DH cheated on me, and it would've been easier to be a widow

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Reading comprehension. Try it, people.

+1

OP here. Thank you. I never said I wanted him to die. I said I think it would've been easier FOR ME than what I'm going through now. Those are not contradictory statements.

Still short sighted and damn selfish.

Her husband cheated on her and gave her an STD and won't take ownership of his bad behavior and you are accusing HER of being selfish! OP was dealt a terrible hand and was venting on an anonymous forum. Sheesh.

[Anonymous]

I totally agree, OP. It definitely would be easier for you. I daresay I've even wished for it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I only read the first page, but God OP. This is so ... I don't even know. Crass? Tone deaf? Self-centered? Obnoxious?

Sure, those things you shared suck. But how dare you wish that you were a widow????

How DARE you judge her for saying it how she feels at this very moment??? She feels what she feels. So what if it doesn't align with what YOU feel, or experience, or think.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You may have been devastated if he would have died too. Look at Venessa Bryant. It is not easy for her to be a widow. Though personally I feel that the loss of Gigi is much more devastating to her.

Interesting example, since her husband also cheated on her (possibly by rape, but that has not been proven)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Reading comprehension. Try it, people.

+1

OP here. Thank you. I never said I wanted him to die. I said I think it would've been easier FOR ME than what I'm going through now. Those are not contradictory statements.

Still short sighted and damn selfish.

How is it selfish to eXPRESS your feelings. She did not do anything to anyone..

You are not in the situation, so stop judging her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Reading comprehension. Try it, people.

+1

OP here. Thank you. I never said I wanted him to die. I said I think it would've been easier FOR ME than what I'm going through now. Those are not contradictory statements.

Still short sighted and damn selfish.

Her husband cheated on her and gave her an STD and won't take ownership of his bad behavior and you are accusing HER of being selfish! OP was dealt a terrible hand and was venting on an anonymous forum. Sheesh.

You forgot that he was cheating on her with MEN!

[Anonymous]

Cheating is not the end of the world. Sorry you were lied to, pull up your boot steps and make a new life for yourself.