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[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sooooooo.....

Bethesda and McLean 08s played a friendly on Friday despite this thread.

Obviously there it has been pointed out that the talented Bethesda players left for McLean after last season...

Well, the results say differently. Bethesda controlled and out possessed McLean most of the game. Bethesda controlled the field for at least 75% of the game.

Final was:
Bethesda 4
McLean 2

In other words, despite Bethesda losing it's "best" players to McLean, it seems McLean has lost it's "best" players to other clubs in Virginia. One thing is for sure, nobody is leaving either club to go to Metro United.

Carry On!

Winning trumps each and all issues of verbal child abuses. Carry on. LOL

Child Abuse? LOL. You know absolutely nothing. I think we are up to it seems 6 different parents at least who came on here to defend his style and yet you just keep ignoring? I can name at least 10 other coaches in the area that coach the same way as DG. One of which is even a director at a well known club in the DMV. A few others also coach in the area at ECNL and GA clubs. WE ALL KNOW SOME!!! Only difference is I don't have the audacity to call them out by name on a public soccer forum like this loser parent. Correct, I'm like the normal parent who if MY KID does not like a coach, we simply move on. It's not that hard. We don't come back cry like a baby about how some coach treated our DD. That is what losers do. Cry and make excuses.

Here is the bottom line. We get it. He's not the style you like for your child/children. YOUR OPINION, and that's exactly what it is, make no mistake, is that he is verbally abusive. Your opinion does not entitle you to bash a coach anonymously online on a very well known local soccer forum. Somebody brought up Yelp earlier saying it's no different. Actually Yelp is not anonymous. If you think it is like Yelp, please feel free to post your picture, first name and last initial. Obviously this tells me you certainly have an axe to grind. I don't care if your kid was cut, benched, or benched because you complained. Sorry you have to drive to McLean, Metro or TSJ. It also tells me you are small and petty and likely every other user on this site sees you in the same light as I do. Please stop making a fool of yourself and get down from what you think is your high horse. It's getting really old at this point.

Lets be very clear, the parents did not defend DG they excused him. Not one parent denied the accusations, they only said that his antics do not matter to them. That is hardly a defense.

And for the record, nobody has said that he does not achieve great results in the win loss column, but more about how he achieves success.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sooooooo.....

Bethesda and McLean 08s played a friendly on Friday despite this thread.

Obviously there it has been pointed out that the talented Bethesda players left for McLean after last season...

Well, the results say differently. Bethesda controlled and out possessed McLean most of the game. Bethesda controlled the field for at least 75% of the game.

Final was:
Bethesda 4
McLean 2

In other words, despite Bethesda losing it's "best" players to McLean, it seems McLean has lost it's "best" players to other clubs in Virginia. One thing is for sure, nobody is leaving either club to go to Metro United.

Carry On!

Winning trumps each and all issues of verbal child abuses. Carry on. LOL

Child Abuse? LOL. You know absolutely nothing. I think we are up to it seems 6 different parents at least who came on here to defend his style and yet you just keep ignoring? I can name at least 10 other coaches in the area that coach the same way as DG. One of which is even a director at a well known club in the DMV. A few others also coach in the area at ECNL and GA clubs. WE ALL KNOW SOME!!! Only difference is I don't have the audacity to call them out by name on a public soccer forum like this loser parent. Correct, I'm like the normal parent who if MY KID does not like a coach, we simply move on. It's not that hard. We don't come back cry like a baby about how some coach treated our DD. That is what losers do. Cry and make excuses.

Here is the bottom line. We get it. He's not the style you like for your child/children. YOUR OPINION, and that's exactly what it is, make no mistake, is that he is verbally abusive. Your opinion does not entitle you to bash a coach anonymously online on a very well known local soccer forum. Somebody brought up Yelp earlier saying it's no different. Actually Yelp is not anonymous. If you think it is like Yelp, please feel free to post your picture, first name and last initial. Obviously this tells me you certainly have an axe to grind. I don't care if your kid was cut, benched, or benched because you complained. Sorry you have to drive to McLean, Metro or TSJ. It also tells me you are small and petty and likely every other user on this site sees you in the same light as I do. Please stop making a fool of yourself and get down from what you think is your high horse. It's getting really old at this point.

Lets be very clear, the parents did not defend DG they excused him. Not one parent denied the accusations, they only said that his antics do not matter to them. That is hardly a defense.

And for the record, nobody has said that he does not achieve great results in the win loss column, but more about how he achieves success.

What's there to defend? Again, there are many coaches that coach in the same manner. Not sure how many time I will have to say this?!?!?!?!? If you don't like it move on. It's not rocket science. There is no "child abuse". Obviously one poster here has a bone to pick and has decided to pick it in a cowardly fashion. It's disgusting. It's immature. I can only imagine the type of person that is doing this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sooooooo.....

Bethesda and McLean 08s played a friendly on Friday despite this thread.

Obviously there it has been pointed out that the talented Bethesda players left for McLean after last season...

Well, the results say differently. Bethesda controlled and out possessed McLean most of the game. Bethesda controlled the field for at least 75% of the game.

Final was:
Bethesda 4
McLean 2

In other words, despite Bethesda losing it's "best" players to McLean, it seems McLean has lost it's "best" players to other clubs in Virginia. One thing is for sure, nobody is leaving either club to go to Metro United.

Carry On!

Winning trumps each and all issues of verbal child abuses. Carry on. LOL

Child Abuse? LOL. You know absolutely nothing. I think we are up to it seems 6 different parents at least who came on here to defend his style and yet you just keep ignoring? I can name at least 10 other coaches in the area that coach the same way as DG. One of which is even a director at a well known club in the DMV. A few others also coach in the area at ECNL and GA clubs. WE ALL KNOW SOME!!! Only difference is I don't have the audacity to call them out by name on a public soccer forum like this loser parent. Correct, I'm like the normal parent who if MY KID does not like a coach, we simply move on. It's not that hard. We don't come back cry like a baby about how some coach treated our DD. That is what losers do. Cry and make excuses.

Here is the bottom line. We get it. He's not the style you like for your child/children. YOUR OPINION, and that's exactly what it is, make no mistake, is that he is verbally abusive. Your opinion does not entitle you to bash a coach anonymously online on a very well known local soccer forum. Somebody brought up Yelp earlier saying it's no different. Actually Yelp is not anonymous. If you think it is like Yelp, please feel free to post your picture, first name and last initial. Obviously this tells me you certainly have an axe to grind. I don't care if your kid was cut, benched, or benched because you complained. Sorry you have to drive to McLean, Metro or TSJ. It also tells me you are small and petty and likely every other user on this site sees you in the same light as I do. Please stop making a fool of yourself and get down from what you think is your high horse. It's getting really old at this point.

Lets be very clear, the parents did not defend DG they excused him. Not one parent denied the accusations, they only said that his antics do not matter to them. That is hardly a defense.

And for the record, nobody has said that he does not achieve great results in the win loss column, but more about how he achieves success.

What's there to defend? Again, there are many coaches that coach in the same manner. Not sure how many time I will have to say this?!?!?!?!? If you don't like it move on. It's not rocket science. There is no "child abuse". Obviously one poster here has a bone to pick and has decided to pick it in a cowardly fashion. It's disgusting. It's immature. I can only imagine the type of person that is doing this.

Those other coaches are also wrong but DG is among the worst I have ever witnessed. But again, you are excusing by using whataboutism and that is not actually a defense. Nobody has denied that he does this even his staunches "defenders".

A grown man yells at 12 year old girls for a living but I'm a coward? C'mon man.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sooooooo.....

Bethesda and McLean 08s played a friendly on Friday despite this thread.

Obviously there it has been pointed out that the talented Bethesda players left for McLean after last season...

Well, the results say differently. Bethesda controlled and out possessed McLean most of the game. Bethesda controlled the field for at least 75% of the game.

Final was:
Bethesda 4
McLean 2

In other words, despite Bethesda losing it's "best" players to McLean, it seems McLean has lost it's "best" players to other clubs in Virginia. One thing is for sure, nobody is leaving either club to go to Metro United.

Carry On!

Winning trumps each and all issues of verbal child abuses. Carry on. LOL

Child Abuse? LOL. You know absolutely nothing. I think we are up to it seems 6 different parents at least who came on here to defend his style and yet you just keep ignoring? I can name at least 10 other coaches in the area that coach the same way as DG. One of which is even a director at a well known club in the DMV. A few others also coach in the area at ECNL and GA clubs. WE ALL KNOW SOME!!! Only difference is I don't have the audacity to call them out by name on a public soccer forum like this loser parent. Correct, I'm like the normal parent who if MY KID does not like a coach, we simply move on. It's not that hard. We don't come back cry like a baby about how some coach treated our DD. That is what losers do. Cry and make excuses.

Here is the bottom line. We get it. He's not the style you like for your child/children. YOUR OPINION, and that's exactly what it is, make no mistake, is that he is verbally abusive. Your opinion does not entitle you to bash a coach anonymously online on a very well known local soccer forum. Somebody brought up Yelp earlier saying it's no different. Actually Yelp is not anonymous. If you think it is like Yelp, please feel free to post your picture, first name and last initial. Obviously this tells me you certainly have an axe to grind. I don't care if your kid was cut, benched, or benched because you complained. Sorry you have to drive to McLean, Metro or TSJ. It also tells me you are small and petty and likely every other user on this site sees you in the same light as I do. Please stop making a fool of yourself and get down from what you think is your high horse. It's getting really old at this point.

Lets be very clear, the parents did not defend DG they excused him. Not one parent denied the accusations, they only said that his antics do not matter to them. That is hardly a defense.

And for the record, nobody has said that he does not achieve great results in the win loss column, but more about how he achieves success.

What's there to defend? Again, there are many coaches that coach in the same manner. Not sure how many time I will have to say this?!?!?!?!? If you don't like it move on. It's not rocket science. There is no "child abuse". Obviously one poster here has a bone to pick and has decided to pick it in a cowardly fashion. It's disgusting. It's immature. I can only imagine the type of person that is doing this.

Those other coaches are also wrong but DG is among the worst I have ever witnessed. But again, you are excusing by using whataboutism and that is not actually a defense. Nobody has denied that he does this even his staunches "defenders".

A grown man yells at 12 year old girls for a living but I'm a coward? C'mon man.

LOL, I hope this parent never tries out at FCV if he thinks DG is hard. BP is on another level of abuse!!! C'mon out to Loudoun or McLean. They will treat you right.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sooooooo.....

Bethesda and McLean 08s played a friendly on Friday despite this thread.

Obviously there it has been pointed out that the talented Bethesda players left for McLean after last season...

Well, the results say differently. Bethesda controlled and out possessed McLean most of the game. Bethesda controlled the field for at least 75% of the game.

Final was:
Bethesda 4
McLean 2

In other words, despite Bethesda losing it's "best" players to McLean, it seems McLean has lost it's "best" players to other clubs in Virginia. One thing is for sure, nobody is leaving either club to go to Metro United.

Carry On!

Winning trumps each and all issues of verbal child abuses. Carry on. LOL

Child Abuse? LOL. You know absolutely nothing. I think we are up to it seems 6 different parents at least who came on here to defend his style and yet you just keep ignoring? I can name at least 10 other coaches in the area that coach the same way as DG. One of which is even a director at a well known club in the DMV. A few others also coach in the area at ECNL and GA clubs. WE ALL KNOW SOME!!! Only difference is I don't have the audacity to call them out by name on a public soccer forum like this loser parent. Correct, I'm like the normal parent who if MY KID does not like a coach, we simply move on. It's not that hard. We don't come back cry like a baby about how some coach treated our DD. That is what losers do. Cry and make excuses.

Here is the bottom line. We get it. He's not the style you like for your child/children. YOUR OPINION, and that's exactly what it is, make no mistake, is that he is verbally abusive. Your opinion does not entitle you to bash a coach anonymously online on a very well known local soccer forum. Somebody brought up Yelp earlier saying it's no different. Actually Yelp is not anonymous. If you think it is like Yelp, please feel free to post your picture, first name and last initial. Obviously this tells me you certainly have an axe to grind. I don't care if your kid was cut, benched, or benched because you complained. Sorry you have to drive to McLean, Metro or TSJ. It also tells me you are small and petty and likely every other user on this site sees you in the same light as I do. Please stop making a fool of yourself and get down from what you think is your high horse. It's getting really old at this point.

Lets be very clear, the parents did not defend DG they excused him. Not one parent denied the accusations, they only said that his antics do not matter to them. That is hardly a defense.

And for the record, nobody has said that he does not achieve great results in the win loss column, but more about how he achieves success.

What's there to defend? Again, there are many coaches that coach in the same manner. Not sure how many time I will have to say this?!?!?!?!? If you don't like it move on. It's not rocket science. There is no "child abuse". Obviously one poster here has a bone to pick and has decided to pick it in a cowardly fashion. It's disgusting. It's immature. I can only imagine the type of person that is doing this.

Those other coaches are also wrong but DG is among the worst I have ever witnessed. But again, you are excusing by using whataboutism and that is not actually a defense. Nobody has denied that he does this even his staunches "defenders".

A grown man yells at 12 year old girls for a living but I'm a coward? C'mon man.

LOL, I hope this parent never tries out at FCV if he thinks DG is hard. BP is on another level of abuse!!! C'mon out to Loudoun or McLean. They will treat you right.

BP has been called out regularly on these boards for his behavior as well but don't tell Bethesda parent that it would contradict their victim narrative.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

LOL, I hope this parent never tries out at FCV if he thinks DG is hard. BP is on another level of abuse!!! C'mon out to Loudoun or McLean. They will treat you right.

BP has been called out regularly on these boards for his behavior as well but don't tell Bethesda parent that it would contradict their victim narrative.

Well BP has extremely successful players comes through his system. Guess that "child abuse" paid off! So we definitely know you are a McLean parent(s) now. At least your 07 team is good...we will continue to enjoy watching both Bethesda and McLean players coming to our workouts. We'll also continue to enjoy beating up on Bethesda, McLean, and Loudoun. Perhaps we will get Loudoun at Jeff Cup and put an end to that discussion too.

But you keep fighting the good fight at McLean. Keep worrying about "abusive" coaches and see how far that gets your DD. If your lucky, maybe you will find a soft college coach at the bottom of some D1 division somewhere. Reality is, some of the most "abusive" coaches are found in NCAA women's soccer which is why man don't last after one year.

Really, best of luck to you though.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

LOL, I hope this parent never tries out at FCV if he thinks DG is hard. BP is on another level of abuse!!! C'mon out to Loudoun or McLean. They will treat you right.

BP has been called out regularly on these boards for his behavior as well but don't tell Bethesda parent that it would contradict their victim narrative.

Well BP has extremely successful players comes through his system. Guess that "child abuse" paid off! So we definitely know you are a McLean parent(s) now. At least your 07 team is good...we will continue to enjoy watching both Bethesda and McLean players coming to our workouts. We'll also continue to enjoy beating up on Bethesda, McLean, and Loudoun. Perhaps we will get Loudoun at Jeff Cup and put an end to that discussion too.

But you keep fighting the good fight at McLean. Keep worrying about "abusive" coaches and see how far that gets your DD. If your lucky, maybe you will find a soft college coach at the bottom of some D1 division somewhere. Reality is, some of the most "abusive" coaches are found in NCAA women's soccer which is why man don't last after one year.

Really, best of luck to you though.

If coaches like BP and DG weren't successful nobody would allow them to yell at their kids.

The problem is people falsely correlate the yelling with the positive result.

Frankly, yelling at players, 12 year old girls, is lazy. It is only tolerated by parents due to the status of the team. It is curious that you don't find a lot of abusive yelling coaches on lower teams because the status of the team does not instill fear of repercussion from parents or players. They will simply demand a new coach or move to another club.

But guys like BP and DG who are gifted the top team with the top players and a stable of scared parents who do not want to lose out on possible college exposure simply don't stand up to abusive behavior when they witness it. This thread is full of this attitude. It is funny that you would call other parents or kids soft when you are to scared of a coach, who YOU PAY, to tell them to speak to their own daughter in a more professional manner.

[Anonymous]

I think the most recent DG defender is this: My abusive coach is less abusive compared to yours.

(Or in another word, my criminal is a nicer criminal compared to yours. Or my criminal is more a successful criminal so shut up. LOL)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think the most recent DG defender is this: My abusive coach is less abusive compared to yours.

(Or in another word, my criminal is a nicer criminal compared to yours. Or my criminal is more a successful criminal so shut up. LOL)

Yup, the argument goes something like this:

Wife: Did you put the dishes away?

Husband: I took out the trash. Bob, next door, doesn't even take out the trash.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think the most recent DG defender is this: My abusive coach is less abusive compared to yours.

(Or in another word, my criminal is a nicer criminal compared to yours. Or my criminal is more a successful criminal so shut up. LOL)

Isn't that sad that girls have to put up with it? And parents allow it. Can you imagine your boss yelling or making sarcastic comments to you like these coaches. Again, these aren't the only ones out there. SAC has some pretty horrible coaches on both the boys and girls side. Sometimes the women coaches can be worse then the men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think the most recent DG defender is this: My abusive coach is less abusive compared to yours.

(Or in another word, my criminal is a nicer criminal compared to yours. Or my criminal is more a successful criminal so shut up. LOL)

Isn't that sad that girls have to put up with it? And parents allow it. Can you imagine your boss yelling or making sarcastic comments to you like these coaches. Again, these aren't the only ones out there. SAC has some pretty horrible coaches on both the boys and girls side. Sometimes the women coaches can be worse then the men.

Agree. This would never be tolerated in the workplace. It's ABUSE. Particularly on Bethesda.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think the most recent DG defender is this: My abusive coach is less abusive compared to yours.

(Or in another word, my criminal is a nicer criminal compared to yours. Or my criminal is more a successful criminal so shut up. LOL)

Watching this back and forth sure is funny! I have gotten some things out of it though.

1st - I now completely understand why McLean is trending downward. They seem to have the biggest group of p---y parents at the early ages. One of which may be the biggest p---y on all of DCUM. I don't know how CW deals with it.
2nd - Other than McLean, all of the other clubs in the DMV have toxic male coaches including our own MD United coaches.
3rd - I'd rather deal with toxic masculinity than the opposite weak feeble minded parents. SMH.

Thanks for the info! I'll never take my kid McLean. Please don't ever let yours into the Military.

[Anonymous]

Why does this one parent at Bethesda try so hard to defend DG. It’s very odd someone takes this much time to write all these long posts. This parent has a lot of time in their hands or can this be DG posting and trying to save himself?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think the most recent DG defender is this: My abusive coach is less abusive compared to yours.

(Or in another word, my criminal is a nicer criminal compared to yours. Or my criminal is more a successful criminal so shut up. LOL)

Isn't that sad that girls have to put up with it? And parents allow it. Can you imagine your boss yelling or making sarcastic comments to you like these coaches. Again, these aren't the only ones out there. SAC has some pretty horrible coaches on both the boys and girls side. Sometimes the women coaches can be worse then the men.

Agree. This would never be tolerated in the workplace. It's ABUSE. Particularly on Bethesda.

Oh man, I wish I would have waited one more minute to post so could tackle this too. Please tell that to the Military. Please.

As for the SAC parent. AW would also call you a p---y.

Perhaps you should enroll on a 10 year olds boys football team. Oh wait, they are probably already more of man than you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think the most recent DG defender is this: My abusive coach is less abusive compared to yours.

(Or in another word, my criminal is a nicer criminal compared to yours. Or my criminal is more a successful criminal so shut up. LOL)

Isn't that sad that girls have to put up with it? And parents allow it. Can you imagine your boss yelling or making sarcastic comments to you like these coaches. Again, these aren't the only ones out there. SAC has some pretty horrible coaches on both the boys and girls side. Sometimes the women coaches can be worse then the men.

Agree. This would never be tolerated in the workplace. It's ABUSE. Particularly on Bethesda.

Oh man, I wish I would have waited one more minute to post so could tackle this too. Please tell that to the Military. Please.

As for the SAC parent. AW would also call you a p---y.

Perhaps you should enroll on a 10 year olds boys football team. Oh wait, they are probably already more of man than you.

the Army takes 12 year old girls? So glad you are all for child abuse. Did you every play a sport or are you just living through your kid?