What first made you suspicious that your spouse was having an affair?

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Anonymous wrote:And many of these women chose to stay with these men.....I never cheated, never financially answer my ex wife, was a full 50% partner throughout our marriage and get she divorced me. My crime was that I was mostly working and was not emotionally supportive enough. Yet when I was around we still had sex, went on dates etc...

Some of the sh***t that these men put their wives through and still get second chances to me just show that it's very hard to know exactly what makes a woman finally leave.

One of the worst thing a man can do in a marriage is being nice and a equal partner and not be assertive.

We all know why you're single and no one wants anything serious from you. If you're rich you can get a bit of action, but you are just being used - may as well pay a prostitute. No one wants you long term.

Lol i m married and bang my wife whenever i want. I can also very easily bang many other women but choose not to because of my morals.

How's life in mom's basement?

Lol, you are unable to accept that some people have it good.

Oh I know some people have it good. You are not one of those people.

How do you know that?

Because people who actually do "have it good" practice the art of showing, not telling.

Show on an anonymous forum? and how so?

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Anonymous wrote:And many of these women chose to stay with these men.....I never cheated, never financially answer my ex wife, was a full 50% partner throughout our marriage and get she divorced me. My crime was that I was mostly working and was not emotionally supportive enough. Yet when I was around we still had sex, went on dates etc...

Some of the sh***t that these men put their wives through and still get second chances to me just show that it's very hard to know exactly what makes a woman finally leave.

One of the worst thing a man can do in a marriage is being nice and a equal partner and not be assertive.

We all know why you're single and no one wants anything serious from you. If you're rich you can get a bit of action, but you are just being used - may as well pay a prostitute. No one wants you long term.

Lol i m married and bang my wife whenever i want. I can also very easily bang many other women but choose not to because of my morals.

How's life in mom's basement?

Lol, you are unable to accept that some people have it good.

Oh I know some people have it good. You are not one of those people.

How do you know that?

Because people who actually do "have it good" practice the art of showing, not telling.

Show on an anonymous forum? and how so?

By not being combative and defensive for starters...

[Anonymous]

I was with AP for a yr before we broke it off and we were never found out. Key is to not change your behavior at home. we only msg or talked during work hrs, met up during business travel only, and never took pictures.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was with AP for a yr before we broke it off and we were never found out. Key is to not change your behavior at home. we only msg or talked during work hrs, met up during business travel only, and never took pictures.

Are you happy in your marriage now?

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Anonymous wrote:I was with AP for a yr before we broke it off and we were never found out. Key is to not change your behavior at home. we only msg or talked during work hrs, met up during business travel only, and never took pictures.

Wow.

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Anonymous wrote:I was with AP for a yr before we broke it off and we were never found out. Key is to not change your behavior at home. we only msg or talked during work hrs, met up during business travel only, and never took pictures.

Your spouse can still tell when something’s wrong. The travel in and of itself gets them halfway there. (But knowing people travel and don’t hook up too). Travel + odd attitudes would get me all the way there on my suspicion. Even if you don’t take pictures lol.

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Anonymous wrote:I was with AP for a yr before we broke it off and we were never found out. Key is to not change your behavior at home. we only msg or talked during work hrs, met up during business travel only, and never took pictures.

Your spouse can still tell when something’s wrong. The travel in and of itself gets them halfway there. (But knowing people travel and don’t hook up too). Travel + odd attitudes would get me all the way there on my suspicion. Even if you don’t take pictures lol.

Travel is expected part of the job and didn’t increase, it stayed the same. Yeah, attitude needs to stay the same, you have to be really good at compartmentalization.

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Anonymous wrote:I was with AP for a yr before we broke it off and we were never found out. Key is to not change your behavior at home. we only msg or talked during work hrs, met up during business travel only, and never took pictures.

The methodical hiding of fact and this of your spouse is really chilling here. You also don’t sound very regretful, I’m guessing because you’re patting yourself on the back for not getting caught.

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Anonymous wrote:I was with AP for a yr before we broke it off and we were never found out. Key is to not change your behavior at home. we only msg or talked during work hrs, met up during business travel only, and never took pictures.

Your spouse can still tell when something’s wrong. The travel in and of itself gets them halfway there. (But knowing people travel and don’t hook up too). Travel + odd attitudes would get me all the way there on my suspicion. Even if you don’t take pictures lol.

I hate to break it to you, but there are a lot more people than you think with pp’s story. Many of them don’t even consider it an affair since it’s only happening on business trips.

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Gross. That 'single friend' was her and she was telling you about banging her AP.

DP. I agree.

PP, I am so sorry to hear your story. Did your DW come clean about her affair(s)? Was she an alcoholic?

She was fast becoming an alcaholic. Honestly, I think she was just really unhappy, felt guilty for what she was doing yet wanted to keep doing it.

She didn’t come clean, I busted her.

How did you bust her?

I went through her purse and found an explicit note in her hand-writing, credit card numbers, a hotel room card-key and a Magnum xl condom.

[Anonymous]

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Gross. That 'single friend' was her and she was telling you about banging her AP.

DP. I agree.

PP, I am so sorry to hear your story. Did your DW come clean about her affair(s)? Was she an alcoholic?

She was fast becoming an alcaholic. Honestly, I think she was just really unhappy, felt guilty for what she was doing yet wanted to keep doing it.

She didn’t come clean, I busted her.

How did you bust her?

I went through her purse and found an explicit note in her hand-writing, credit card numbers, a hotel room card-key and a Magnum xl condom.

What did she say?

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Gross. That 'single friend' was her and she was telling you about banging her AP.

DP. I agree.

PP, I am so sorry to hear your story. Did your DW come clean about her affair(s)? Was she an alcoholic?

She was fast becoming an alcaholic. Honestly, I think she was just really unhappy, felt guilty for what she was doing yet wanted to keep doing it.

She didn’t come clean, I busted her.

How did you bust her?

I went through her purse and found an explicit note in her hand-writing, credit card numbers, a hotel room card-key and a Magnum xl condom.

What did she say?

She just burst into tears. We both knew it was over.

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Anonymous wrote:And many of these women chose to stay with these men.....I never cheated, never financially answer my ex wife, was a full 50% partner throughout our marriage and get she divorced me. My crime was that I was mostly working and was not emotionally supportive enough. Yet when I was around we still had sex, went on dates etc...

Some of the sh***t that these men put their wives through and still get second chances to me just show that it's very hard to know exactly what makes a woman finally leave.

One of the worst thing a man can do in a marriage is being nice and a equal partner and not be assertive.

We all know why you're single and no one wants anything serious from you. If you're rich you can get a bit of action, but you are just being used - may as well pay a prostitute. No one wants you long term.

Lol i m married and bang my wife whenever i want. I can also very easily bang many other women but choose not to because of my morals.

How's life in mom's basement?

Lol, you are unable to accept that some people have it good.

Oh I know some people have it good. You are not one of those people.

How do you know that?

Because people who actually do "have it good" practice the art of showing, not telling.

Show on an anonymous forum? and how so?

By not being combative and defensive for starters...

I was being realistic, Not combative or defensive

[Anonymous]

She flunked an STD test.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Gross. That 'single friend' was her and she was telling you about banging her AP.

DP. I agree.

PP, I am so sorry to hear your story. Did your DW come clean about her affair(s)? Was she an alcoholic?

She was fast becoming an alcaholic. Honestly, I think she was just really unhappy, felt guilty for what she was doing yet wanted to keep doing it.

She didn’t come clean, I busted her.

How did you bust her?

I went through her purse and found an explicit note in her hand-writing, credit card numbers, a hotel room card-key and a Magnum xl condom.

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