What is the minimum salary you'd date?

[Anonymous]

I’m a 50 yo woman making -$200K

I could go as low as $160K if he was a scientist or artist.

I’d expect him to have $10K/month + a paid off mortgage in retirement

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:woman: be able to pay your own bills.

This. I would also add
- can save money
- willing to find the career path/support themselves in the lifestyle they want to lead i.e. if you want to live on your own and without roommates, or buy a house, or have nice cars etc. have a plan of how you would do that on your own.

[Anonymous]

In whatever area they live, a first year salary of a public school teacher.

[Anonymous]

Male here, don’t care. Kind, attractive, good person are the top 3 qualities.

[Anonymous]

Have you not read about all the unhappy marriages on here? And how many divorced people are on here?

Marry for love, not money! As long as your partner is kind and respectful, you'll be ok.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Women who demand $200k plus: how are you going to make that happen? What’s your plan? And don’t answer you already met you lawyer/MD husband in college. How are you going to make it happen now?

They aren't, because only hot women marry men 200k+ and hot women don't post on online forums for dinosaurs

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Have you not read about all the unhappy marriages on here? And how many divorced people are on here?

Marry for love, not money! As long as your partner is kind and respectful, you'll be ok.

Marrying for live does not guarantee your partner will be kind or respectful. Plus you might get stuck with them because of no money.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Women who demand $200k plus: how are you going to make that happen? What’s your plan? And don’t answer you already met you lawyer/MD husband in college. How are you going to make it happen now?

You think $200k is hard? I'm a property manager an earn over $350k a year. That doesn't even include passive income from my own investments.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My wife thought I had it together but no real earning potential when we first started dating. These days, I have to tell her it wasn’t personal that I was throwing up a smoke screen.

That is super shitty to let someone hitch their life to you based on a fraudulent presentation. I imagine she is somewhat resentful.

Well, they deserve each other.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Man: Don't care about a woman's income. Just don't saddle me with her pre-existing debt.

Woman here with the same answer for a prospective man.

Same. If you live within your means and don't have stupid debt (vs. a mortgage or something productive), we're good.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women who demand $200k plus: how are you going to make that happen? What’s your plan? And don’t answer you already met you lawyer/MD husband in college. How are you going to make it happen now?

You think $200k is hard? I'm a property manager an earn over $350k a year. That doesn't even include passive income from my own investments.

I think $200k puts you in the top 10% for this area.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women who demand $200k plus: how are you going to make that happen? What’s your plan? And don’t answer you already met you lawyer/MD husband in college. How are you going to make it happen now?

You think $200k is hard? I'm a property manager an earn over $350k a year. That doesn't even include passive income from my own investments.

I think $200k puts you in the top 10% for this area.

Maybe for “this area” but not for the “area” women with incomes of $200K live.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women who demand $200k plus: how are you going to make that happen? What’s your plan? And don’t answer you already met you lawyer/MD husband in college. How are you going to make it happen now?

You think $200k is hard? I'm a property manager an earn over $350k a year. That doesn't even include passive income from my own investments.

I think $200k puts you in the top 10% for this area.

Well I’m a top 10% person so that checks out.

[Anonymous]

Male, can they pay their bills/afford the lifestyle they want to live? Life is stressful enough already, no need to add financial issues to it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Male here, don’t care. Kind, attractive, good person are the top 3 qualities.

Woman here. Agree. My DH doesn't earn a lot of money due to his field, but he is the kindest and most educated person I know.