Your club made some really poor decisions. |
While not universal, I do not think this is outside the norms. Many club coaches value the relationship with the college more than that of the player. |
Sharing some relatively generic information about interest does nothing to ruin that relationship. |
We are not concerned at all because the school she committed to has never had over 26 on the team. Definitely a question we asked. Their sweet spot for roster size is 25. Not a concern |
She is at a Nike school so they set up some stuff through the school. They also have a dedicated website where you can purchase signatures, appearances, and merch for that particular athlete. Definitely nowhere close to what Power 4 QBs are getting. Every dollar counts. Plus there is a stipend that the school gives your directly that has nothing to do with NIL. |
Agreed!! No major club is not going to tell you if a school is interested. That is not how the game is played |
Isn’t she a HS Junior, you talk about it as if she was already in college. |
3 years ago -verbally committed March of her sophomore year. |
Coaches are allowed to coach the players and provide feedback to those players. It happens in every sport at every college. Sometimes coaches will make a player camp to earn an offer. They're always evaluating campers so your interl is way off. |
We are at a major club. They would say for example --- you should look at XYZ -- coach said some nice things or talking to coach and XYZ and you should target as they are looking for center-mid like you. But that is all. |
Been to a ton of ID camps. Including a number of P4. If it is before June 15 after Soph year many will not provide feedback at all at that time. Of course if a GK made a good save they would say good save. But no post camp discussion. If they like you they will call June 15 or thereafter but nothing before that. |
DP, this isn’t not true at all. It all depends on the player and the coach. Rapport will be built if they want you. It can get very opaque, and most kids won’t pick-up on the subtly. But the easier a heuristic is who did the coach spend a bit of extra time chatting with. They won’t give the time of day to a scrub, but a baller will get their time, attention, and a “let me learn who you are” convo. |
Been to a ton of ID camps too. Only a handful will give feedback on the spot after it concludes. Almost all replied as they asked players to follow up by text or email. We didn't target P4 schools for a variety of reasons (mostly travel conflicts as DD wants to pursue pre-med), but I think only one school never replied and she was early in Sophomore year. We also didn't attend ID camps where we didn't have at least a little interest from the coaches, and ruled out 3rd party camps because of advice from former team mates who said it was a waste of time/money grab. Will echo one bit of advice where others commented on the college recruiting process: Go where you're wanted. |
Almost all of them will give feedback.....to a select group. They are usually kept after or brought to the side and talked with one-on-one. Details like what club do you play for? Who's your coach? When is your next event? Feedback on your play. Etc. It's not typically going to happen with all 60 kids at the camp, but for a select group, it certainly does happen. |
Exactly right. The coaches will praise the girls by name and will pull them aside during water breaks to give pointers. This has happened to my d at every ID camp and has given her a feel for the coaching style and level of interest. Some coaches can be over the top and that has turned off some players we know but most are subtle and calculated with feedback. |