting in line for the movies they were so desperate. I'm talking white, high tech middle management. They needed fly swatters. And no way were these guys putting up with the bullshit.

You might want to cut out all the porn, it seems you're starting to confuse it with reality. I guarantee you, no quality girl is sucking your nerdy friends off in the line for a movie. I have personally been on dates where guys have dropped THOUSANDS (yes, I did say thousands- not hundreds, thousands) on me and it wasn't a guaranteed thing of jumping in bed. But it certainly does say something about a person when they care so much about my enjoyment and how much fun I'm having to spend that kind of cash. And it proves that they will give me the kind of lifestyle I was raised with.

But like I said, maybe there are some desperate losers out there who will go for your schtick. I sincerely doubt it, but good luck dude. You're going to need it with that personality.

I just threw up a little bit.

No one cares. If you can't already tell.

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You have no idea how expensive it is to be a good looking woman.

Boo fucking hoo.

Says the lameo who wont quit whining about paying for dates....

Ironic comment, considering that this thread was started by a woman who was complaining that a man dared split a bill, at her own request, no less.

And yet youve been whining about it for a few pages now...

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You have no idea how expensive it is to be a good looking woman.

Boo fucking hoo.

Says the lameo who wont quit whining about paying for dates....

Ironic comment, considering that this thread was started by a woman who was complaining that a man dared split a bill, at her own request, no less.

And yet youve been whining about it for a few pages now...

PP, here. I am not whoever you have been arguing with. I've hardly posted here.

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Anonymous wrote:He should pay unless it was your idea. Then you go dutch.

Maybe this is why you should earn less than men. Either that or pick up the check every once in awhile like a big girl.

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Anonymous wrote:He should pay unless it was your idea. Then you go dutch.

Maybe this is why you should earn less than men. Either that or pick up the check every once in awhile like a big girl.

You also need to have just as much to say about where you're going to eat and if splitting anything, it should be female sized portions. The woman should also dress like a man (way cheaper) and not have to wear heels, makeup or hair styled. No waxing either. Also the woman shouldn't have to worry about safety on the way to and from the date. Because most crimes are committed by men. I almost forgot that there needs to be a risk the man will get pregna t and carry a child for nine months. Just in case each person decides to hook up. OK now everything is fair and we can split the check.

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Anonymous wrote:Not a red flag. Go out with him again and next time let him pay. [/quotep
problem is she set a precedent and now it will be weird to not offer

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Anonymous wrote:He should pay unless it was your idea. Then you go dutch.

Maybe this is why you should earn less than men. Either that or pick up the check every once in awhile like a big girl.

You also need to have just as much to say about where you're going to eat and if splitting anything, it should be female sized portions. The woman should also dress like a man (way cheaper) and not have to wear heels, makeup or hair styled. No waxing either. Also the woman shouldn't have to worry about safety on the way to and from the date. Because most crimes are committed by men. I almost forgot that there needs to be a risk the man will get pregna t and carry a child for nine months. Just in case each person decides to hook up. OK now everything is fair and we can split the check.

love this!!

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It still costs more to be a woman and to show up "presentable" on dates. If you want to date someone who spends just as much time and money on grooming as the average Joe, going Dutch is fine.

It's not the man's fault you find it necessary to slather on the makeup every time you leave house. Lighten up on the cosmetics, toots.

You have no idea how expensive it is to be a good looking woman. I don't mean fake. You will understand if you have daughters. Society judges on looks and I have high standards for myself. I wear nice clothes, have pretty hair, get facials, nails etc. My husband is appreciative. If you're a woman that doesn't care than more power to you.

I think the levels of expense is related to the woman's desire for a certain appearance. Society does judge on looks, but you can get pretty far with a clean and honest face and good grooming. All the rest is for you these days - normcore for the win!!

-A married woman who rarely wears makeup, heels, or dresses

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You might want to cut out all the porn, it seems you're starting to confuse it with reality. I guarantee you, no quality girl is sucking your nerdy friends off in the line for a movie. I have personally been on dates where guys have dropped THOUSANDS (yes, I did say thousands- not hundreds, thousands) on me and it wasn't a guaranteed thing of jumping in bed. But it certainly does say something about a person when they care so much about my enjoyment and how much fun I'm having to spend that kind of cash. And it proves that they will give me the kind of lifestyle I was raised with.

But like I said, maybe there are some desperate losers out there who will go for your schtick. I sincerely doubt it, but good luck dude. You're going to need it with that personality.

Your vagina isn't even worth $40. Glad to see there's suckers willing to spend thousands on you.

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You might want to cut out all the porn, it seems you're starting to confuse it with reality. I guarantee you, no quality girl is sucking your nerdy friends off in the line for a movie. I have personally been on dates where guys have dropped THOUSANDS (yes, I did say thousands- not hundreds, thousands) on me and it wasn't a guaranteed thing of jumping in bed. But it certainly does say something about a person when they care so much about my enjoyment and how much fun I'm having to spend that kind of cash. And it proves that they will give me the kind of lifestyle I was raised with.

But like I said, maybe there are some desperate losers out there who will go for your schtick. I sincerely doubt it, but good luck dude. You're going to need it with that personality.

Just more evidence since it doesn't matter how much you spend on them, spend as little as possible.

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Ironic comment, considering that this thread was started by a woman who was complaining that a man dared split a bill, at her own request, no less.

Double standards don't apply to women, don't you understand? It's their birth right.

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You have no idea how expensive it is to be a good looking woman.

Boo fucking hoo.

Says the lameo who wont quit whining about paying for dates....

BUT BUT BUT you want equality, remember? Oh, but only when its convenient for you.

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Anonymous wrote:He should pay unless it was your idea. Then you go dutch.

Maybe this is why you should earn less than men. Either that or pick up the check every once in awhile like a big girl.

You also need to have just as much to say about where you're going to eat and if splitting anything, it should be female sized portions. The woman should also dress like a man (way cheaper) and not have to wear heels, makeup or hair styled. No waxing either. Also the woman shouldn't have to worry about safety on the way to and from the date. Because most crimes are committed by men. I almost forgot that there needs to be a risk the man will get pregna t and carry a child for nine months. Just in case each person decides to hook up. OK now everything is fair and we can split the check.

*clapping*. THIS, times infinity.

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You might want to cut out all the porn, it seems you're starting to confuse it with reality. I guarantee you, no quality girl is sucking your nerdy friends off in the line for a movie. I have personally been on dates where guys have dropped THOUSANDS (yes, I did say thousands- not hundreds, thousands) on me and it wasn't a guaranteed thing of jumping in bed. But it certainly does say something about a person when they care so much about my enjoyment and how much fun I'm having to spend that kind of cash. And it proves that they will give me the kind of lifestyle I was raised with.

But like I said, maybe there are some desperate losers out there who will go for your schtick. I sincerely doubt it, but good luck dude. You're going to need it with that personality.

Your vagina isn't even worth $40. Glad to see there's suckers willing to spend thousands on you.

Maybe this is why you're not getting laid: Women are not their vaginas. Women are HUMAN BEINGS with personalities, emotions, and thoughts. When you take someone on a date you are generally trying to explore all of that.

But I can see why you are so bitter and angry. Guessing treating women like a piece of meat has not worked out very well for you in the getting laid department and that's why you are hiding behind your computer whinging on about how unfair it all is, and saying things to women I'm guessing you would NEVER have the balls to say in real life.

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You have no idea how expensive it is to be a good looking woman.

Boo fucking hoo.

Says the lameo who wont quit whining about paying for dates....

BUT BUT BUT you want equality, remember? Oh, but only when its convenient for you.

BUT BUT BUT you want to have sex with women, remember? Oh, but you complain when there are certain standards and preferences a woman has to feel comfortable around a guy and you dont meet those.