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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Golf guy here. I just opened the door and told her.  At the time I didn't think AP and her knew each other but we later found out they share a hairdresser and a cleaning lady.  You never know how small your world is until the explodes. We actually went golfing (ex and i) the next day and just had a long 10 hour convo.  We decided that day to end it. We didn't do the "i think I can get over this" dance. [/quote]
Holy crap, your ex must be some kind of a saint. I would have beat you to death with a golf club right then.[/quote]

It's really a sad story, and he's still worried his daughter may find out. I'm sure at some point the ex wife has told her, or someday when she wants to know more.  While no marriage is perfect it's really a horrific thing when a family breaks up, and lives are altered over garbage. I'm sure this AP wasn't worth all the problems that ensued. If anything it's bewildering and sad to see how many couples allow strangers to steal what's really important.

It sounds like golfer stepped over a dollar to pick up a nickel. A slug nickel at that...

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When I was in college my mom told me about what my father did. It was her weird way of giving me some sort of coming of age lesson since I had started dating my first love. My father had been dead for several years at that time, so I was irritated that I could not confront him about it. My mother said that she then had a retaliatory affair, then abortion, and regretted it. I think it gave me a jaded (perhaps necessary reality call?) view of life, humans and trust. But I am 10 + years into my marriage, so I am not that jaded.[/quote]

Your mom is a terrible woman to have told you those things ( your father was dead and she wanted to ruin your memory of him? ) and to have done those things - retaliatory affair and abortion? And she told you these things while you were in college enjoying your first love? I hope that you don’t spend much with with that bitter destructive woman.

No - this was not a necessary  ‘reality call’. You should get some counseling before you absorb more of this sewage as being ‘normal life’.[/quote]

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