Are all moms kind of lame or just my mom friends?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Being in a different stage than my friends was one of the BIG reasons my husband and I decided not to have children when we married at 38 and 40 years old. All of our friends had children who were teens and adults (some of our friends are 10 years older than us) and we'd be searching for babysitters every time they spontaneously called and said "hey, come have dinner at our house tomorrow."

thats a very very shortsighted reason to not have kids.

[Anonymous]

OP should take her awesome European trip solo. I love traveling solo on the edges of my business trips and I am not even trying to rock my mom bod at hip places.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Being in a different stage than my friends was one of the BIG reasons my husband and I decided not to have children when we married at 38 and 40 years old. All of our friends had children who were teens and adults (some of our friends are 10 years older than us) and we'd be searching for babysitters every time they spontaneously called and said "hey, come have dinner at our house tomorrow."

Really stupid reasoning.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Being in a different stage than my friends was one of the BIG reasons my husband and I decided not to have children when we married at 38 and 40 years old. All of our friends had children who were teens and adults (some of our friends are 10 years older than us) and we'd be searching for babysitters every time they spontaneously called and said "hey, come have dinner at our house tomorrow."

This may be the worst reason I have ever heard not to have children.

[Anonymous]

OP the friend groups I'm in, people go away for the weekend with all the kids and families together. The groups with money rent a big house. The groups without money go camping.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Being in a different stage than my friends was one of the BIG reasons my husband and I decided not to have children when we married at 38 and 40 years old. All of our friends had children who were teens and adults (some of our friends are 10 years older than us) and we'd be searching for babysitters every time they spontaneously called and said "hey, come have dinner at our house tomorrow."

This may be the worst reason I have ever heard not to have children.

+4. That's ridiculous

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Being in a different stage than my friends was one of the BIG reasons my husband and I decided not to have children when we married at 38 and 40 years old. All of our friends had children who were teens and adults (some of our friends are 10 years older than us) and we'd be searching for babysitters every time they spontaneously called and said "hey, come have dinner at our house tomorrow."

This may be the worst reason I have ever heard not to have children.

+4. That's ridiculous

Agreed. Pp, I feel so sorry for you. You are missing out on one of the best things in life because....you don't want to be in a different stage than your friends? If your friends jumped off a bridge, would you do it too?