Men in your 50s, do you find women in their 50s attractive?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am 55. I know any woman in their 20's (or even 30's) is probably more interest in my wallet than me.

I can buy nicer gifts, take her to nicer places than people in her age group.

Woman my age are more interested in me. That makes them more attractive than a wrinkle free girl (and I mean girl) who is basically whoring herself. Realistically, I can go to NV and a brothel if I want to do a 20 yo.

But, instead, I want to be with someone who wants to be with me. So I date people of my generation.

You know who cares about your wallet? Not women in their 20s. They just want to have fun, and they have low expectations. It is women in their 30s and 40s who care about your wallet. They expect a provider to pay for the kids they want or the kids they already have, and they have high expectations.

Everyone here who claims "young women are just after your wallet"... is not paying attention to older women (or is an older woman who is lying about what she wants and what young women want).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This thread is hilarious. Twenty or thirty different women on the other side of 45 trying to argue men into finding them attractive.

Newsflash ladies- this is how it works. Girls held all the cards when they were young. Now the boys hold the cards.

Don't like it? I'd suggest trying really hard to stay in shape and hang on to your DHs like your life depended on it. Because when you split he'll be chasing 30 year olds and you'll be fighting over the handful of single 60 year old men that may or may not find you attractive.

Sometimes the truth hurts.

DYING!!! HAHAHA!!!!!!

[Anonymous]

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Having written this I guess this thread is about women over fifty but frankly if you are willing to date divorced men with kids there seems to be plenty of availability.

I just turned 48 and my only child is 20 and away at college. I would much, much prefer to date a 60 plus guy whose kids are grown than another 50 year old who still has kids that live with him most or all of the time.

My actual experience, as a 50-something divorced man who still has custody of kids, is that much younger women do not mind that at all.

But, looks like I'll miss out on dating this 48-yo DCUM harpy. Too bad, so sad!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Um, older guys. You do realize those younger women who date you would generally prefer to date younger men, right? I mean, you realize that the women who date you either want your money, or want your career success, and when they tell you you're hot and a god lover, they're, um lying? And you're okay with that? Don't you have any pride at all?

The ones who don't just want your money are seriously f*d up gals with major daddy issues. How would you feel if your 20-something daughter brought a 60 year old home for the holidays? If that doesn't bother you -if the thought of sleeping with someone young enough to be your daughter doesn't bother you - you are one seriously sleazy guy.

Women of all ages just want our money or career success. That being true, we might as well go for young, hot, and fertile.

Older women are seriously effed up, just in different ways than younger ones. That being true, we might as well go for young, hot, and fertile.

The dick wants what it wants. And what it wants - is young, hot, and fertile. If that bothers you, that's your problem.

Mick Jagger, is that you?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:^nope I don't care. You are just deluded, so much so to write that diatribe. I'm 47, DH is 51. If DH and I were no longer together, more than likely, I wouldn't date 60+ yr olds, and based on most posts by women in their 40's on this thread, neither would most other 40 something year olds. It's amazing how deluded some 60 yr old men are. Very sad. And I'm not bitter either. I'm quite happy with my DH and hope to god we stay together till the end because I shudder at the thought of going back into the dating pool.

Fixed that first bolded word for you. Again, the men here who are actively dating younger women are NOT the ones who are deluded. They are just telling their stories just as I am (the 61 YO guy). It deluded all unless you think I'm totally making this up. If so, call me a liar, not deluded. It's your beliefs of how the dating world works for men that does not recognize reality.

You are not dating and only think you know what you would do if you found yourself, at 47, back in the dating pool. The same as the other women, all married and NOT dating, who agree with you. Either way, it doesn't matter what you would do. Maybe you would only date much younger guys after trying a few your age. Who knows but OK, I believe you. You would never date a guy my age. Yet, us guys have not problem finding younger women who will date older and we've told you that. The small sampling of married women in this thread, many who haven't dated in over 10-20 years, means nothing compared to the reality of actual dating as some of us have related to you.

If I were back to dating, and I was desperate, then I might consider dating a 61 year old. There are slim pickings for 40+ yr old women. So, I could see why some of them would be desperate enough to widen their age pool. Or, like I said, if the man was fit and looked younger than 61, then sure. I'm not after money. I have my own. But, thankfully, I'm happily married. Again, most 40 yr old women will only consider dating a 60+ yr old man if he looked younger, or was wealthy, or she is desperate. Like some male posters have been posting here.. most women in the 50's don't look good. Well, most 60+ yr old men don't look that good to most 40 yr olds, and they wouldn't date a 60 yr old unless it was one of the three reasons I've mentioned numerous times. You are finding 40 yr old women willing to date you because their choices are slim. That's called desperation.

[Anonymous]

Eh, I’m an over 50 woman who is attractive, but clearly my age. If a man isn’t into me, I’m really fine and prefer if he moves along. That comment is to you 61 y.o. Guy dating 35 year olds. Really, I have no interest in you. I have to wonder about men who complain their first wife cut off sex. There are usually two sides to that story, and it raises red flags to me. I’m widowed from a good marriage that was not sexless or affectionless. Anyway, you can get through a lot with really good girlfriends. I’ve enjoyed keeping company with very pleasant, accomplished gentlemen around my age, and I’m not looking for a replacement spouse. There are a ton of women who are younger than me and more attractive than me. So what?

[Anonymous]

The ageism displayed by both genders on this thread amazes me. At least the men are honest but the women are clearly showing double standards. In your 40s and chiding men your age for dating younger women but don't want to date a 60-plus guy because he's 'too old'? That's ageist too.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:To be fair, most men in their 50s don't look good either, especially white men.

Since we have established that women go for our money and career success, our looks are beside the point. Sorry older ladies!

Well you also only have 20 more years to live so better spend spend spend.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Lots of delusional males on this thread...and I thought middle aged women were crazy

There is that word again, delusional. And I'll guess that you are a married woman. I don't think you understand the meaning of the word, delusional. When I relate my experiences, as some of the other guys are later in this thread, of dating younger woman, we aren't being delusional. We are telling you how it is out there in the dating world. The real one we are involved with. Not the one you imagine or have no idea about and not the dating world as you think it exists where no older man can find a younger woman who isn't damaged. You see, THAT is delusional.

A whole lot of words to do nothing but display your insecurity. Delusional and defensive is not a good look on anyone gramps. No wonder you people have all failed in life and love.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Lots of delusional males on this thread...and I thought middle aged women were crazy

There is that word again, delusional. And I'll guess that you are a married woman. I don't think you understand the meaning of the word, delusional. When I relate my experiences, as some of the other guys are later in this thread, of dating younger woman, we aren't being delusional. We are telling you how it is out there in the dating world. The real one we are involved with. Not the one you imagine or have no idea about and not the dating world as you think it exists where no older man can find a younger woman who isn't damaged. You see, THAT is delusional.

A whole lot of words to do nothing but display your insecurity. Delusional and defensive is not a good look on anyone gramps. No wonder you people have all failed in life and love.

- signed, a bitter old lady who hasn't been penetrated (by a willing male) in two years but claims her cats and administrative job give her all the comfort she needs.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The ageism displayed by both genders on this thread amazes me. At least the men are honest but the women are clearly showing double standards. In your 40s and chiding men your age for dating younger women but don't want to date a 60-plus guy because he's 'too old'? That's ageist too.

Unless he has money. Don't forget that. Most of them agreed they would gladly whore themselves out in marriage to a guy they find repulsive, if there is a payday in it for them. Then it's just fine.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Lots of delusional males on this thread...and I thought middle aged women were crazy

There is that word again, delusional. And I'll guess that you are a married woman. I don't think you understand the meaning of the word, delusional. When I relate my experiences, as some of the other guys are later in this thread, of dating younger woman, we aren't being delusional. We are telling you how it is out there in the dating world. The real one we are involved with. Not the one you imagine or have no idea about and not the dating world as you think it exists where no older man can find a younger woman who isn't damaged. You see, THAT is delusional.

A whole lot of words to do nothing but display your insecurity. Delusional and defensive is not a good look on anyone gramps. No wonder you people have all failed in life and love.

- signed, a bitter old lady who hasn't been penetrated (by a willing male) in two years but claims her cats and administrative job give her all the comfort she needs.

I'm dating women in their 40s and that makes me a failure in life and love? Is that some kind of old married woman, delusional, DCUM logic? Because I'm really enjoying my life right now and I'm certainly not failing at love.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The ageism displayed by both genders on this thread amazes me. At least the men are honest but the women are clearly showing double standards. In your 40s and chiding men your age for dating younger women but don't want to date a 60-plus guy because he's 'too old'? That's ageist too.

It is ageism for sure. They do make an exception for an exceptionally good looking man in great shape, or one who has a lot of money. Any woman who would date a man without one of those things is labeled, desperate. She can't just be a woman who doesn't have as much of an age bias as most.

It's kind of scary to see what long-term marriage has done to some of the the women of DCUM.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Lots of delusional males on this thread...and I thought middle aged women were crazy

There is that word again, delusional. And I'll guess that you are a married woman. I don't think you understand the meaning of the word, delusional. When I relate my experiences, as some of the other guys are later in this thread, of dating younger woman, we aren't being delusional. We are telling you how it is out there in the dating world. The real one we are involved with. Not the one you imagine or have no idea about and not the dating world as you think it exists where no older man can find a younger woman who isn't damaged. You see, THAT is delusional.

A whole lot of words to do nothing but display your insecurity. Delusional and defensive is not a good look on anyone gramps. No wonder you people have all failed in life and love.

- signed, a bitter old lady who hasn't been penetrated (by a willing male) in two years but claims her cats and administrative job give her all the comfort she needs.

Haha, whatever you need to tell yourself old man

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Lots of delusional males on this thread...and I thought middle aged women were crazy

There is that word again, delusional. And I'll guess that you are a married woman. I don't think you understand the meaning of the word, delusional. When I relate my experiences, as some of the other guys are later in this thread, of dating younger woman, we aren't being delusional. We are telling you how it is out there in the dating world. The real one we are involved with. Not the one you imagine or have no idea about and not the dating world as you think it exists where no older man can find a younger woman who isn't damaged. You see, THAT is delusional.

A whole lot of words to do nothing but display your insecurity. Delusional and defensive is not a good look on anyone gramps. No wonder you people have all failed in life and love.

- signed, a bitter old lady who hasn't been penetrated (by a willing male) in two years but claims her cats and administrative job give her all the comfort she needs.

I'm dating women in their 40s and that makes me a failure in life and love? Is that some kind of old married woman, delusional, DCUM logic? Because I'm really enjoying my life right now and I'm certainly not failing at love.

I guess there’s no hope for you. You don’t even know what’s wrong with you. Enjoy your life.