Yes it happened and it had nothing to do with financial aid. |
Like days before or weeks before? |
We caught it morning of decision day--not sure when it showed up as i didn't think to look sooner. Was only looking to check something for the other kid who we already had set up in TADS. |
Wouldn't you have to of already accepted for them to bill you? |
I'm assuming this was an enrollment agreement where you put in a deposit |
Lord, we just got such a lukewarm post-observation note card that I’m pretty sure my kid didn’t get in. Worse, he has a sibling preference. I guess we are headed for a private/public split next year! |
Only way to really know is if admission’s or someone familiar with what is going on tells you that you are going to be admitted.
Don’t try to look for clues. There were schools I just knew my kids got into based on the treatment by admissions and they were waitlisted. |
No one in Admissions is going to tell you. For them it’s all risk and no reward. There are significant reasons NOT to tell anyone. For one thing the process isn’t over until it’s over. There are unexpected twists and turns. And just imagine someone who is told their DC has been accepted and they can’t restrain themselves from sharing the good news with someone else waiting patiently. |
what about athletes? |
One point I don't think has been covered is that, if you are applying out from private and heading toward zero acceptances, you will get advance notice from your sending school. |
K8 or k12? How would they know? |
How would they know? When would they tell you? |
I guess this is possible, but is almost certainly rare. There are schools that have very strong, symbiotic relationships with certain high school. So there are conversations that occur. And as part of the process the committee early on sorts applications into the three piles described above. One of these piles is for applications that just aren’t going to be considered beyond that. The sending school might inquire about the status of these applications and the high school might give the sending school an informal “heads up”. |
This is interesting. Would this type of heads up occur in the last week or so before acceptances are out? So like next week? So like if we're at a k-8 and don't hear anything no news is good news? |
The last few days are when acceptances are finalized as the decisions on which of the “maybes” are made. The “definitely nots” are known earlier in the process. The “sending” school should know when it’s possible an applicant will be shut out. They should have communicated this earlier on and suggested alternatives (safety schools). |