Late 40s woman: age-appropriate men look so old

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP here again: I'd rather be single than date a man to whom I'm not physically attracted. So many of my single friends try to make it work with men they're not attracted to... That's just repulsive.

Stay home if you're scared

NP. She said she doesn't want your ugly behind, not that she's "scared."

[Anonymous]

OP is tired of being too sexy for men. Too bad for the DC area men, guess they will have to go celibate.

[Anonymous]

The feisty comment about STDs hit home.

Sweetie, you cannot treat your body like a Metro car (i.e., have hundreds of passengers ride inside you per year) and not expect to show your wear and tear.

And don't kid yourself. It shows, and everyone you prey on during last call at your favorite watering holes notices.

Did you grow up without a father or how did you not learn that being this mouthy as a man reads promiscuous bottom? There's nothing weirder than a man trying to play the dozens with a woman because his feelings got hurt.
Go find your manhood.

You need help. Lots of it. Calm down, and get yourself under control.

The likely issue is the concussions you have received from your head repeatedly hitting someone's headboard. Or your massive "daddy" issues. Or both.

In any event, honey, do not post again until you can control yourself enough to make sense.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:They look so old because they don't take care of themselves as we do. I don't want to say how much I spend per year between laser treatments, skin care, hair coloring and cuts, pilates, gym, teeth, clothes, supplements, and clean food. I mean, it's kind of nuts. Of course, men my age will look much older than I do. I p

This is hyper delusional. No one is mis judging your age. Women may tell you that you look younger to flatter you and be a good friend. Men will flatter you for engagement and potential conquest. NO ONE IS ACTUALLY MIS-JUDGING YOUR AGE. I'm in my late 50s, have told dozens of female friends over the years how "young" they look but it has never once been true. I have never yet found out someone's true age afterward and been surprised.

Yes, some people are more well maintained than others. That is not the same as looking a different age. If I have a 50-year-old Ferrari in mint condition, I still do not think it is a brand new Ferrari. No one would.

Asian American here. I didn’t look much different at age 40 from 30. People often thought I was in my twenties and people often were shocked when I said I was 40. Then Covid happened and I’m now almost 50. At age 48, I definitely look forties and older than a short few years ago.

I have friends who are almost 50 who look fantastic. They put a lot of effort into their looks, had mommy makeovers, etc. I think it takes a lot of effort to maintain looking good in your fifties. I have never done Botox or laser therapy and salmon dna or other things some of my friends do.

Black women age beautifully too. I wish white people would stop making broad statements as if what applies to them holds true for all of humanity. White skin ages terribly. Darker skin not so much.

White man and I generally agree. I found many white women attractive age 18-48. Very few white women over 50 are still attractive to me. Asian, black, Latina, and Middle Eastern women are usually still attractive into their 60s. Dating in my 50s, I ended up with more non-white women than white women. But most of the white woman who were still attractive had a lot of options.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:They look so old because they don't take care of themselves as we do. I don't want to say how much I spend per year between laser treatments, skin care, hair coloring and cuts, pilates, gym, teeth, clothes, supplements, and clean food. I mean, it's kind of nuts. Of course, men my age will look much older than I do. I p

This is hyper delusional. No one is mis judging your age. Women may tell you that you look younger to flatter you and be a good friend. Men will flatter you for engagement and potential conquest. NO ONE IS ACTUALLY MIS-JUDGING YOUR AGE. I'm in my late 50s, have told dozens of female friends over the years how "young" they look but it has never once been true. I have never yet found out someone's true age afterward and been surprised.

Yes, some people are more well maintained than others. That is not the same as looking a different age. If I have a 50-year-old Ferrari in mint condition, I still do not think it is a brand new Ferrari. No one would.

Asian American here. I didn’t look much different at age 40 from 30. People often thought I was in my twenties and people often were shocked when I said I was 40. Then Covid happened and I’m now almost 50. At age 48, I definitely look forties and older than a short few years ago.

I have friends who are almost 50 who look fantastic. They put a lot of effort into their looks, had mommy makeovers, etc. I think it takes a lot of effort to maintain looking good in your fifties. I have never done Botox or laser therapy and salmon dna or other things some of my friends do.

Black women age beautifully too. I wish white people would stop making broad statements as if what applies to them holds true for all of humanity. White skin ages terribly. Darker skin not so much.

Every single black woman I know over 40 weighs north of 210 pounds. Without exception.

[Anonymous]

I’m very athletic so when I started dating at 46 I joined sports groups like biking and tennis. The men are generally in very good shape so that’s a real plus. Sure, plenty are jerks but I’ve had a very good four years with a few partners. I’m not ready for an LTR until I’m an empty nester but I’m having fun and these fit guys have great stamina.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Americans in general (both men and women) let themselves go.

Hilarious. Americans age so much better than the rest of the world.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:They look so old because they don't take care of themselves as we do. I don't want to say how much I spend per year between laser treatments, skin care, hair coloring and cuts, pilates, gym, teeth, clothes, supplements, and clean food. I mean, it's kind of nuts. Of course, men my age will look much older than I do. I p

This is hyper delusional. No one is mis judging your age. Women may tell you that you look younger to flatter you and be a good friend. Men will flatter you for engagement and potential conquest. NO ONE IS ACTUALLY MIS-JUDGING YOUR AGE. I'm in my late 50s, have told dozens of female friends over the years how "young" they look but it has never once been true. I have never yet found out someone's true age afterward and been surprised.

Yes, some people are more well maintained than others. That is not the same as looking a different age. If I have a 50-year-old Ferrari in mint condition, I still do not think it is a brand new Ferrari. No one would.

Asian American here. I didn’t look much different at age 40 from 30. People often thought I was in my twenties and people often were shocked when I said I was 40. Then Covid happened and I’m now almost 50. At age 48, I definitely look forties and older than a short few years ago.

I have friends who are almost 50 who look fantastic. They put a lot of effort into their looks, had mommy makeovers, etc. I think it takes a lot of effort to maintain looking good in your fifties. I have never done Botox or laser therapy and salmon dna or other things some of my friends do.

Black women age beautifully too. I wish white people would stop making broad statements as if what applies to them holds true for all of humanity. White skin ages terribly. Darker skin not so much.

Every single black woman I know over 40 weighs north of 210 pounds. Without exception.

Wow!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They look so old because they don't take care of themselves as we do. I don't want to say how much I spend per year between laser treatments, skin care, hair coloring and cuts, pilates, gym, teeth, clothes, supplements, and clean food. I mean, it's kind of nuts. Of course, men my age will look much older than I do. I p

This is hyper delusional. No one is mis judging your age. Women may tell you that you look younger to flatter you and be a good friend. Men will flatter you for engagement and potential conquest. NO ONE IS ACTUALLY MIS-JUDGING YOUR AGE. I'm in my late 50s, have told dozens of female friends over the years how "young" they look but it has never once been true. I have never yet found out someone's true age afterward and been surprised.

Yes, some people are more well maintained than others. That is not the same as looking a different age. If I have a 50-year-old Ferrari in mint condition, I still do not think it is a brand new Ferrari. No one would.

Asian American here. I didn’t look much different at age 40 from 30. People often thought I was in my twenties and people often were shocked when I said I was 40. Then Covid happened and I’m now almost 50. At age 48, I definitely look forties and older than a short few years ago.

I have friends who are almost 50 who look fantastic. They put a lot of effort into their looks, had mommy makeovers, etc. I think it takes a lot of effort to maintain looking good in your fifties. I have never done Botox or laser therapy and salmon dna or other things some of my friends do.

Black women age beautifully too. I wish white people would stop making broad statements as if what applies to them holds true for all of humanity. White skin ages terribly. Darker skin not so much.

Every single black woman I know over 40 weighs north of 210 pounds. Without exception.

Wow!

White middle aged divorced guy here. I've hit it off in conversations with a couple of very large black woman and I have been very pleasantly surprised. I mean very pleasantly. Unfortunately, one of them was a very serious Christian and wouldn't let me remove her panties unless I promised to go to church with her. She ended up with a very good looking guy from her church. The other one was just amazing. So my advice is you should keep an open mind.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Americans in general (both men and women) let themselves go.

Hilarious. Americans age so much better than the rest of the world.

Um.. no, they don't. Generally, Asian women (both in the US and Asia) try to hide from the sun; they don't bake in it like most white American women do. Tanning will age you rapidly in your 30s. and beyond.

-Asian American

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They look so old because they don't take care of themselves as we do. I don't want to say how much I spend per year between laser treatments, skin care, hair coloring and cuts, pilates, gym, teeth, clothes, supplements, and clean food. I mean, it's kind of nuts. Of course, men my age will look much older than I do. I p

This is hyper delusional. No one is mis judging your age. Women may tell you that you look younger to flatter you and be a good friend. Men will flatter you for engagement and potential conquest. NO ONE IS ACTUALLY MIS-JUDGING YOUR AGE. I'm in my late 50s, have told dozens of female friends over the years how "young" they look but it has never once been true. I have never yet found out someone's true age afterward and been surprised.

Yes, some people are more well maintained than others. That is not the same as looking a different age. If I have a 50-year-old Ferrari in mint condition, I still do not think it is a brand new Ferrari. No one would.

Asian American here. I didn’t look much different at age 40 from 30. People often thought I was in my twenties and people often were shocked when I said I was 40. Then Covid happened and I’m now almost 50. At age 48, I definitely look forties and older than a short few years ago.

I have friends who are almost 50 who look fantastic. They put a lot of effort into their looks, had mommy makeovers, etc. I think it takes a lot of effort to maintain looking good in your fifties. I have never done Botox or laser therapy and salmon dna or other things some of my friends do.

Black women age beautifully too. I wish white people would stop making broad statements as if what applies to them holds true for all of humanity. White skin ages terribly. Darker skin not so much.

Every single black woman I know over 40 weighs north of 210 pounds. Without exception.

Wow!

White middle aged divorced guy here. I've hit it off in conversations with a couple of very large black woman and I have been very pleasantly surprised. I mean very pleasantly. Unfortunately, one of them was a very serious Christian and wouldn't let me remove her panties unless I promised to go to church with her. She ended up with a very good looking guy from her church. The other one was just amazing. So my advice is you should keep an open mind.

Sir I absolutely believe you.

I’m a black woman and weigh way less than 200 lbs

Was just taken back by the weight comment.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Americans in general (both men and women) let themselves go.

Hilarious. Americans age so much better than the rest of the world.

Um.. no, they don't. Generally, Asian women (both in the US and Asia) try to hide from the sun; they don't bake in it like most white American women do. Tanning will age you rapidly in your 30s. and beyond.

-Asian American

Asian women are second choice though. Men always prefer the white ones first.

[Anonymous]

Does EVERY thread have to turn into smug Asian women coming out of the woodwork bragging about how much hotter they are than white women? You’ve sufficiently demoralized us, okay?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Does EVERY thread have to turn into smug Asian women coming out of the woodwork bragging about how much hotter they are than white women? You’ve sufficiently demoralized us, okay?

Props to the young men who are thinking ahead. After all, at age 22:
White women: Hot for now
Asian women: Hot for life

Think of your future self, young man!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Americans in general (both men and women) let themselves go.

Hilarious. Americans age so much better than the rest of the world.

Um.. no, they don't. Generally, Asian women (both in the US and Asia) try to hide from the sun; they don't bake in it like most white American women do. Tanning will age you rapidly in your 30s. and beyond.

-Asian American

Asian women are second choice though. Men always prefer the white ones first.

Not me. I'm a ehite man who has dated white women and Asian women. Asian women are very sexy and can be a lot of fun.