
So in this thread Pava has been found guilty of:
-not being in her guard -not being street smart -not shouting enough for help -not taking an Uber -living in a city -living in an apartment …I’m sure some of you will blame her clothes if photos are released. So gross |
LE said they were looking for him and did not think he posed a danger to the public since prior act was targeted. They did not want to publicly announce they were looking for him as it would make him harder to track, he'd go into hiding. Hindsight 20/20. Since he's been unemployed for a month and did maintenance at rooming house, dots to connect re: motive. Of course, the killing of Pava was more like his (known) initial rape, years ago. They likely were looking for him. I don't think this is one about race except possibly if Pava's anti-racism zeal caused her to open the door when a neighbor would not. Dude will hopefully never be out again. Tragic all around for all of his victims. |
Of course Billingsly is 100% responsible for killing her. That does not mean that people should not discuss and take precautions re: personal safety given the world we live in. You are gross for trying to derail the thread in some ideological "gotcha" moment. Read The Gift of Fear everyone, and give it to your friends, neighbors, daughters and sons. |
Listen to the Mayor of Baltimore, DC City Council!
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I never wrote or suggested it was a conspiracy? HUH? But a black woman is brutally raped repeatedly, tied up, her neck slashed, and then beaten up (so she plays dead). A black man is duct taped tied up, beaten, has gasoline poured on him, set on fire, in the basement of a boarding house. A 5 year old kid is also in trapped in the burning house (no one says whose kid he is). They know who did its (because apparently the woman previously knew the suspect). Nothing on the news. No big deal. Two days later he kills the white tech lady, leaves her beaten to death on her roof, and she's not discovered for several more days. All this time, still nothing re first couple. Then this tech lady Forbes under 30 newsworthy person gets the attention and it's international news. She went to JHU. She's a CEO. She lives in this fancy old hotel in Baltimore. Not a boarding house. The man in the couple and his family have given a few interviews, and they're complaining that the police didn't alert the public or make it urgent enough that it may have made a difference for the tech woman. And I agree. The couple and the kid are low income and black. No news. Until... |
Your point/question is VERY worthwhile of discussion. |
Ted Bundy got one of his victims in the hallway of a populated hotel. |
Not guilty. Some were mistakes on her part - look at these as lessons for other young women. Not living in a city? Certainly not living in Baltimore might be smart |
I thought the same thing, and I am white. I would like to see in detail how they searched for this guy between the attack on the family and the murder of the CEO. I can understand that they did not put it in the news not to alert the guy, although the crime was horrific and the fact that he knew the victims did not make him less dangerous, considering also his past history, so maybe they could have launched a public manhunt. if it comes out that they were looking for him but not with the urgency they looked for him after the CEO was killed it would be a serious problem. what he did to the family was depraved and clearly shows the guy is incredibly violent with no boundaries, he would have likely killed and raped again and if they did not acted quickly enough because they thought the killer would have stayed in the black and poor community, then it's a problem and things need to change. it's like the serial killer in long island. it was not that hard at the end to get him, but because the women disappearing were sex workers instead of Harvard and Yale white college students nobody cared too much for years. |
Agree this would be good to know. They did make references to it at the press conference, I don't think they were doing nothing. I'm not sure Pava would have heeded a warning, if she had even become aware of one. Still floored that he came back again on Sunday. |
Any statement that starts "She should" or "She should not" is victim blaming not discussion. |
Those policies SHOULD be changed, as SHOULD similar policies in DC.
A neighbor encountered him on Sunday, almost 48 hours after the killing, trying to get access to the building. People SHOULD be encouraged to follow their instincts. People SHOULD NOT allow unknown people into apartment buildings, dorms or office buildings. It's dangerous for you and for others. |
How about: "You are taking a risk if you open your door to a stranger. Only you can decide if the risk of opening your door to a stranger is worth taking that risk, especially if the stranger is a 6'4" man weighing approximately 300 lbs." |
+1 |