What goes through a man’s mind when he sees a woman he’s attracted to?

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Anonymous wrote:The thing men seem to overlook is that they hit the wall just as hard, and then they are equally as invisible and irrelevant to those hot young women.

Nah. The things that make men attractive - wealth and status - improve with age, and compensate for any decline in looks. Any decline in male looks is easily mitigated at the gym - it's mainly a matter of not being weak and fat.

Meanwhile, the thing that makes women attractive - their looks - declines with age in an inevitable and irreversible way. Sad!

Lol! If you really believe this, you are sadly mistaken. Old men are old men, whether or not they hit the gym, and for the most part unattractive. As for money, very very few men have the type of wealth to attract younger women, and those who do are just being used for their money while their hot young wives bang younger, hotter men who can still get it up without a pill on the side. Sad!

Don't forget the minority of younger women with Daddy issues. They are out there for the taking if you're a reasonably attractive middle-aged man.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You’ve no idea how disgusting this is to women. Totally cuts down the initiative to dress well. At least for me

Oh bull. Read the s/o thread about what women think about hot men. What about nature is disgusting?

[Anonymous]

Always sex...sometimes it's whether she's freaky because she looks like a stereotypical "good girl" and sometimes it's just what she looks like naked (personal grooming, etc.)

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Anonymous wrote:Are you serious? I’m not the PP your replying to, but I have extreme difficulties wrapping my head around this. This is news to me.

So what you’re trying to say is any man who looks at a woman, is thinking sexual thoughts about her? Bizarre.

Can a few men here, please confirm if this is true, for the sake of my sanity?

My answer:

If you are attractive, yes.

If you are not attractive, no.

I agree. It doesn’t mean we will try to make it happen in real life though.

This and this.

Agree, and 99% of the time the thought ends as soon as she is out of sight.

Let’s say a man sees a stunner who’s a stranger, and then a couple of months later, he sees that same stunner again, would he remember her?

Would he be like “hey, I remember that stunner, I saw her a couple of months ago”, or would he not notice he’s seen her before?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Are you serious? I’m not the PP your replying to, but I have extreme difficulties wrapping my head around this. This is news to me.

So what you’re trying to say is any man who looks at a woman, is thinking sexual thoughts about her? Bizarre.

Can a few men here, please confirm if this is true, for the sake of my sanity?

My answer:

If you are attractive, yes.

If you are not attractive, no.

I agree. It doesn’t mean we will try to make it happen in real life though.

This and this.

Agree, and 99% of the time the thought ends as soon as she is out of sight.

Let’s say a man sees a stunner who’s a stranger, and then a couple of months later, he sees that same stunner again, would he remember her?

Would he be like “hey, I remember that stunner, I saw her a couple of months ago”, or would he not notice he’s seen her before?

Oh for Chrissake, who cares? Who thinks about these inane things?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The thing men seem to overlook is that they hit the wall just as hard, and then they are equally as invisible and irrelevant to those hot young women.

Nah. The things that make men attractive - wealth and status - improve with age, and compensate for any decline in looks. Any decline in male looks is easily mitigated at the gym - it's mainly a matter of not being weak and fat.

Meanwhile, the thing that makes women attractive - their looks - declines with age in an inevitable and irreversible way. Sad!

Lol! If you really believe this, you are sadly mistaken. Old men are old men, whether or not they hit the gym, and for the most part unattractive. As for money, very very few men have the type of wealth to attract younger women, and those who do are just being used for their money while their hot young wives bang younger, hotter men who can still get it up without a pill on the side. Sad!

Don't forget the minority of younger women with Daddy issues. They are out there for the taking if you're a reasonably attractive middle-aged man.

That's sort of like....bragging about how you get to eat at Michelin restaurants....by raiding their dumpsters after closing. Sure, it's better than McDonald's, but you're still a dumpster diver eating garbage.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The thing men seem to overlook is that they hit the wall just as hard, and then they are equally as invisible and irrelevant to those hot young women.

Nah. The things that make men attractive - wealth and status - improve with age, and compensate for any decline in looks. Any decline in male looks is easily mitigated at the gym - it's mainly a matter of not being weak and fat.

Meanwhile, the thing that makes women attractive - their looks - declines with age in an inevitable and irreversible way. Sad!

Lol! If you really believe this, you are sadly mistaken. Old men are old men, whether or not they hit the gym, and for the most part unattractive. As for money, very very few men have the type of wealth to attract younger women, and those who do are just being used for their money while their hot young wives bang younger, hotter men who can still get it up without a pill on the side. Sad!

Don't forget the minority of younger women with Daddy issues. They are out there for the taking if you're a reasonably attractive middle-aged man.

LOL at the aging, jealous women who always say that younger women are only attracted to older men if the younger women are after money or have "daddy issues". Meow, meow, hiss, hiss! You don't know what you're talking about, and your motives are transparent. Sad!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The thing men seem to overlook is that they hit the wall just as hard, and then they are equally as invisible and irrelevant to those hot young women.

Nah. The things that make men attractive - wealth and status - improve with age, and compensate for any decline in looks. Any decline in male looks is easily mitigated at the gym - it's mainly a matter of not being weak and fat.

Meanwhile, the thing that makes women attractive - their looks - declines with age in an inevitable and irreversible way. Sad!

Lol! If you really believe this, you are sadly mistaken. Old men are old men, whether or not they hit the gym, and for the most part unattractive. As for money, very very few men have the type of wealth to attract younger women, and those who do are just being used for their money while their hot young wives bang younger, hotter men who can still get it up without a pill on the side. Sad!

Don't forget the minority of younger women with Daddy issues. They are out there for the taking if you're a reasonably attractive middle-aged man.

LOL at the aging, jealous women who always say that younger women are only attracted to older men if the younger women are after money or have "daddy issues". Meow, meow, hiss, hiss! You don't know what you're talking about, and your motives are transparent. Sad!

I am so thankful to those fathers for their part in creating these daddy issues. I've certainly benefited from it. I don't know how small this "minority of younger women with Daddy issues" really is, but I've had no problem finding them. I'm in my early 60s and wouldn't date any women 50 or over.

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Anonymous wrote:I've been reading this thread and still can't believe that this is a surprise. It might not be the best thing to hear but come on people, where have you been?

I know right? There should be a 5th grade class on this. Men think about sex..... with every single woman he sees who is even remotely attractive. I am shocked at how many women don't get this.

They get it until they hit the wall, and then they whine about being invisible and start hating on men's "immature" lust for hot young women.

The thing men seem to overlook is that they hit the wall just as hard, and then they are equally as invisible and irrelevant to those hot young women.

Haha, you wish that were true.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The thing men seem to overlook is that they hit the wall just as hard, and then they are equally as invisible and irrelevant to those hot young women.

Nah. The things that make men attractive - wealth and status - improve with age, and compensate for any decline in looks. Any decline in male looks is easily mitigated at the gym - it's mainly a matter of not being weak and fat.

Meanwhile, the thing that makes women attractive - their looks - declines with age in an inevitable and irreversible way. Sad!

Lol! If you really believe this, you are sadly mistaken. Old men are old men, whether or not they hit the gym, and for the most part unattractive. As for money, very very few men have the type of wealth to attract younger women, and those who do are just being used for their money while their hot young wives bang younger, hotter men who can still get it up without a pill on the side. Sad!

Don't forget the minority of younger women with Daddy issues. They are out there for the taking if you're a reasonably attractive middle-aged man.

LOL at the aging, jealous women who always say that younger women are only attracted to older men if the younger women are after money or have "daddy issues". Meow, meow, hiss, hiss! You don't know what you're talking about, and your motives are transparent. Sad!

I am so thankful to those fathers for their part in creating these daddy issues. I've certainly benefited from it. I don't know how small this "minority of younger women with Daddy issues" really is, but I've had no problem finding them. I'm in my early 60s and wouldn't date any women 50 or over.

Why? That's lame.

[Anonymous]

I feel bad for whoever this older male poster is. He needs to let it go.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The thing men seem to overlook is that they hit the wall just as hard, and then they are equally as invisible and irrelevant to those hot young women.

Nah. The things that make men attractive - wealth and status - improve with age, and compensate for any decline in looks. Any decline in male looks is easily mitigated at the gym - it's mainly a matter of not being weak and fat.

Meanwhile, the thing that makes women attractive - their looks - declines with age in an inevitable and irreversible way. Sad!

Lol! If you really believe this, you are sadly mistaken. Old men are old men, whether or not they hit the gym, and for the most part unattractive. As for money, very very few men have the type of wealth to attract younger women, and those who do are just being used for their money while their hot young wives bang younger, hotter men who can still get it up without a pill on the side. Sad!

Don't forget the minority of younger women with Daddy issues. They are out there for the taking if you're a reasonably attractive middle-aged man.

LOL at the aging, jealous women who always say that younger women are only attracted to older men if the younger women are after money or have "daddy issues". Meow, meow, hiss, hiss! You don't know what you're talking about, and your motives are transparent. Sad!

I am so thankful to those fathers for their part in creating these daddy issues. I've certainly benefited from it. I don't know how small this "minority of younger women with Daddy issues" really is, but I've had no problem finding them. I'm in my early 60s and wouldn't date any women 50 or over.

Why? That's lame.

You're either a woman over 50, or you're a man who hasn't looked at a woman over 50 recently.

How lame and unacceptable of the PP to pursue women he finds attractive. PP, stop enjoying yourself wrong, you are causing DCUM women to experience severe feelbad!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I feel bad for whoever this older male poster is. He needs to let it go.

I'd bet good money he doesn't even get laid.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Woman here, the responses seem exhausting. I can’t imagine experiencing these kinds of thoughts all day long. It seems distracting and akin to torture honestly. I’m just wondering how men are able to focus and mostly play it off??

THIS
And to have all these fantasies of women you can’t have is frustrating.

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Anonymous wrote:Women, do you mind that every time your DH or boyfriend sees another woman he is imagining what she looks like naked? As a man, I don't have any problems with my wife imagining what another man looks like nude. I assume everyone does it and it's healthy.

Yes. I do have a problem with it. I don’t really like to think about my husband fantasizing about having sex with other women all day long, and I don’t like thinking that he is imagining I am one of his co-workers when we are having sex.

I agree, it's gross. I get that it's normal and healthy and all, but it makes me never want to have sex ever again. Blech.

+1

Agree. Huge turn off. Don’t know if “all men” think like this but it’s just creepy and disgusting.

So we can assume that neither you nor the pp you quote ever fantasize or imagine sex with other men?

I don’t