40 year old mom here and met a 56 year old

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Best relationship I’ve ever had was a 16 year age difference- it truly didn’t matter because everything else was a fit. Split because of too much to get into here but just starting talking again and he’s 60 now.

I don’t know if it will go anywhere but I’d rather have 10-15 years with someone on in love with than someone my age just because we’ll age the same.

How about someone you live your own age? You say it like it’s only capable with someone over a decade older than you. And if that was your best relationship, then you’re pitiful. That does not make it appropriate.

You are a pathetic human.

[Anonymous]

Don't do it, OP. Men with younger wives live longer than average. Women with much older husbands have lower life expectancies.

Would you want to shave off years of your life to give to this man, OP? You have nothing to gain from this arrangement.

Source: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/20608099/