Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It really is a mindset and in saying this it is not intended as a value judgement.
My son went to TJ. It was a long trek for him and on top of this the rigorous academic requirements at TJ had him working some long hours especially in his junior year.
He went on to medical school and is currently doing his residency at one of the most prestigious programs in the country and will be done soon.
He says that TJ was the best thing that happened to him. He literally breezed through his undergrad. He said it was a lot easier than TJ from an academic standpoint in terms of the pressure .... and he completed his undergrad in three years!
Given where he is today, ask him whether he has any regrets about the long commute and the academic demands that TJ made on him and he would give an unqualified response that TJ was a huge help to him in getting where he is today. Could he have done it in a different academic environment? More than likely he could have. But that does not take anything away from the role TJ played in getting him to where he is today.
None of the above is meant as a brag ..... after all, I am posting anonymously. It is merely intended as a perspective on how some parents and their children view the downsides (commuting, new friends, academic pressures) of going to TJ.
Thank you for your post. But for every experience like this, there is another for someone who commuted just as long and worked just as hard, but ended up in the bottom half of their TJ class. For that kid, was being in the bottom half (or, gasp, quarter) of their TJ class worth it? Could they have graduated at the top of their base school, had a more well-rounded high school experience, and perhaps gotten into a more prestigious college than their less-than-average TJ rank earned them?
I am not surprised that your son found undergrad less challenging (and perhaps less competitive) than TJ. I don't doubt for a minute that TJ provides the most rigorous academic program in the county. But I think FCPS does a pretty good job of preparing kids for college, and the kid who opts to remain at his base school could just as easily end up at the same place as your son, with perhaps a more difficult transition to undergrad, but with a better non-academic high-school experience.
You are quite right. TJ and other magnet programs will curve the grades. Which means that the top guys can be on the bottom at TJ.
So, it really depends what the end goal is?
If you want to get into Ivy college - you could be better off in a home school
If you want to do well in a Ivy college - go to TJ
This is a dilemma. Being in a program like TJ means that you are jeopardizing your chance to get into an Ivy League college, so why do kids try and get into it?
I can talk about my kid. She wants to get into medicine. Her aim is to get in in-state to a public university for undergrad and get into a prestigious medical school after that. We have seen a lot of kids drop out of pre-med in undergrad because they are not well prepared during HS to take on any course where any sort of rigor is required. She will be not dropping out of science/engineering in undergrad because she has already had her baptism by fire in HS.
Most of these kids who are in TJ are going to be smart about their education dollars. Their aim is to start their work life with no or little student debt. Their parents make too much for them to qualify for need-based aid, but not that much that college expense is a trivial matter.
If you are very wealthy, are legacy, have been able to afford private schools etc., can afford to pay for Harvard - skip TJ
If your child is not decided what field they want to go to or you will borrow heavily to pay for college - skip TJ
TJ is mainly for super smart middle class kids, who have a very long term view of their education. Getting into the top college is not the aim, the aim is to be able to handle the course in any college.