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So gender neutral then. 👍 |
I think most of us understand that PP is rejecting the constant need to label and then announce everything, not that she’s non binary or gender neutral (whatever those terms may mean). |
Interesting. You write that "Gender identity is the personal sense of one's own gender". Then, you also write, "All of my lived experiences and attitudes about I see myself as a woman are rooted in my sex as a biological female.". In other words, your "personal sense" of gender has been influenced by your "lived experiences" as a biological woman. This raises to obvious questions: 1) why do you assume that everyone else's "personal sense" of their gender is similar to yours? and, 2) aren't you saying that you do in fact have a gender identity, though it is one influenced by your lived experience (which is probably true of everyone for what it is worth)? A further contradiction is your insistence that your view of yourself is rooted in your biological sex as a woman while admitting to embracing "some male norms". In other words, there are gender norms that have been linked to biological males that you have adopted while not being a biological male. That suggests that gender norms are mutable, not strictly tied to biological sex, and that individual's have some amount of freedom as to which to adhere. I'm pretty sure that puts you in pretty strong agreement with trans rights activists. |
I googled gender identity to get that definition. Feel free to propose another. But based on how you and everyone else describes gender identity, no, I don't have one. I do have a self esteem and self perception and self awareness which is based on my biological sex. If people want to hold unscientific beliefs that I don't agree with like gender identity or Jesus's salvation, they have a right to do so. But they don't have a right to make be believe in it. "That suggests that gender norms are mutable, not strictly tied to biological sex, and that individual's have some amount of freedom as to which to adhere. I'm pretty sure that puts you in pretty strong agreement with trans rights activists." I have no problem acknowledging points of common ground with those I disagree. But let's be clear. Gender norms are mutable and individuals should have complete freedom to adhere or not. However, they not able to severed from biological sex. Gender norms cannot be severed from biological sex, it is literally what defines them. If they want to make the case that gender should be abolished, I agree with that as well. |
So what do you think should be done about the trans question? What about the people that have transitioned or want to transition? What can be done in blue states? |
These two sentences contradict each other: "Gender norms are mutable and individuals should have complete freedom to adhere or not. However, they not able to severed from biological sex." Indeed, you yourself claim to have adopted gender norms that are tied to biological males. That is consistent with the first sentence, but not the second. |
No they're not. Here is an example to spell it out for you. Gender Norm: Men (males) work and earn money. Women (females) stay home and care for the house. This gender norm is NOT "severed" from biological sex. It exists only because of biological sex and evolutionary biology. There is no other reason. "Severing" gender norms from sex means they would cease to exist. |
I agree with you on this. Personally I think we should do away with gender completely. Have male and female categories, and if you are female and want to dress like a guy have at it. Male in dresses - wonderful. You don’t need a special name. Just be yourself. |
Sounds like a plan. Now to just get all the rest of the population to agree to it. |
I bet we could. It would be much easier for them to accept that than a male saying they feel like a woman, but can’t tell you why. I’d bet money on it. |
This sounds an awful lot like a version of the "No true Scotsman" fallacy. In your view, norms are tied to biological sex. But, they can be adopted by someone not of that biological sex. However, in that case they cease to be norms. What happened to the linkage to biological sex? What is the difference between you choosing to adopt some male gender norms and another individual who was assigned female at birth also adopting male gender norms, but more comprehensively? The difference is only relative, isn''t it? |
This reminds me of when my son was little and he got upset that I called him literate after he learned to read. He thought I was name calling, but he just didn't like the way the word sounded. Cisgender isn't a bad name, nor is saying you have a gender identity. It's like saying you're bipedal. |
^I’m in this camp, too. Just because you like Barbie’s, the color pink, and dresses doesn’t make you a woman. You are what you are biologically (male or female), and you simply like these things…..or you don’t like those things. |
1) I never said that they cease to be norms by being adopted by someone from a different sex. Clearly, we still have the sex stereotype that women should stay home even though billions of women have worked out of the home. 2) In your example, we are both biological females. Another biological female who wears high heels, long hair, and heavy makeup is no more or less female than me, who has buzzed hair and no makeup. Nor am I any more or less male than her because of my buzz cut and lack of makeup. |
I’m another one who doesn’t like cis, and I wish to not be called that. |