Tarot Readings

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Anonymous wrote:Appreciate the OPs gift and generosity, but am I the only one that feels her replies are so vague and undefinitive? Beautiful, thoughtful and encouraging responses, but they lack straightforward clarity.

I'm the PP somewhere on page 5 I think who mentioned the OP did a couple email readings for me in the fall, and I do believe she has a gift. She is still honing it by her own admission (hence her generosity and willingness to do this for us all for free), but my initial reading was not vague and definitely not a one-size-fits-all reading. I do imagine it's more difficult to do this over the internet versus in person and there is probably a hesitation (whether conscious or not) to say too much on this board because it's so out in the open, even though we are all anonymous.

Yes, the email readings from the feedback I received was more spot on. However, when I would do one of these, I could take anywhere from 1-1.5 hours for one reading. I would create a personalized spread, meditate for about 15 minutes before pulling numerous cards, and then interpret them while recording it all to send on audio file. I did all those for free as well because I have no intention charging for this.

What I do here is not even close to what I did via email. It is much harder to connect due to external distractions and the anonymity of this board. How the question is asked can also throw me as well, or if my rational mind creeps in. That’s a big lesson I need to learn because it can be tricky to discern what is from me and what is from outside me. So while it’s good for me to do these here to help practice, unfortunately there is more of a chance for me not to resonate.

I have had people come back later on and say even though it didn’t make sense at first, it did later on.

All that said, if it doesn’t resonate, please let me know as well because that helps me understand where I’m going wrong.

[Anonymous]

Hi OP, I am only just getting into tarot recently with my DD. Still very much a novice, but love this thread! Here’s my Q:

What is the energy around my career, especially in the more immediate future?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Appreciate the OPs gift and generosity, but am I the only one that feels her replies are so vague and undefinitive? Beautiful, thoughtful and encouraging responses, but they lack straightforward clarity.

I'm the PP somewhere on page 5 I think who mentioned the OP did a couple email readings for me in the fall, and I do believe she has a gift. She is still honing it by her own admission (hence her generosity and willingness to do this for us all for free), but my initial reading was not vague and definitely not a one-size-fits-all reading. I do imagine it's more difficult to do this over the internet versus in person and there is probably a hesitation (whether conscious or not) to say too much on this board because it's so out in the open, even though we are all anonymous.

Yes, the email readings from the feedback I received was more spot on. However, when I would do one of these, I could take anywhere from 1-1.5 hours for one reading. I would create a personalized spread, meditate for about 15 minutes before pulling numerous cards, and then interpret them while recording it all to send on audio file. I did all those for free as well because I have no intention charging for this.

What I do here is not even close to what I did via email. It is much harder to connect due to external distractions and the anonymity of this board. How the question is asked can also throw me as well, or if my rational mind creeps in. That’s a big lesson I need to learn because it can be tricky to discern what is from me and what is from outside me. So while it’s good for me to do these here to help practice, unfortunately there is more of a chance for me not to resonate.

I have had people come back later on and say even though it didn’t make sense at first, it did later on.

All that said, if it doesn’t resonate, please let me know as well because that helps me understand where I’m going wrong.

That all makes sense, OP, and I thank you again for the insight you have provided thus far.

I have to go back and listen to them again but I wouldn't say the second one didn't resonate so much as maybe it wasn't what I wanted to hear? I can't fully remember. Maybe I'll re-listen tonight.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Appreciate the OPs gift and generosity, but am I the only one that feels her replies are so vague and undefinitive? Beautiful, thoughtful and encouraging responses, but they lack straightforward clarity.

I'm the PP somewhere on page 5 I think who mentioned the OP did a couple email readings for me in the fall, and I do believe she has a gift. She is still honing it by her own admission (hence her generosity and willingness to do this for us all for free), but my initial reading was not vague and definitely not a one-size-fits-all reading. I do imagine it's more difficult to do this over the internet versus in person and there is probably a hesitation (whether conscious or not) to say too much on this board because it's so out in the open, even though we are all anonymous.

Yes, the email readings from the feedback I received was more spot on. However, when I would do one of these, I could take anywhere from 1-1.5 hours for one reading. I would create a personalized spread, meditate for about 15 minutes before pulling numerous cards, and then interpret them while recording it all to send on audio file. I did all those for free as well because I have no intention charging for this.

What I do here is not even close to what I did via email. It is much harder to connect due to external distractions and the anonymity of this board. How the question is asked can also throw me as well, or if my rational mind creeps in. That’s a big lesson I need to learn because it can be tricky to discern what is from me and what is from outside me. So while it’s good for me to do these here to help practice, unfortunately there is more of a chance for me not to resonate.

I have had people come back later on and say even though it didn’t make sense at first, it did later on.

All that said, if it doesn’t resonate, please let me know as well because that helps me understand where I’m going wrong.

That all makes sense, OP, and I thank you again for the insight you have provided thus far.

I have to go back and listen to them again but I wouldn't say the second one didn't resonate so much as maybe it wasn't what I wanted to hear? I can't fully remember. Maybe I'll re-listen tonight.

You don't have to re-listen! I mean, if you want to, by all means. I was just saying that in general, I appreciate all feedback. I am sort of learning all this on my own and only just started reading books. The one person I know who gets it is into witchcraft and I am a more skeptical, science minded person (which could also be holding me back a bit as well). So trying to find a mentor with that same mentality is quite difficult! I know there is the Monroe Institute in the Blue Ridge Mountains and I am hoping to be able to take a class there eventually. There is also a wonderful school in the U.K., but that won't happen until my kids are older. I am about to watch a documentary on Amazon called Third Eye Spy and it's all about the research that the government did with remote viewers. I have heard about it, but am so curious to find out more!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hi OP. I'm glad to see that you're back. You did a couple email readings for me in the fall. Unfortunately there hasn't been a great deal of progress in my life and marriage and I wonder if you feel anything that's to come and if I should hold onto any hope for a change of course.

Hello! So I heard the phrase in my head “That which you held dear is no longer near”. I feel it’s time to accept things as they are and not holding out hope they could change. Remember, I read the current energy so something could always shift, but this is what I am picking up at 5:42pm on Sunday August 7. I have an image of the two of you sitting together and you being the one trying to bridge the gap and continually trying to give of yourself in hopes they will see you making an effort. He will take what you are offering, but does so with apathy. So let’s say that you feel he is thirsty, you run to get him a drink and he would take it, say “thanks”, but not even look at you. In turn it feels as his apathy when you are trying to make efforts causes you more inner turmoil or pain. To me, this feels like a situation where it’s time to work on yourself because you may be prolonging the inevitable.

As I was shuffling, a card flew out face down, but I did not turn it over until I had all the others spread out. For your present energy I have the 3 of Pentacles and this is very much about you wanting to building something with your partner. It does seem to me that you are putting in work, but they continue to hold their cards close to their chest. The card pulled in regards to sticking it out, I pulled the Ace of Pentacles in reverse and the 5 of cups came out with it. Should you stick it out, it looks like you will still experience more of the same and you will soon find yourself pretty much grieving the relationship even while you are in it…you may even be doing a bit of that now. While nobody wants to feel that while with their partner, I do feel it may be beneficial to you and may help guide you towards acceptance sooner rather than later (should things continue as they are now). The card I pulled in regards to what it looks like if you move on, I have The Hermit. I love this card, because it is a card about looking inward, growing from what we learn when we do the inner work, and self care. I pulled a clarifying card and it was the two of wands. So I feel should you get to the point where you feel moving on is the right move, by doing the inner work, you will no longer be at a crossroads and your path will be clear…or at least begin to become clearer than it had been.

So after I pulled those, I turned over the card that jumped out while I was shuffling and it was the 9 of Wands. This is someone who has been dealing with conflict and darker times and won the battle. While it may feel like you don’t have the strength to get through it or do what you feel you need to do, it is very important to know that it IS in you and you will be standing tall when you finally put yourself first in this scenario.

I do feel what I felt intuitively was backed up by the cards, so I hope this resonates for you. Whatever path you choose….own your strength!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am so blessed to encounter this thread. At the cusp of a major move… I don’t want to regret it. Help? Thank you for your compassion!

Hello! So I feel it will be very important for you to learn the difference between your intuition and your anxiety. Change, especially major change, can trigger our fears and can cause us to question everything. Calm your rational mind and call upon your intuition for help. Utilize free guided meditations online. While you may worry about what you are learning behind, I feel like the unknowns worry you the most. I feel like the biggest unknown could be in regards to a big change in lifestyle. So for example, if you are agnostic, you are moving to a religious town…or if you are a democrat, moving to a very red state. If that is the case I do feel some of that will come into play once you arrive, but you are savvy enough to eventually find your people. I feel the need to say that this will be about what you make of it.

The card I pulled that represents your current energy is the King of Wands in reverse. The idea of this move is a lot for you and while you are normally an adventurous collected person, you are out of your comfort zone. There is a sense of this having a message of growth for you mentally. Perhaps moving somewhere where people are quite different from yourself could help you to become less polarized…as an example. What takes us out of our comfort can have the biggest impacts on our life for the better. In regards to the move itself, I pulled the 4 of Pentacles. I think the closer you get to the move, the more you will try to see the positive in it, but I sense you will be sort of suppressing and using that positivity as a way to convince yourself you are making the right decision. Staying positive is awesome, but not if it is making you shove everything else down. As I looked at this card, I noticed she had the run for Othala on her earring and I decided to look up it’s meaning. I saw this when I searched for it’s meaning and felt it is something that may be good for you to hear “ Othala tells that in search for better life, we have to use our inherited, sometimes unconscious knowledge and manage wisely the resources that are available to us. Act noble and you will be noble!”.

The cards I pulled in regards to the place you are moving are the Page of Swords sideways and temperance sideways. I don’t always read cards like this but for you it felt necessary. I think once you get to where you are going, there will be a good period of uncertainty and questioning. Being sideways, I think it can go either way, but again it is going to come down to you and how you choose to see the situation. If it’s bad at first, will you immediately be down on it, or will you try and find what could be good, even though you are a stranger in a strange land? Temperance is about balance, patience, not rushing things and this too came out sideways. The place you are moving being in the future position means that what happens once you move is up to you and your perspective. Be negative and you will have regrets, be positive and you may be surprised at what you can find!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Hi OP. I'm glad to see that you're back. You did a couple email readings for me in the fall. Unfortunately there hasn't been a great deal of progress in my life and marriage and I wonder if you feel anything that's to come and if I should hold onto any hope for a change of course.

Hello! So I heard the phrase in my head “That which you held dear is no longer near”. I feel it’s time to accept things as they are and not holding out hope they could change. Remember, I read the current energy so something could always shift, but this is what I am picking up at 5:42pm on Sunday August 7. I have an image of the two of you sitting together and you being the one trying to bridge the gap and continually trying to give of yourself in hopes they will see you making an effort. He will take what you are offering, but does so with apathy. So let’s say that you feel he is thirsty, you run to get him a drink and he would take it, say “thanks”, but not even look at you. In turn it feels as his apathy when you are trying to make efforts causes you more inner turmoil or pain. To me, this feels like a situation where it’s time to work on yourself because you may be prolonging the inevitable.

As I was shuffling, a card flew out face down, but I did not turn it over until I had all the others spread out. For your present energy I have the 3 of Pentacles and this is very much about you wanting to building something with your partner. It does seem to me that you are putting in work, but they continue to hold their cards close to their chest. The card pulled in regards to sticking it out, I pulled the Ace of Pentacles in reverse and the 5 of cups came out with it. Should you stick it out, it looks like you will still experience more of the same and you will soon find yourself pretty much grieving the relationship even while you are in it…you may even be doing a bit of that now. While nobody wants to feel that while with their partner, I do feel it may be beneficial to you and may help guide you towards acceptance sooner rather than later (should things continue as they are now). The card I pulled in regards to what it looks like if you move on, I have The Hermit. I love this card, because it is a card about looking inward, growing from what we learn when we do the inner work, and self care. I pulled a clarifying card and it was the two of wands. So I feel should you get to the point where you feel moving on is the right move, by doing the inner work, you will no longer be at a crossroads and your path will be clear…or at least begin to become clearer than it had been.

So after I pulled those, I turned over the card that jumped out while I was shuffling and it was the 9 of Wands. This is someone who has been dealing with conflict and darker times and won the battle. While it may feel like you don’t have the strength to get through it or do what you feel you need to do, it is very important to know that it IS in you and you will be standing tall when you finally put yourself first in this scenario.

I do feel what I felt intuitively was backed up by the cards, so I hope this resonates for you. Whatever path you choose….own your strength!

Thank you OP. It makes me so sad, but I have shown more strength throughout this than I thought I was capable of. At least that's what everyone keeps telling me!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hi OP. I'm glad to see that you're back. You did a couple email readings for me in the fall. Unfortunately there hasn't been a great deal of progress in my life and marriage and I wonder if you feel anything that's to come and if I should hold onto any hope for a change of course.

Hello! So I heard the phrase in my head “That which you held dear is no longer near”. I feel it’s time to accept things as they are and not holding out hope they could change. Remember, I read the current energy so something could always shift, but this is what I am picking up at 5:42pm on Sunday August 7. I have an image of the two of you sitting together and you being the one trying to bridge the gap and continually trying to give of yourself in hopes they will see you making an effort. He will take what you are offering, but does so with apathy. So let’s say that you feel he is thirsty, you run to get him a drink and he would take it, say “thanks”, but not even look at you. In turn it feels as his apathy when you are trying to make efforts causes you more inner turmoil or pain. To me, this feels like a situation where it’s time to work on yourself because you may be prolonging the inevitable.

As I was shuffling, a card flew out face down, but I did not turn it over until I had all the others spread out. For your present energy I have the 3 of Pentacles and this is very much about you wanting to building something with your partner. It does seem to me that you are putting in work, but they continue to hold their cards close to their chest. The card pulled in regards to sticking it out, I pulled the Ace of Pentacles in reverse and the 5 of cups came out with it. Should you stick it out, it looks like you will still experience more of the same and you will soon find yourself pretty much grieving the relationship even while you are in it…you may even be doing a bit of that now. While nobody wants to feel that while with their partner, I do feel it may be beneficial to you and may help guide you towards acceptance sooner rather than later (should things continue as they are now). The card I pulled in regards to what it looks like if you move on, I have The Hermit. I love this card, because it is a card about looking inward, growing from what we learn when we do the inner work, and self care. I pulled a clarifying card and it was the two of wands. So I feel should you get to the point where you feel moving on is the right move, by doing the inner work, you will no longer be at a crossroads and your path will be clear…or at least begin to become clearer than it had been.

So after I pulled those, I turned over the card that jumped out while I was shuffling and it was the 9 of Wands. This is someone who has been dealing with conflict and darker times and won the battle. While it may feel like you don’t have the strength to get through it or do what you feel you need to do, it is very important to know that it IS in you and you will be standing tall when you finally put yourself first in this scenario.

I do feel what I felt intuitively was backed up by the cards, so I hope this resonates for you. Whatever path you choose….own your strength!

Thank you OP. It makes me so sad, but I have shown more strength throughout this than I thought I was capable of. At least that's what everyone keeps telling me!

You need to take time for yourself, to rest, to give to you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Thank you, reader. In the journey for my authentic self, I'm finding myself at a crossroads. Do I stay or go? There are individuals attached to both options, but I'm trying to focus on which leads to self-actualization. Thank you.

Hello! I had an image of you sitting in mediation and a beautiful light from the cosmos was surging through you. I heard the word “yoga”, so I feel like you may already be practicing it, but if not, you should look into starting. You need to take the road that leads you toward living in your spirituality on a daily basis and one that allows you confidence in it. It is always important to take others into consideration, but at the moment you need to put them aside to focus on yourself. I feel that the path you need to take is the one that may cause more heartache and that is what is causing your indecision at this time. This is why it will be very important for you to be focusing on yourself and what is going to best serve you. The road that leads you towards more spiritual and less material is where you need to travel. Heed the signs that are sent to you.

In regards to the cards, the card I pulled that represents your energy is the Queen of Wands in reverse. You are not living your potential at the moment and are having difficulties because it feels like there may still be some tendrils from who you were residing in you. It is important to know that even though you have grown and evolved, those tendrils are still part of you, but you need to recognize that they no longer tether you. Rather, you have cut them and hold them as a memory of how far you have come. When you can do this, you will see the path start to glow.

The card that represents you staying is the Page of Pentacles in reverse. To me this is saying that what once gave you pleasure and drive, no longer holds as much meaning. So anything new that you may want to begin has difficulty taking flight because your true energy is not behind it. This can lead to hopelessness in a sense because you seem to really be trying to grow things, whatever they may be, but they are tied to who you were and not who you are becoming.

The card that represents going is The Wheel in reverse. It is change that will get you out of this current energy. I am seeing this turning of the wheel as you taking a major step towards becoming whole. So should you go, this is the path that will really help you to see the growth you are looking for.

The card that represents what will help you decide is the 5 of Pentacles in reverse. When you can see what is best for YOU and that you have the key to move forward, that is when you will solidify your path. Many times, the road to the authentic self is not the easy road. It’s the one that triggers our fears, bad habits, and vices. Your intuition will lead you to your true self. Don’t disregard it. Everything you need is in you!

[Anonymous]

I’m currently learning and practicing tarot so this is a fun thread for me to follow to see how OP builds her narrative of the cards and what is resonating with each querent. Not easy to do them this way!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Good morning, reader! I am wondering about a lot of things, but will pick just one for now -- what can you tell me about the energy surrounding DD especially with regard to her transition to college next month?

Thank you!

Unfortunately I cannot read for her as you are the person coming for the reading. I apologize. Do you have a question about a situation in your life?

Hi, thank you so much for responding. I'll rephrase -- What is the current energy surrounding me in regards to my family (i.e., husband and kids - but if you can pick up anything re my family of origin too, I'd be interested).

Really appreciate you doing this! It's been fascinating to read your responses.

Hello! I am having a bit of difficulty connecting to this. So while I was trying to hear what I needed to relay to you, I saw 3 white butterflies, tightly knit, fluttering around together and noticed that I was just an observer. I have a sense that you may feel like a bit of an outsider in your family in some ways. However, I don’t feel this is reality, rather it is your perception of it. I feel that you raised your family to help you balance and heal your past. However, now that your kids are older, you seem unsure of who you are again. I am still feeling a bit blocked and leads me to a thought that you may have grown up in a home where your caretakers were emotionally unavailable. This sort of has that energy.

The card I pulled that represents your energy is the 6 of Pentacles in reverse. I think you have been giving a lot of yourself for many years and you are not getting enough back to fill you up. It is time to move ahead towards trying new things that could help you feel more balanced and whole internally and that give you a sense of purpose. You may do some of that now, but there is a sense that trying something NEW will help. Get you out of the day to day routine that can become monotonous.

The card that represents your families energy is the 5 of Swords. Again, this leads me to believe that you are giving and they are taking and you are drained because of it. I don’t think your family even realizes that this dynamic is happening because you just do it without expectations. So while it is a beautiful thing that you do, there must be some form of reciprocity in order for you to be balanced. If you have not already, opening up and telling them how you are feeling may be a good first step. Sometimes we (and I do this myself!) just expect others to know what we want or need…but that is not reality. So using your voice will be very helpful for you to start getting back what is being taken.

The card that represents you in regards to your childhood family is The High Priestess in reverse. I don’t think that you were every really allowed to fully express who you were and that you were supposed to live up to other peoples expectations. I think you did indeed try to do that and when you did meet what was expected of you, there was not much praise for doing so. So even then, you were giving and not getting back. This may have caused you to suppress your true self way down and because of that, in the present, you struggle to understand who you really are.

The card that represents what action you could take to move forward is the 4 of Cups in reverse. It’s time to start being an active player. It’s time to do the hard work and uncover all that which is shoved down in your psyche. It’s time to discover who you truly are as a human being, not as a mom, or a friend, or a child, or a wife. The amazing thing is, you can be whoever you want to be! With a bit of hard work, you will get there.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Good morning, reader! I am wondering about a lot of things, but will pick just one for now -- what can you tell me about the energy surrounding DD especially with regard to her transition to college next month?

Thank you!

Unfortunately I cannot read for her as you are the person coming for the reading. I apologize. Do you have a question about a situation in your life?

Hi, thank you so much for responding. I'll rephrase -- What is the current energy surrounding me in regards to my family (i.e., husband and kids - but if you can pick up anything re my family of origin too, I'd be interested).

Really appreciate you doing this! It's been fascinating to read your responses.

Hello! I am having a bit of difficulty connecting to this. So while I was trying to hear what I needed to relay to you, I saw 3 white butterflies, tightly knit, fluttering around together and noticed that I was just an observer. I have a sense that you may feel like a bit of an outsider in your family in some ways. However, I don’t feel this is reality, rather it is your perception of it. I feel that you raised your family to help you balance and heal your past. However, now that your kids are older, you seem unsure of who you are again. I am still feeling a bit blocked and leads me to a thought that you may have grown up in a home where your caretakers were emotionally unavailable. This sort of has that energy.

The card I pulled that represents your energy is the 6 of Pentacles in reverse. I think you have been giving a lot of yourself for many years and you are not getting enough back to fill you up. It is time to move ahead towards trying new things that could help you feel more balanced and whole internally and that give you a sense of purpose. You may do some of that now, but there is a sense that trying something NEW will help. Get you out of the day to day routine that can become monotonous.

The card that represents your families energy is the 5 of Swords. Again, this leads me to believe that you are giving and they are taking and you are drained because of it. I don’t think your family even realizes that this dynamic is happening because you just do it without expectations. So while it is a beautiful thing that you do, there must be some form of reciprocity in order for you to be balanced. If you have not already, opening up and telling them how you are feeling may be a good first step. Sometimes we (and I do this myself!) just expect others to know what we want or need…but that is not reality. So using your voice will be very helpful for you to start getting back what is being taken.

The card that represents you in regards to your childhood family is The High Priestess in reverse. I don’t think that you were every really allowed to fully express who you were and that you were supposed to live up to other peoples expectations. I think you did indeed try to do that and when you did meet what was expected of you, there was not much praise for doing so. So even then, you were giving and not getting back. This may have caused you to suppress your true self way down and because of that, in the present, you struggle to understand who you really are.

The card that represents what action you could take to move forward is the 4 of Cups in reverse. It’s time to start being an active player. It’s time to do the hard work and uncover all that which is shoved down in your psyche. It’s time to discover who you truly are as a human being, not as a mom, or a friend, or a child, or a wife. The amazing thing is, you can be whoever you want to be! With a bit of hard work, you will get there.

Wow, this really resonates! And validates some of what I've been thinking. Thank you for spending time and energy on this.

[Anonymous]

Hello Tarot Reader

I've just had a loss of a beloved pet, but I have been feeling stuck for a long time. This loss just shoved me down further. I am currently grieving heavily, but I know this will ease with time to a degree. I am in an age transition in my life, and have lost (or have not seen) many friends and regular contacts because of a combination of things-the pandemic, people moving, different jobs, etc. I cease to be a priority in anyone's life ever, but instead, a happy acquaintance. However, when I am needed for a problem, I am the first contact. I have to initiate everything beyond that, and I've decided to stop. Parents are gone, I have no grandchildren, extended family absorbed in their own families and grandchildren. They don't live close by, but contact has dwindled.

Maybe many people feel stuck after the last 2 years, but I don't see a light at the end.

What direction or path should I take?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hello Tarot Reader

I've just had a loss of a beloved pet, but I have been feeling stuck for a long time. This loss just shoved me down further. I am currently grieving heavily, but I know this will ease with time to a degree. I am in an age transition in my life, and have lost (or have not seen) many friends and regular contacts because of a combination of things-the pandemic, people moving, different jobs, etc. I cease to be a priority in anyone's life ever, but instead, a happy acquaintance. However, when I am needed for a problem, I am the first contact. I have to initiate everything beyond that, and I've decided to stop. Parents are gone, I have no grandchildren, extended family absorbed in their own families and grandchildren. They don't live close by, but contact has dwindled.

Maybe many people feel stuck after the last 2 years, but I don't see a light at the end.

What direction or path should I take?

Oh, and thank you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You seem to really be able to connect with people even in this format! Can you do a reading on me with a focus on my future with my DH? I find myself sometimes questioning if this is the path I'm supposed to be on. Thanks!

Hello! I heard the word excitement. There is a sense that you have an adventurous spirit but that your DH is less so. It could also be that he has a similar spirit, but how you manifest your adventures is quite different from one another. I feel that you are mutable in nature as well, and may have a tendency to put your needs on the back burner to meet your DH halfway, but he does not do the same for you. You feel as if you put in more effort all around. So while you are mutable, they feel quite fixed in what they like, want, need. So while this can help to balance out people in relationships, it can also lead to the one who is easily adaptable to eventually feel drained. Regardless of if he is less adventurous as you, or if he has different ideas, I think it can be possible to stay on the path of this marriage. It would require a lot of love and trust and would allow you to have the path of marriage as well as carve out a path for yourself. If kids are involved, it may not be as easy, but once the kids are older it will be important to think about.

The card that I pulled for your current energy is the 3 of Pentacles in reverse. This says to me that there is definite difficulty in continuing to build something with your DH. So if things are stagnant and you are trying to throw a spark in there, it feels like it fizzles out before igniting. I pulled a clarifying card as well and it is the Ace of Wands in reverse. There is an energy of hopelessness. Like, no matter what you do, nothing will work. You are not able to fully be living in your potential the way things are at the moment.

The card that I pulled for the path of yourself is the Knight of Pentacles with the 7 of Pentacles to clarify. Should you choose the path that allows you to live to your fullest potential, it will not be a fast one. It will require patience and planning, while slowly starting to plant the seeds to allow yourself to flourish. It would be very important to not make any decision impulsively.

The card that I pulled for the path with your DH is the King of Pentacles in reverse. This makes me feel that what I sensed about your DH could be correct. He may be a bit more selfish and doesn’t really think about your needs. He is just focused on what he wants to do not realizing that your needs are just as important. I pulled the Emperor as the clarifying card and he is just the opposite! I feel like you are trying to get your DH to become what you need him to be, but that nothing is working. If you have tried everything you can think of but have not yet had a difficult sit down with him, now may be the time to do so.

What is interesting is that this reading is full of pentacles. They deal with the day to day stuff. The material, the ego, finances, money. I feel that this relationship may not have the depth required to satiate you for the long run. As someone who may be a bit more eccentric, you would need a partner who smiles at your zest for life and wants to join in, or at the very least, one who would allow you to explore what you need to. I pulled a card and asked what would determine what comes to pass. The 2 of Cups in reverse came out. It will be the depth of your love and feelings for one another that determine the outcome. No matter how much you love or care about him, you cannot change who he is or who he will become. You need to figure out what you want and need from a marriage and if you can live with your marriage how it is. Your answer lies in there.