What is the minimum salary you'd date?

Anonymous
This question and most of the responses are gross. Ew.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:This question and most of the responses are gross. Ew.
m

+1. Think of all the amazing people the PPs are willing to cast aside, like every single person who chose a service profession over a high income. It’s sad.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Women who demand $200k plus: how are you going to make that happen? What’s your plan? And don’t answer you already met you lawyer/MD husband in college. How are you going to make it happen now?



I’m married. But the majority of the single guys I meet in dc area either through work or through friends (even at local gym) make 200+. Not hard.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I’m a 50 yo woman making -$200K

I could go as low as $160K if he was a scientist or artist.

I’d expect him to have $10K/month + a paid off mortgage in retirement


Do you realize most federal attorneys make about 160k? An artist is not going to make 160K. My sister in law is a Harvard PhD scientist and does not make 100k. Get a reality check on salaries.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This question and most of the responses are gross. Ew.
m

+1. Think of all the amazing people the PPs are willing to cast aside, like every single person who chose a service profession over a high income. It’s sad.


Ummm….not really.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’m a 50 yo woman making -$200K

I could go as low as $160K if he was a scientist or artist.

I’d expect him to have $10K/month + a paid off mortgage in retirement


Do you realize most federal attorneys make about 160k? An artist is not going to make 160K. My sister in law is a Harvard PhD scientist and does not make 100k. Get a reality check on salaries.


Or they should have got a check on their majors if they care about making >200k. Just sayin.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This question and most of the responses are gross. Ew.
m

+1. Think of all the amazing people the PPs are willing to cast aside, like every single person who chose a service profession over a high income. It’s sad.


Ummm….not really.


I married a man who may never make $100K because he decided to work in a service profession after college. That’s okay with me. I value his honesty, intellect, and compassion more than what’s in his wallet and what it can buy me.
Anonymous
When I met DH in my early 20s I had no salary requirement but I wouldn’t have dated anyone without career and life goals they were actively working towards.

If I was dating now in my early 30s I would only date men with established careers who were responsible with money and successfully supporting themselves (like I am). It’s unlikely I would seriously date anyone making under 75k but possible depending on extenuating circumstances.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This question and most of the responses are gross. Ew.
m

+1. Think of all the amazing people the PPs are willing to cast aside, like every single person who chose a service profession over a high income. It’s sad.


-1. Income and income potential is important in choosing a life partner unless you are able to support your spouse and children on your income, alone. It’s entirely fair for someone to have a standard.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This question and most of the responses are gross. Ew.
m

+1. Think of all the amazing people the PPs are willing to cast aside, like every single person who chose a service profession over a high income. It’s sad.


-1. Income and income potential is important in choosing a life partner unless you are able to support your spouse and children on your income, alone. It’s entirely fair for someone to have a standard.


“It’s entirely fair”: what does that even mean? And can you make your standards work, or are you holding out for a unicorn?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:This question and most of the responses are gross. Ew.


Ask stupid questions, get stupid responses.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:W-2 Salary? Don’t care

$500k annual dividends, cap gains, interest

$3-10M annual carried interest



No one in DC knows what you are talking about. That or thank goodness those that do aren’t in dcum. Great auto-filter!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:W-2 Salary? Don’t care

$500k annual dividends, cap gains, interest

$3-10M annual carried interest



No one in DC knows what you are talking about. That or thank goodness those that do aren’t in dcum. Great auto-filter!

Basically she's saying she will only date a wealthy man.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’m a 50 yo woman making -$200K

I could go as low as $160K if he was a scientist or artist.

I’d expect him to have $10K/month + a paid off mortgage in retirement


Do you realize most federal attorneys make about 160k? An artist is not going to make 160K. My sister in law is a Harvard PhD scientist and does not make 100k. Get a reality check on salaries.


Most federal scientists make GS-14 which is ~$160.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:W-2 Salary? Don’t care

$500k annual dividends, cap gains, interest

$3-10M annual carried interest



No one in DC knows what you are talking about. That or thank goodness those that do aren’t in dcum. Great auto-filter!

Basically she's saying she will only date a wealthy man.


Only dates successful entrepreneurs, venture capitalists, Pe partners or hedge fund partners.

They’re here in DC. Not like NyC or Palm Beach or Bay Area but they are.
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