Dating a conservative

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Anonymous wrote:Depends on how much conservative (more center or middle would be ideal. )- and find out his views on children, abortion. Been married to a conservative last 16 years and have to say they make great husbands and fathers long term.

please. Conservative men don't believe in equal housework and childcare.

I grew up in a conservative household.

Liberal men are much more aware of women's rights than conservative men, who really don't care much about women's rights.

Also, the highly educated tend to be liberal.


I disagree, I’m very liberal.

Conservative men fix things, take care of the lawn/yard, paint rooms, fix light fixtures, do the taxes, grill, take orders when there is a party, plan tail gates, do the dishes, take their plates to the sink, set up tvs, move furniture, coach kids sports teams, help with nighttime routine (anything family), etc.

Things are equal but fall on gender norm lines.

Liberal men don't do any of those things?


Can you name something conservative men never do?

Do all liberal men do those things?

Liberal men vote for politicians who support women's rights.

Conservative men do not support women's right.


That is absolutely not true and why Liberals got bad name. You’re like the antifa of liberals.


…tell us who are these conservative champions of women’s rights?


… tell us a liberal champion to codify roe so we could avoid this moment in history ?


You’re the one who said it is incorrect that conservatives do not support women’s rights. Please support that statement.


Do I need to Google for you? How many conservatives voted for Hillary? Do I really need to Google for you? How many conservatives read it for Biden?
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People who use Republican and conservative synonymously need to educate themselves.
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OP you need to consider what his conservative values are beyond who he votes for.

Will he expect you to change your name when you marry? Would he support you terminating an unwanted or unviable pregnancy? Would he treat your daughters the same as your sons? Would he contribute equally in the home?
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You know Who do you need to stay away from are white women and men. The majority of them voted for Trump.
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Anonymous wrote:You know Who do you need to stay away from are white women and men. The majority of them voted for Trump.


For a reason.
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Anonymous wrote:You know Who do you need to stay away from are white women and men. The majority of them voted for Trump.


Racist.
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Anonymous wrote:You know Who do you need to stay away from are white women and men. The majority of them voted for Trump.


And I'll assume you voted for the other guy (or his wife), thanks, thanks a whole f g lot.
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Anonymous wrote:You know Who do you need to stay away from are white women and men. The majority of them voted for Trump.


For a reason.


They are racist and vote against women’s rights.
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Anonymous wrote:You know Who do you need to stay away from are white women and men. The majority of them voted for Trump.


And I'll assume you voted for the other guy (or his wife), thanks, thanks a whole f g lot.


Dang, the truth hurts.

Date a POC who is liberal stay away from all whites.
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Anonymous wrote:Depends on how much conservative (more center or middle would be ideal. )- and find out his views on children, abortion. Been married to a conservative last 16 years and have to say they make great husbands and fathers long term.

please. Conservative men don't believe in equal housework and childcare.

I grew up in a conservative household.

Liberal men are much more aware of women's rights than conservative men, who really don't care much about women's rights.

Also, the highly educated tend to be liberal.


I disagree, I’m very liberal.

Conservative men fix things, take care of the lawn/yard, paint rooms, fix light fixtures, do the taxes, grill, take orders when there is a party, plan tail gates, do the dishes, take their plates to the sink, set up tvs, move furniture, coach kids sports teams, help with nighttime routine (anything family), etc.

Things are equal but fall on gender norm lines.

Liberal men don't do any of those things?


Can you name something conservative men never do?

Do all liberal men do those things?

Liberal men vote for politicians who support women's rights.

Conservative men do not support women's right.


That is absolutely not true and why Liberals got bad name. You’re like the antifa of liberals.


…tell us who are these conservative champions of women’s rights?


Barry Goldwater. Ronald Reagan.
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Anonymous wrote:I’m liberal and my h is conservative. We never had any problems…. But …

He never voted for trump
He thinks BLM
He thinks BLUE lives matter is racist
He believes in equality for all
He supports LGBT rights
He believes in smart gun laws (red flag laws, etc)


lol so he’s not conservative at all
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Just have fun. He won’t stick around.
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Anonymous wrote:Depends on how much conservative (more center or middle would be ideal. )- and find out his views on children, abortion. Been married to a conservative last 16 years and have to say they make great husbands and fathers long term.

please. Conservative men don't believe in equal housework and childcare.

I grew up in a conservative household.

Liberal men are much more aware of women's rights than conservative men, who really don't care much about women's rights.

Also, the highly educated tend to be liberal.


I disagree, I’m very liberal.

Conservative men fix things, take care of the lawn/yard, paint rooms, fix light fixtures, do the taxes, grill, take orders when there is a party, plan tail gates, do the dishes, take their plates to the sink, set up tvs, move furniture, coach kids sports teams, help with nighttime routine (anything family), etc.

Things are equal but fall on gender norm lines.

haha .. my liberal DH does all of it, and cooks, not just grill, bakes, fixes all kinds of things (neighbors all come to him for help fixing stuff), and he's an engineer. But, I do the taxes.

Conservative men aren't doing much childcare or cooking and baking. Please.

Tail gate? LOL That's super important housework. LOL


You missed the point!

Yes conservative men to care for children but just not in the way you agree.

And southerners tailgate Friday night/Saturday and Sunday.

Grilling is cooking

You aren’t talking about conservatives you are talking about jerks. There are plenty of liberal men who can’t cut a lawn or install a light fixture.

I didn't miss the point. Conservative men mostly have traditional gender roles, and doing housechorse and childcare is a traditionally female's role. If you mean they care for their children by working, guess what.. most women work and do housechores/childcare, too.

I didn't realize Conservative only meant "southerners". LOL. I think you mean "traditional southern" people, not "conservatives". But, I'm sure you know that there are conservatives in other parts of the country,right? LOL


No taking care of children is not "traditional female roles" after men get home from work. Actually it's the opposite. Conservative men are actually very involved in care of children after they get home from work, but yes, they work so they are not involved from 9-5 but neither are working women.

Conservative is not a Monolith nor is Liberal, you are joking if you think all liberal men are doing bedtime routine 50/50. I was giving and example.

Conservative men are coaching teams, boy scouts, church groups, football games, baseball games, etc.

51% of conservatives support LGBT rights/marriage.
40% support immigration support
50% support gun control

You really have been snowed by the Trump GOP and have forgotten there is a whole group of conservative that are not them.

lol. I need a source for your %s.

The front runner for 2024 for the GOP is Trump. He has a much bigger lead than the next R. So yes, Trump GOP = GOP.

I seriously doubt that most conservative men are doing childcare duty, cooking, cleaning after work. I'm sure there are a few, but I doubt the vast majority of conservative men are what you are describing.


Most hilarious to see in this thread repeated warnings that conservative men won’t do housework, cooking, childcare.

The most common complaint in DCUM Relationships is that men don’t do those things. I’d venture to guess that the vast majority of DCUM women making these complaints are married to liberal men (Democrats, anyway). So it’s liberal men, in reality, who don’t do housework, cooking, childcare…
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Anonymous wrote:I'm a woman that is pretty progressive and liberal and works in gender equity. I've been on a few dates with a conservative/republican. He's super respectful, but do any of you see any long term issues or have any experience? We are both agnostic.
Only in America could someone find a job in gender equity. What do you actually do in that sphere?? An agnostic woman who works in gender equity. Has to be a troll post.
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Anonymous wrote:I'm a woman that is pretty progressive and liberal and works in gender equity. I've been on a few dates with a conservative/republican. He's super respectful, but do any of you see any long term issues or have any experience? We are both agnostic.
Only in America could someone find a job in gender equity. What do you actually do in that sphere?? An agnostic woman who works in gender equity. Has to be a troll post.


It could be worse, she could be a DE&I sicko.
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