What has a lack of sex done to you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My pecker shriveled up to the size of a jumbo shrimp.

#humblebrag

#micropenisalsodeserveslove

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I didn't have sex between 45 and 49. Shortly after my divorce I went through serious health issues that last years. The lack of sex and dating honestly didn't affect me at all. I am healthy now and dating again and I am having consistent sex. It just feels like where I left off.

I am not sure I understand OP's question. Sex is important, but the lack of it isn't going to make you depressed or crazy or insane.

I get extremely depressed if I don’t have regular sex. You stopped because of heath issues, right? I think it’s different if it’s that your body doesn’t want to because of health issues, vs you are in a relationship, very much want sex, keep getting rejected over and over, and you can’t go seek it elsewhere. That’s very depressing.

I could’ve written this. Not having sex with DH affects every part of my life. The fact that his interest seems to have dropped off is devastating. The rejection is soul crushing. It doesn’t seem fair that this is the decision he gets to make unilaterally. But then again, this is just his personality.

However, in other areas, I can get what I need other ways. Like if I need emotional connection, I can get it from my friends(other women, not talking about EA). I feel so desperate and trapped because I can’t get sex anywhere else. Plus, I actually want my husband to want and desire me. At times, it makes me feel pathetic that he doesn’t, but he tricked me. Why did he marry me? It all just doesn’t seem fair. I’m not a cheater, but sometimes I kind of wish I didn’t feel this way.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I haven't had sex in 13 years. I pleasure myself when I'm in the mood and I'm fine with that, just like I was for years before I ever had sex - which, by the way, I liked very much. I just didn't like dealing with all the other baggage that came attached to a penis.

Overall I'm very grateful for having had the freedom to experience perimenopause and menopause without someone nagging me and guilting me and even possibly being mentally abuse over the issue of sexual demands. I spent time on menopause support groups online and it made me sad to see so many posts from so many wives and girlfriends whose male partners tormented them over the issue of painful sex during this time of life. So many men are so selfish - starting with a failure to give a hoot about pleasuring their female partners in the first place, and carrying over into their disgusting attitudes when women experience the change of life and reduced sex drive + painful sex issues.

Not all men, sure, but . . . FAR too many!

That is ridiculous. A woman experiencing perimenopause and menopause aren't relegated to painful sex. They still have a mouth and should use it to satisfy their husbands. Because the truth is, most men would do the same for their wive's if the circumstances were reversed. Painful sex issues = use your mouth for a while instead.

[Anonymous]

Nothing, other than I feel more free and less stressed.

[Anonymous]

By the way, perimenopause and menopause does not cause painful sex. In fact, there is often in increase in libido during these stages.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I haven't had sex in 13 years. I pleasure myself when I'm in the mood and I'm fine with that, just like I was for years before I ever had sex - which, by the way, I liked very much. I just didn't like dealing with all the other baggage that came attached to a penis.

Overall I'm very grateful for having had the freedom to experience perimenopause and menopause without someone nagging me and guilting me and even possibly being mentally abuse over the issue of sexual demands. I spent time on menopause support groups online and it made me sad to see so many posts from so many wives and girlfriends whose male partners tormented them over the issue of painful sex during this time of life. So many men are so selfish - starting with a failure to give a hoot about pleasuring their female partners in the first place, and carrying over into their disgusting attitudes when women experience the change of life and reduced sex drive + painful sex issues.

Not all men, sure, but . . . FAR too many!

That is ridiculous. A woman experiencing perimenopause and menopause aren't relegated to painful sex. They still have a mouth and should use it to satisfy their husbands. Because the truth is, most men would do the same for their wive's if the circumstances were reversed. Painful sex issues = use your mouth for a while instead.

What a joke.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I haven't had sex in 13 years. I pleasure myself when I'm in the mood and I'm fine with that, just like I was for years before I ever had sex - which, by the way, I liked very much. I just didn't like dealing with all the other baggage that came attached to a penis.

Overall I'm very grateful for having had the freedom to experience perimenopause and menopause without someone nagging me and guilting me and even possibly being mentally abuse over the issue of sexual demands. I spent time on menopause support groups online and it made me sad to see so many posts from so many wives and girlfriends whose male partners tormented them over the issue of painful sex during this time of life. So many men are so selfish - starting with a failure to give a hoot about pleasuring their female partners in the first place, and carrying over into their disgusting attitudes when women experience the change of life and reduced sex drive + painful sex issues.

Not all men, sure, but . . . FAR too many!

That is ridiculous. A woman experiencing perimenopause and menopause aren't relegated to painful sex. They still have a mouth and should use it to satisfy their husbands. Because the truth is, most men would do the same for their wive's if the circumstances were reversed. Painful sex issues = use your mouth for a while instead.

What a joke.

Says the wife of a husband that hates his life.

[Anonymous]

atrophied my vagina

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I haven't had sex in 13 years. I pleasure myself when I'm in the mood and I'm fine with that, just like I was for years before I ever had sex - which, by the way, I liked very much. I just didn't like dealing with all the other baggage that came attached to a penis.

Overall I'm very grateful for having had the freedom to experience perimenopause and menopause without someone nagging me and guilting me and even possibly being mentally abuse over the issue of sexual demands. I spent time on menopause support groups online and it made me sad to see so many posts from so many wives and girlfriends whose male partners tormented them over the issue of painful sex during this time of life. So many men are so selfish - starting with a failure to give a hoot about pleasuring their female partners in the first place, and carrying over into their disgusting attitudes when women experience the change of life and reduced sex drive + painful sex issues.

Not all men, sure, but . . . FAR too many!

That is ridiculous. A woman experiencing perimenopause and menopause aren't relegated to painful sex. They still have a mouth and should use it to satisfy their husbands. Because the truth is, most men would do the same for their wive's if the circumstances were reversed. Painful sex issues = use your mouth for a while instead.

What a joke.

Exactly! The only truly happy men I know all have horny wives.

Says the wife of a husband that hates his life.

[Anonymous]

Nothing pisses people off more than the truth. As proof, I can guarantee you that some bitter little woman is going to have this post deleted....

That is ridiculous. A woman experiencing perimenopause and menopause aren't relegated to painful sex. They still have a mouth and should use it to satisfy their husbands. Because the truth is, most men would do the same for their wive's if the circumstances were reversed. Painful sex issues = use your mouth for a while instead.

[Anonymous]

I think it contributed to my weight gain.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Nothing pisses people off more than the truth. As proof, I can guarantee you that some bitter little woman is going to have this post deleted....

That is ridiculous. A woman experiencing perimenopause and menopause aren't relegated to painful sex. They still have a mouth and should use it to satisfy their husbands. Because the truth is, most men would do the same for their wive's if the circumstances were reversed. Painful sex issues = use your mouth for a while instead.

Don’t need to be “bitter” or “little” or even a woman to be disgusted with the misogynistic tone inherent in your post here…

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Nothing pisses people off more than the truth. As proof, I can guarantee you that some bitter little woman is going to have this post deleted....

That is ridiculous. A woman experiencing perimenopause and menopause aren't relegated to painful sex. They still have a mouth and should use it to satisfy their husbands. Because the truth is, most men would do the same for their wive's if the circumstances were reversed. Painful sex issues = use your mouth for a while instead.

Don’t need to be “bitter” or “little” or even a woman to be disgusted with the misogynistic tone inherent in your post here…

It's not misogynistic, it's biology. People have physical needs. It's way more abusive and painful to ask someone to do without sex for loooong periods of time, than it is to simply use your mouth for a couple minutes. The fact that you would rather he do without for months, than to take 5 minutes of your time to be able to actually supply your significant other with the relieve they need. God, feminism really is a disease.

[Anonymous]

I'd rather be divorced than expected to service a dude like PP. Single life is a dream compared to having a "partner" like that

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'd rather be divorced than expected to service a dude like PP. Single life is a dream compared to having a "partner" like that

Having a partner is all about trying to meet each other's needs. Sounds like you won't have to worry about that...I already feel sorry for you in the future, when you're in your 50's with no children, no husband, no family...alone. Hey, but that's ok, because you never had to do something for someone.