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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^nope I don't care.  You are just deluded, so much so to write that diatribe.  I'm 47, DH is 51.  If DH and I were no longer together, more than likely, I [b]wouldn't[/b] date 60+ yr olds, and [b]based on most posts by women in their 40's on this thread, neither would most other 40 something year olds.[/b]  It's amazing how deluded some 60 yr old men are.  Very sad.  And I'm not bitter either. I'm quite happy with my DH and hope to god we stay together till the end because I shudder at the thought of going back into the dating pool.[/quote]

Fixed that first bolded word for you.  Again, the men here who are actively dating younger women are NOT the ones who are deluded.  They are just telling their stories just as I am (the 61 YO guy).  It deluded all unless you think I'm totally making this up.  If so, call me a liar, not deluded.  It's your beliefs of how the dating world works for men that does not recognize reality.

You are not dating and only think you know what you would do if you found yourself, at 47, back in the dating pool.  The same as the other women, all married and NOT dating, who agree with you.  Either way, it doesn't matter what you would do.  Maybe you would only date much younger guys after trying a few your age.  Who knows but OK, I believe you.  You would never date a guy my age.  Yet, us guys have not problem finding younger women who will date older and we've told you that.  The small sampling of married women in this thread, many who haven't dated in over 10-20 years, means nothing compared to the reality of actual dating as some of us have related to you.[/quote]
If I were back to dating, and I was desperate, then I might consider dating a 61 year old. There are slim pickings for 40+ yr old women.   So, I could see why some of them would be desperate enough to widen their age pool.   Or, like I said, if the man was fit and looked younger than 61, then sure. I'm not after money. I have my own.   But, thankfully, I'm happily married.    Again, most 40 yr old women will only consider dating a 60+  yr old man if he looked younger, or was wealthy, or she is desperate.  Like some male posters have been posting here.. most women in the 50's don't look good. Well, most 60+ yr old men don't look that good to most 40 yr olds, and they wouldn't date a 60 yr old  unless it was one of the three reasons I've mentioned numerous times.    You are finding 40 yr old women willing to date you because their choices are slim.   That's called desperation.[/quote]

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