Potomac parents are SO ANNOYING

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Anonymous wrote:Honestly, I don't really see a non-Potomac parent considering Potomac comparable to the Big 3...


The whole idea of a Big 3 is silly. We were a non Potomac parent , but then our DS had the choice between a supposed Big 3 and Potomac and he wound up choosing Potomac. It’s about fit. Potomac has a very good academic reputation even if many DC-centric DCUMers don’t want to admit that.


🥇And the gold metal for mental gymnastics goes to POTOMAC!

Peak Potomac Perfomance🎉

I don't disagree that school is about fit, but claiming you were a non-potomac parent before ultimately choosing Potomac doesn't make you a non-potomac parent comparing to the Big 3 😂



I’m guessing you’re a teenager that is posting on a parent forum for some reason. I’m not “claiming” anything. Technically I am still not a Potomac parent since DS doesn’t start there until the fall. I’m also not comparing it to the Big 3. I am saying it has an excellent reputation.
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🥇And the gold metal for mental gymnastics goes to POTOMAC!

Peak Potomac Perfomance🎉
Anonymous
Oh come on - they took down all the fun posts
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Anonymous wrote:Oh come on - they took down all the fun posts


I mean it's a new kind of fun with what was left behind. But a kind reminder to us all that we can't name people on this side of DCUM because you are essentially doxxing their kid💖 (all the ones that got taken down appear to have been the ones that responded back to and eventually connected to that one).
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Anonymous wrote:Oh come on - they took down all the fun posts


I mean it's a new kind of fun with what was left behind. But a kind reminder to us all that we can't name people on this side of DCUM because you are essentially doxxing their kid💖 (all the ones that got taken down appear to have been the ones that responded back to and eventually connected to that one).


The admissions comments didn’t name names.
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Anonymous wrote:Oh come on - they took down all the fun posts


I mean it's a new kind of fun with what was left behind. But a kind reminder to us all that we can't name people on this side of DCUM because you are essentially doxxing their kid💖 (all the ones that got taken down appear to have been the ones that responded back to and eventually connected to that one).


The admissions comments didn’t name names.


Oh interesting, he may have over pruned by mistake because I thought it connected back (but also I'm remembering of what I read through with a cup of coffee and now just giggling at my comment about how nice and calm the discussion was looks unhinged 🤣).
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I'm trying to remember, but I think the connecting piece to admissions was that the person who made the pivot into the good convo replied to the naming and said "no there are multiple like it due to a particular somewhat related connection piece in the admissions process" so then all the normal conversations about admissions had that at the root.
Anonymous
Sad! It must have been an artful pivot to get to a decent conversation to about admissions...
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It mentioned how there is a former board president that writes recs - whenever they write a rec the family is guaranteed acceptance to the school. This doesn’t help the toxic culture at the school nor does the fact that some families are also accepted simply based on the size of their perceived wallet. It’s sad that some schools like Potomac do this to appease parents and forget to consider fit for the child.
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Anonymous wrote:Honestly, I don't really see a non-Potomac parent considering Potomac comparable to the Big 3...


The whole idea of a Big 3 is silly. We were a non Potomac parent , but then our DS had the choice between a supposed Big 3 and Potomac and he wound up choosing Potomac. It’s about fit. Potomac has a very good academic reputation even if many DC-centric DCUMers don’t want to admit that.


I don't disagree that school is about fit, but claiming you were a non-potomac parent before ultimately choosing Potomac doesn't make you a non-potomac parent comparing to the Big 3 😂



I’m guessing you’re a teenager that is posting on a parent forum for some reason. I’m not “claiming” anything. Technically I am still not a Potomac parent since DS doesn’t start there until the fall. I’m also not comparing it to the Big 3. I am saying it has an excellent reputation.


Excellent reputation according to whom? What is the reputation you have in mind?


According to their college admits for 2026 -take a look.
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Anonymous wrote:I just want to know why they are always talking about the school and wearing the clothes.


My son is at Gonzaga and the parents I meet are constantly talking about Gonzaga, wearing Gonzaga merch, volunteering at Gonzaga, or hosting Gonzaga events. Of course I am meeting the parents at school events so that makes sense; I have no idea how they behave in the wild. Side note: I attended both Potomac and Cathedral in the 80s and I recall the Potomac parents being more down to earth and the Cathedral parents snootier, but I was a kid and it was a loooong time ago, so take it with a grain of salt.
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Anonymous wrote:It seems like Potomac is trying to position itself as an elite school. Don’t get me wrong, it’s a great school but it’s not a top three (NCS/STA, GDS or Sidwell) and it has a chip on his shoulder because of that.


Soon to be new family at Potomac. I think of Potomac as a neighborhood private school. Lots of people in McLean send their kids there. I would not expect anyone not in McLean to know or care about this school.

I certainly wouldn’t expect or think anyone from dc or md would care.


Potomac is dealing with a lot of moving targets at once.
They are definitely a big fish in a small pond but by many metrics competitive with big 3.
And I think this is a fairly recent development. They're still getting used to it

Potomac decided maybe a couple of decades ago to almost abandon some of it's legacy preferences because it had started drawing an applicant pool that was far more competitive than it had seen in the past.
This is just conjecture but I think the legacy parents got very loud and proud about Potomac and the newcomers thought that was what they were supposed to do. The Potomac pride was not understated. Some people liked that.

The 9th grade admits are so much more competitive than the kids that got in 10 years ago that they almost belong in different schools. Potomac is getting more and more competitive by the year. I think it's the location. McLean didn't used to be like this.


A couple of decades ago Potomac didn’t even have a high school. Question- do people really not know about the teacher that r*ped a dozen girls? The school knew something was up but failed to report him. Then he went off to teach at another private before finally a victim who was also a mother at that private spoke up.


Huh, what? They had an upper since the 1980s. They opened a new upper school building about 20 years ago. maybe that is what you are thinking of.


Fall 1987 was the first year that students could start 9th and go through 12th grade (class of 1991) in the new high school. The class of 1990 was technically the first class to graduate, but they would have completed 9th grade in the old facilities and only 10th-12th grades in the new facilities. Before that time, the school went through 9th grade. Some new facilities were built in time for the classes of 1990/1991 but I don’t think the build out was complete and there has been a ton newly built and improved since then. For those who think about Potomac as a neighborhood private school - Potomac actually used to be in Georgetown (1904-1951), and there are lots of Georgetown families that sent their kids to Potomac for generations, even though it moved to McLean in 1951. (It was named Potomac bc it was close to the Potomac River when it was in DC). Since the Tysons Corner build out and resulting traffic on Chain Bridge increased in the early 2000s, the Georgetown to Potomac pipeline has decreased. There used to be nothing past old downtown McLean so a DC to McLean drive across Chain Bridge was a reverse commute; now it takes just as long either way both morning and afternoon and Chain Bridge was not built to accommodate that kind of traffic. Anyone who attended Potomac would know about the pedophile as there was a lot of communication sent out to alumni. I remember him vividly from when he was head of what was known then as the intermediate school (7th/8th grades). I am thankful that I am not a victim, deeply saddened for those who are, horrified at how long the abuse went on, and in disbelief that he went from Potomac to be employed at the school my sibling attended (which is where a victim encountered him and reported him). I do still have wonderful memories of Potomac and I am grateful for my experience there; I can only hope that everything that we have learned about child predators since that time has resulted in more systemic protections across the board at Potomac and other schools. It would not dissuade me from sending my children to Potomac.
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Anonymous wrote:I don’t understand why the Potomac school is in McLean, and the McLean school is in Potomac.


People have been asking this question for generations


The Potomac School started in DC (1904) and was in Georgetown - after an early re-location from its first site - until 1951 (at which point it moved to McLean). It was named after the Potomac River because the campus was near the river when it was in DC. The purchase of the land in McLean allowed for significant expansion and later (1987) the addition of grades 10-12. As to why the McLean school is in Potomac, that I do not know. I know Potomac’s history because I attended. When I was there (80s), there were quite a few kids that lived in Potomac (the place) and traveled to McLean to attend Potomac (the school) using Georgetown Pike as a short cut from Potomac to McLean. I wonder if that is still the case given the explosion of regional traffic.
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Anonymous wrote:Honestly, I don't really see a non-Potomac parent considering Potomac comparable to the Big 3...


The whole idea of a Big 3 is silly. We were a non Potomac parent , but then our DS had the choice between a supposed Big 3 and Potomac and he wound up choosing Potomac. It’s about fit. Potomac has a very good academic reputation even if many DC-centric DCUMers don’t want to admit that.


I don't disagree that school is about fit, but claiming you were a non-potomac parent before ultimately choosing Potomac doesn't make you a non-potomac parent comparing to the Big 3 😂



I’m guessing you’re a teenager that is posting on a parent forum for some reason. I’m not “claiming” anything. Technically I am still not a Potomac parent since DS doesn’t start there until the fall. I’m also not comparing it to the Big 3. I am saying it has an excellent reputation.


Excellent reputation according to whom? What is the reputation you have in mind?


According to their college admits for 2026 -take a look.


College admits equates to solid reputation? Didn’t know that was the sum of a person.
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Anonymous wrote:It seems like Potomac is trying to position itself as an elite school. Don’t get me wrong, it’s a great school but it’s not a top three (NCS/STA, GDS or Sidwell) and it has a chip on his shoulder because of that.


Soon to be new family at Potomac. I think of Potomac as a neighborhood private school. Lots of people in McLean send their kids there. I would not expect anyone not in McLean to know or care about this school.

I certainly wouldn’t expect or think anyone from dc or md would care.


Potomac is dealing with a lot of moving targets at once.
They are definitely a big fish in a small pond but by many metrics competitive with big 3.
And I think this is a fairly recent development. They're still getting used to it

Potomac decided maybe a couple of decades ago to almost abandon some of it's legacy preferences because it had started drawing an applicant pool that was far more competitive than it had seen in the past.
This is just conjecture but I think the legacy parents got very loud and proud about Potomac and the newcomers thought that was what they were supposed to do. The Potomac pride was not understated. Some people liked that.

The 9th grade admits are so much more competitive than the kids that got in 10 years ago that they almost belong in different schools. Potomac is getting more and more competitive by the year. I think it's the location. McLean didn't used to be like this.


A couple of decades ago Potomac didn’t even have a high school. Question- do people really not know about the teacher that r*ped a dozen girls? The school knew something was up but failed to report him. Then he went off to teach at another private before finally a victim who was also a mother at that private spoke up.


Huh, what? They had an upper since the 1980s. They opened a new upper school building about 20 years ago. maybe that is what you are thinking of.


Fall 1987 was the first year that students could start 9th and go through 12th grade (class of 1991) in the new high school. The class of 1990 was technically the first class to graduate, but they would have completed 9th grade in the old facilities and only 10th-12th grades in the new facilities. Before that time, the school went through 9th grade. Some new facilities were built in time for the classes of 1990/1991 but I don’t think the build out was complete and there has been a ton newly built and improved since then. For those who think about Potomac as a neighborhood private school - Potomac actually used to be in Georgetown (1904-1951), and there are lots of Georgetown families that sent their kids to Potomac for generations, even though it moved to McLean in 1951. (It was named Potomac bc it was close to the Potomac River when it was in DC). Since the Tysons Corner build out and resulting traffic on Chain Bridge increased in the early 2000s, the Georgetown to Potomac pipeline has decreased. There used to be nothing past old downtown McLean so a DC to McLean drive across Chain Bridge was a reverse commute; now it takes just as long either way both morning and afternoon and Chain Bridge was not built to accommodate that kind of traffic. Anyone who attended Potomac would know about the pedophile as there was a lot of communication sent out to alumni. I remember him vividly from when he was head of what was known then as the intermediate school (7th/8th grades). I am thankful that I am not a victim, deeply saddened for those who are, horrified at how long the abuse went on, and in disbelief that he went from Potomac to be employed at the school my sibling attended (which is where a victim encountered him and reported him). I do still have wonderful memories of Potomac and I am grateful for my experience there; I can only hope that everything that we have learned about child predators since that time has resulted in more systemic protections across the board at Potomac and other schools. It would not dissuade me from sending my children to Potomac.


Nice to see this being talked about. I was a student of his and we did not choose Potomac. The handling of that case being the main reason. I have friends who also attended both schools and have chosen another path for their children now.
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