“Family money” becoming more important in dating

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Marriage is better among equals. Men can handle having one with more money in relationship but modern women can't. I've friends who married early, husbands supported them in their medical school and training journey with their income and did primary parenting as well and they really look down upon their husbands or got rid of them soon after big doctor salary checks started coming.

Roughly 3.9% of males are 6'2" or taller. About 38.5% of males have a college degree. About 24.2% of males are in good shape. About 13.2% of males can play musical instruments well. Less than 1% of males are D1 athletes. Less than 10% of males have the GQ look. Added all up, the number is probably less than 0.5% of the population. Those guys may not have the money now, but they have a very high ceiling to become successful. Ladies, you just won the lifetime lottery by being married to these guys. Those guys have the upper hand in marriage because they always have "options".



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You forget that there are also beautiful women out there, who are pursued by these men, these same men buy tickets on dating apps to connect to them etc. There is a lid for every pot

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Marriage is better among equals. Men can handle having one with more money in relationship but modern women can't. I've friends who married early, husbands supported them in their medical school and training journey with their income and did primary parenting as well and they really look down upon their husbands or got rid of them soon after big doctor salary checks started coming.

Roughly 3.9% of males are 6'2" or taller. About 38.5% of males have a college degree. About 24.2% of males are in good shape. About 13.2% of males can play musical instruments well. Less than 1% of males are D1 athletes. Less than 10% of males have the GQ look. Added all up, the number is probably less than 0.5% of the population. Those guys may not have the money now, but they have a very high ceiling to become successful. Ladies, you just won the lifetime lottery by being married to these guys. Those guys have the upper hand in marriage because they always have "options".

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I love all 100% of all your made up fake stats.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Marriage is better among equals. Men can handle having one with more money in relationship but modern women can't. I've friends who married early, husbands supported them in their medical school and training journey with their income and did primary parenting as well and they really look down upon their husbands or got rid of them soon after big doctor salary checks started coming.

Roughly 3.9% of males are 6'2" or taller. About 38.5% of males have a college degree. About 24.2% of males are in good shape. About 13.2% of males can play musical instruments well. Less than 1% of males are D1 athletes. Less than 10% of males have the GQ look. Added all up, the number is probably less than 0.5% of the population. Those guys may not have the money now, but they have a very high ceiling to become successful. Ladies, you just won the lifetime lottery by being married to these guys. Those guys have the upper hand in marriage because they always have "options".

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I love all 100% of all your made up fake stats.

the stats are ok they are just irrelevant. Most women would be fine with 5'11 man which is 1/3 of all men in the US. 39% women with college degree vs 36% men is not significant difference for these men to be such shortage.
and finally, women don't expect their partners to be D1 athletes, or play musical instruments (???)

My son BTW is all of it and is 6'3 and he still doesn't have a GF at age 20. He is 9 out of 10 by AI face recognition attractiveness tests.

[Anonymous]

That’s why the aps are problematic.

I’ll admit- I love tall men. Huge men! I have my filters Set to 6’0 and above when I’ve done old.. I’m a powerful little woman and I love a big man. I couldn’t have the monkey sex I want with a wee guy.

Or- I mean, I think? In real life I might fall in love with a teeny guy who hangs the moon in my eyes. The posters who think women suffer fools just because they’re tall are incorrect. I’ve met so many tall losers. Just because they get the tractable “swipe” doesn’t mean they get laid. And there’s little more deflating than a tall dud, and a ton that’s sexy about a shorter guy who owns his space and can’t some sort of sniveling simp closet isn’t height/ it’s presence. Height is genetic- sexy is earned- and rewarded. Rawr.
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The ones posting the stats might be right- doesn’t matter. On a platform where all we have is images and self reported data we all tend to select towards what we most like. In real life charm and character and a good man - of any height- gets my attention.

Tall handsome white men have been able to move easily through the world. (Generality yes I know but relax).

As I’ve gotten older I realize I can’t select for confidence but I can select for height. Ad with height generally comes confidence. That said- I’m like a moth to a flame to tall handsome narcissists. They want to own me because they’ve owned the whole world with ease.

Tall beautiful men- dams I love them. But a confident powerful shorty might be the medicine I need. Who knows. I’m the woman with family money and I feel like being financially independent lets me date with my wart and my body, not my calculator and projections. No shade/
If I wasn’t financially protected my answer would be WSY different.

If you’re broke or know that your financial trajectory is bleak/ shop smart! That’s not gold digging its smart. My answer would be the same- to a man or a woman. Once you make all that civil? With the government? You better be super clear about what’s yours and what’s not and how you’ll protect it should the relationship end.

If a woman tries to broach those issues while dating you should hang on to her!

Just stop being so mad about everything, people.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Marriage is better among equals. Men can handle having one with more money in relationship but modern women can't. I've friends who married early, husbands supported them in their medical school and training journey with their income and did primary parenting as well and they really look down upon their husbands or got rid of them soon after big doctor salary checks started coming.

Roughly 3.9% of males are 6'2" or taller. About 38.5% of males have a college degree. About 24.2% of males are in good shape. About 13.2% of males can play musical instruments well. Less than 1% of males are D1 athletes. Less than 10% of males have the GQ look. Added all up, the number is probably less than 0.5% of the population. Those guys may not have the money now, but they have a very high ceiling to become successful. Ladies, you just won the lifetime lottery by being married to these guys. Those guys have the upper hand in marriage because they always have "options".

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I love all 100% of all your made up fake stats.

the stats are ok they are just irrelevant. Most women would be fine with 5'11 man which is 1/3 of all men in the US. 39% women with college degree vs 36% men is not significant difference for these men to be such shortage.
and finally, women don't expect their partners to be D1 athletes, or play musical instruments (???)

My son BTW is all of it and is 6'3 and he still doesn't have a GF at age 20. He is 9 out of 10 by AI face recognition attractiveness tests.

Okay so that’s weird. Did you - or your son/ rate their attractiveness to a computer? Spill. I’m excited. .im getting Jill from “the hunting wives” vibes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Marriage is better among equals. Men can handle having one with more money in relationship but modern women can't. I've friends who married early, husbands supported them in their medical school and training journey with their income and did primary parenting as well and they really look down upon their husbands or got rid of them soon after big doctor salary checks started coming.

Roughly 3.9% of males are 6'2" or taller. About 38.5% of males have a college degree. About 24.2% of males are in good shape. About 13.2% of males can play musical instruments well. Less than 1% of males are D1 athletes. Less than 10% of males have the GQ look. Added all up, the number is probably less than 0.5% of the population. Those guys may not have the money now, but they have a very high ceiling to become successful. Ladies, you just won the lifetime lottery by being married to these guys. Those guys have the upper hand in marriage because they always have "options".

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I love all 100% of all your made up fake stats.

the stats are ok they are just irrelevant. Most women would be fine with 5'11 man which is 1/3 of all men in the US. 39% women with college degree vs 36% men is not significant difference for these men to be such shortage.
and finally, women don't expect their partners to be D1 athletes, or play musical instruments (???)

My son BTW is all of it and is 6'3 and he still doesn't have a GF at age 20. He is 9 out of 10 by AI face recognition attractiveness tests.

Yes, they do. You can see that in the vast majority of social media posts.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Marriage is better among equals. Men can handle having one with more money in relationship but modern women can't. I've friends who married early, husbands supported them in their medical school and training journey with their income and did primary parenting as well and they really look down upon their husbands or got rid of them soon after big doctor salary checks started coming.

Roughly 3.9% of males are 6'2" or taller. About 38.5% of males have a college degree. About 24.2% of males are in good shape. About 13.2% of males can play musical instruments well. Less than 1% of males are D1 athletes. Less than 10% of males have the GQ look. Added all up, the number is probably less than 0.5% of the population. Those guys may not have the money now, but they have a very high ceiling to become successful. Ladies, you just won the lifetime lottery by being married to these guys. Those guys have the upper hand in marriage because they always have "options".

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I love all 100% of all your made up fake stats.

the stats are ok they are just irrelevant. Most women would be fine with 5'11 man which is 1/3 of all men in the US. 39% women with college degree vs 36% men is not significant difference for these men to be such shortage.
and finally, women don't expect their partners to be D1 athletes, or play musical instruments (???)

My son BTW is all of it and is 6'3 and he still doesn't have a GF at age 20. He is 9 out of 10 by AI face recognition attractiveness tests.

Yes, they do. You can see that in the vast majority of social media posts.

Read less Instagram go to parks etc plenty of interesting men who are not D1 athlete
And if you are overweight as a man, don’t try to flip the tables to women for wanting “D1”. We just don’t want a dad bod

[Anonymous]

No one in the real world cares that you played D1 in water polo or lacrosse or whatever shit ass sport you insufferable people pursue.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Marriage is better among equals. Men can handle having one with more money in relationship but modern women can't. I've friends who married early, husbands supported them in their medical school and training journey with their income and did primary parenting as well and they really look down upon their husbands or got rid of them soon after big doctor salary checks started coming.

Roughly 3.9% of males are 6'2" or taller. About 38.5% of males have a college degree. About 24.2% of males are in good shape. About 13.2% of males can play musical instruments well. Less than 1% of males are D1 athletes. Less than 10% of males have the GQ look. Added all up, the number is probably less than 0.5% of the population. Those guys may not have the money now, but they have a very high ceiling to become successful. Ladies, you just won the lifetime lottery by being married to these guys. Those guys have the upper hand in marriage because they always have "options".

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I love all 100% of all your made up fake stats.

the stats are ok they are just irrelevant. Most women would be fine with 5'11 man which is 1/3 of all men in the US. 39% women with college degree vs 36% men is not significant difference for these men to be such shortage.
and finally, women don't expect their partners to be D1 athletes, or play musical instruments (???)

My son BTW is all of it and is 6'3 and he still doesn't have a GF at age 20. He is 9 out of 10 by AI face recognition attractiveness tests.

Your son probably spanks it to furry porn or something strange or he's gay.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Honestly , the COL is going way up, it’s really hard to buy a house and replicate a UMC lifestyle. The people who can do it while working regular jobs in a big city have family money: cover house down payment, no burdensome student loans, maybe inherit someone’s car etc

Student loans have nothing to do with family and everything to do with the hollow heads who can’t afford them and should not have racked them up in the first place.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No one in the real world cares that you played D1 in water polo or lacrosse or whatever shit ass sport you insufferable people pursue.

😩

[Anonymous]

Recruiters care.