Broke due to child support and alimony

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I just turned 32 years old, and I am seriously considering not getting married in my lifetime. I have a net worth of 15M and a salary of 500K per year. At the same time, I do want to have children. I plan on paying someone to carry a couple of kids for me and hire a full-time nanny to take care of them after they are born. I do not see any upsides and plenty of downsides to getting married if it ends up in divorce. A pre-nup is not 100% guaranteed.

Are you considering getting married outside of your lifetime?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I just turned 32 years old, and I am seriously considering not getting married in my lifetime. I have a net worth of 15M and a salary of 500K per year. At the same time, I do want to have children. I plan on paying someone to carry a couple of kids for me and hire a full-time nanny to take care of them after they are born. I do not see any upsides and plenty of downsides to getting married if it ends up in divorce. A pre-nup is not 100% guaranteed.

You should get dogs instead. But if your heart is set on making a difference in the life of a child there are numerous volunteer opportunities that could fulfill that need. You can become a youth sports coach or referee, tutor, mentor, benefactor, etc.

+ 1.

Any adult who thinks having kids ONLY means hiring a full time nanny is stupid and naive AF.

Run if that's your spouse, Sorry for you if that's one or two of your "parents."