What does it matter to any of us the choices another individual makes about themself? Is it just uncomfortable to us, so they should adapt and be uncomfortable? Thus we just pick the "woke" issues we agree with and ridicule the issues? |
Look at my original post. It was just to spark discussion. As for pulling my kids out, is more that is this worth the tuition? Dunno where you live but I live in a liberal bubble with a pretty diverse population. I doubt my daughter would experience racism in public school. She will probably feel left out though. I specifically chose the private school we are sending her to because it is very international. My work pays part of the tuition but am wondering if its worth what I pay out of pocket. Neither solution is perfect and I'm not so desperate to pull my children out tomorrow. Just sharing a few of my thoughts that's all. |
Thanks fully there is a huge center. That doesn’t get much airtime in leftist DC schools or on leftist mass media. |
OP here. Yep! Exactly! |
I am going to copy-paste because I went back to find it: "But the recent changes middle school and high school curriculums seem to indicate that they are going in that direction. I mean I don't have the problem with the specific changes they made but the terminology they are using makes me think they have been taken over by DEI types. When I say terminology I am thinking of their use of words like "centering," "your truth," "generational trauma," "microaggressions." "BIPOC"... you get my drift." So nothing specific except terminology. Which OP thinks may portend certain other unspecified future changes with which she disagrees. |
Here is an example. My children’s private school DEI lead has set up to inclusivity groups. One related to sexual orientation and one to people of color. Which apparently only included black people. The lead staff member is black and said someone who looked like another staff member with white skin and brown eyes wouldn’t be able to join. In the name of inclusivity. My kids were really upset and said it doesn’t make sense. They were in 6th grade. The school also included discussion of gender and sexuality in the context of identity for elementary schools. And our school is moderate. |
OP here. Yes I agree. But don't you get the sense that this center is too scared to say what they think? |
OP here. If you reread a lot of what I said you will see that I admit that I don't have specific concerns since my kids are in elementary school. I am just talking about the general direction of where the culture is heading. |
What is the APA saying about gender identities? Mental illness or a legit human condidtion? |
OP here. Interesting. Thanks PP and good to know. My kids are so young that we haven't been exposed to any of this yet (so my concerns are just general). |
The lack of standards and excellence is purely left wing influence. It’s why the country is not the admirable shining city on a hill it used to be. It’s slovenly and mentally lost. |
In the DC bubble? Yes In the real world? Nope. Parents have been organizing against this craziness, even if the woke mob attacks them. |
Especially when the nonsense is forced onto others as the only truth. It's Orwellian, and how every totalitarian regime started, left or right. |
I honestly think the people who are initiating this stuff are true believers which is why I think the religion comparison is appropriate. But if you are at a moderate school with enough balance that people can speak freely, speak out. Our DEI person absolutely intended the talk about gender fluid as part of the DEI for elementary school kids until the parents got wind and freaked out. Parents felt that at the age when many kids haven’t even had basic sex ed and when many kids are just hitting puberty, adding this in was too much. The kids need to understand why their bodies are changing and what to expect and what their organs can do. That is what parents want for 5th graders. We didn’t want them literally confused but another layer of information talking about sexuality. It just isn’t necessary at such a young age. With the BIPOC club it was just super interesting to hear my kids say that how is it good for our society to start excluding people again based on race. The kids have learned about MLK and his views and this BIPOC club was directly contrary to that teaching. You can dress it up as a safe space etc but at bottom it is excluding people based on race. And that is racist. I am sure white southerners wanted blacks at the back of the bus so the white at the front could feel safe. Same same. |
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