Why do men only date women they’re attracted to?

Anonymous
Being a short man is waaaaay better than being a fat woman. Fat women are the lowest you can get.
Anonymous
I have a word for men I like but am not attracted to. That word is friend.
Anonymous
Imagine me marrying a man and fighting over division of labor, money and the day to day issues - AND he's a gargoyle????!!

I think not. Many women like me only date and marry who they are attracted to...
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Why would anyone date ANYONE they are not attracted to? This does not compute.

Regardless of appearance/height/attractive attributes/common values/whatever- if 'attraction' itself-for whatever reason- is not there, wth would anyone date someone? I'm not superficial but that makes no sense.


Right! I'm like where they doing that at?

Makes no sense talk about shooting yourself in the foot.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:All you women saying you would never go out with someone you weren’t attracted to are full of it. If some 5’7” 200-pound schlub asked you out – and you knew he had $50 million – you would be batting your eyelashes and twirling your hair like you were in middle school again.


5 foot 8 woman here.

A 5 foot 7 man would have to be perfect: Handsome, kind. Sweet, lean, neat etc.

A 6'3 man could be missing an arm and a leg, and have one eye. and I would pick him first.


Quite happy to be a 6’3” man with both arms and legs and two good eyes. The dating pool is terrific. Seriously.


And I'm the 5'7" guy. It's rough out there for me. I guess I need to get rich.


Be less whiny. Whining isn't attractive at any height
Anonymous
I have a gorgeous wife who is from Kazakhstan.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I have a gorgeous wife who is from Kazakhstan.


Very nice! Is she strong on the plow?
Anonymous
I feel like men have much lower standards for what they consider attractive.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Being a short man is waaaaay better than being a fat woman. Fat women are the lowest you can get.

Depends on how short. This is probably true at 5’7” but not at 5’3”.
Anonymous
This is a crazy question. Who dates people they aren’t attracted to?!?

Op you need to work on yourself if you think so poorly of yourself that you thinking no one thinks you’re attractive. With the right personality or makeup or clothes anyone can be attractive
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I feel like men have much lower standards for what they consider attractive.


So true.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:All you women saying you would never go out with someone you weren’t attracted to are full of it. If some 5’7” 200-pound schlub asked you out – and you knew he had $50 million – you would be batting your eyelashes and twirling your hair like you were in middle school again.


5 foot 8 woman here.

A 5 foot 7 man would have to be perfect: Handsome, kind. Sweet, lean, neat etc.

A 6'3 man could be missing an arm and a leg, and have one eye. and I would pick him first.


Quite happy to be a 6’3” man with both arms and legs and two good eyes. The dating pool is terrific. Seriously.


And I'm the 5'7" guy. It's rough out there for me. I guess I need to get rich.


I’m 5’1”. I date all heights and it’s not a because they are rich.

(I do prefer under 5’10” for physical ease during sex.)

But, really, height is not a factor. There are absolutely short women - and not so short women - who will date men who aren’t tall.

Your lack of dates is not because you are 5’7”.
Anonymous
I feel like men have much lower standards for what they consider attractive.


Pretty enough, fun enough, smart enough. Why would I want more?
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:I’m a tall 5’8 woman and date men who are 5’9 and taller. Anything that’s taller than me works. Just not attracted to anyone shorter than myself. But I don’t see why a 5’5 woman wouldn’t want to date 5’7 man. Really ?


Because then her sons will be shorter than 5'9" and women like you wouldn't give him a short. Lol


Lol. I’m 5’2” and small, husband is a little over 6’3”. Kids are all tall and thin.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:I have a gorgeous wife who is from Kazakhstan.


Very nice! Is she strong on the plow?


After three years when she was 15, she become weak.
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