At what age did you lose your virginity?

[Anonymous]

PP again - my friends were all having sex in our teens, also.

And before those "you're trashy" posters come out: these were mainly private school kids who went on to great colleges, great lives. This was 25 years ago; it may have been a less prudish time than we are living in now?

I'm curious about the 52 year old, too! Are you waiting for something in particular? Just not interested? More, please!

[Anonymous]

I wanna meet the 33 year old virgin who now has DH who doesn't want sex!

Woman I bet you're beautiful and a handful between the sheets ! I wish you luck !!!

And wish we were in the same car pool !

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:PP again - my friends were all having sex in our teens, also.

And before those "you're trashy" posters come out: these were mainly private school kids who went on to great colleges, great lives. This was 25 years ago; it may have been a less prudish time than we are living in now?

I'm curious about the 52 year old, too! Are you waiting for something in particular? Just not interested? More, please!

No way. More prudish back then.

[Anonymous]

I was 17. He was 23. My loser parents were fine with this. It sickens me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was 17. He was 23. My loser parents were fine with this. It sickens me.

What part of it sickens you?

[Anonymous]

21 with my first long term boyfriend. Dated him for 3 years. Went through a "slutty" phase in my late 20s/early 30s, right before I met DH. I don't regret a thing.

[Anonymous]

18...wish I had waited til I met my husband at 24

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:21 with my first long term boyfriend. Dated him for 3 years. Went through a "slutty" phase in my late 20s/early 30s, right before I met DH. I don't regret a thing.

Hot.

[Anonymous]

23 to my DH.

I'd had many boyfriends and my then BF was very surprised to find out that I was pretty innocent considering my reputation.

[Anonymous]

19.
It lasted all of 30 seconds. Me and the girl both laughed. She knew I was a virgin and we actually had a bet to see if I could make it a whole minute. Two months later, however, I was a pro.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:19.
It lasted all of 30 seconds. Me and the girl both laughed. She knew I was a virgin and we actually had a bet to see if I could make it a whole minute. Two months later, however, I was a pro.

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Wow...so you actually got paid for sex? A gigalo, or in porn?

[Anonymous]

I was 16 he had just turned 18 and we have been dating for a year - it was both of our 1st times.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I was 16 and I lost it to my older brothers friend. After helping my brother move, his friend ( J) went to pick up some stuff my brother needed. On the way home he asked me I ever had sex. I told him no because my boyfriend just broke up with me for a slut. He started talking sexual and next thing you know we are stopped and he is eating me out. I proceeded to give him a blowjob but I wasn't good at it back then lol. We ended up having sex in the back of his van. He was 27. I regret it big time and it was so painful.

Why was it so painful ? I thought that was all just an old wives tales to keep daughters virgins.

He was a terrible friend to your brother. If my friend did that to my sister, I'd beat his head in with a shovel. Totally not cool for a 27 male to take advantage of a child.

Of course it was painful. He didnt take advantage either. I wanted to try.

[Anonymous]

I'm 25 and still a virgin. I dated a few guys in high school and one guy in college but never was ready. The last bf I had I was ready to give it to but find out he was a total douche before it ever happened. I've had lots of oral though. With grad school and work to pay for it, I don't have much time for a relationship and I don't want to lose it to a random guy. I feel like a freak sometimes and other times I want to wait until I get engaged or married. I think it will happen when I meet the right guy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm 25 and still a virgin. I dated a few guys in high school and one guy in college but never was ready. The last bf I had I was ready to give it to but find out he was a total douche before it ever happened. I've had lots of oral though. With grad school and work to pay for it, I don't have much time for a relationship and I don't want to lose it to a random guy. I feel like a freak sometimes and other times I want to wait until I get engaged or married. I think it will happen when I meet the right guy.

It is unusual in the US to be a virgin at 25 if you are not religious. But you are far from a freak. There have been plenty of posters here that have stated they were older than 25, and a few that have stated they are still a virgin passed 30.

I was 30. I waited for someone who really loved me. It will indeed happen when you meet the right guy.