DH driving DD 6+ hours each way by himself

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:My kids are only doing virtual college visits this year. If colleges don't want to take a high stat magnet kid who is full pay then they can go and suck lemons. We are not overly invested in playing the college game anyways in the middle of a pandemic.

Very helpful. Thanks for sharing.
Anonymous
Six hours is a routine day on a road trip.
Anonymous
OP your husband is a grown man. Why can he not do this?

I did it many times DC to Raleigh, Cary, Chapel Hill, Charlotte, .

One kid, two kids, three kids or more.

Not like it's a hard drive.

You are being ridiculous.
Anonymous
Would not give it a thought even alone.
Anonymous
Is your DH 80 years old? What is wrong with your family? Seriously. You're worried about DH making a 6 hour drive and DD doesn't drive? 6 hours? What am I missing here?
Anonymous
I drive 7-8 to Boston on Saturday to watch my son play a sport and drive back the next day.

Sometimes I stay an extra day in between if I’m moving him in or out.

6 hours is easy
Anonymous
He’s fine. Is he a bad driver? Prone to DUIs? Do you have severe anxiety?
Anonymous

I would do it, and I need frequent breaks otherwise I fall asleep at the wheel. My spouse knows this about me, and would be perfectly fine with it, but he would call regularly to check on me.

What are you worried about, exactly? Covid?
Anonymous
Come on, OP. This is not a difficult task. He can absolutely drive 6 hours in one day. I drove down to Florida with my daughter last fall. Broke it up into two parts. The second day was easily 7 hours. I was fine.

When I opened this thread, I thought you were going to say that he was driving 6 hours to somewhere and 6 hours back in the same day!
Anonymous
What?? I have an Anxiety Disorder diagnosed and I would not bat an eye at a 6 hr drive.
Anonymous
Did I read he doesn’t have a driver’s license. For that reason only I would say no, unless you are not from the US. Need insurance to cover for accidents for your car and others, if he is at fault. Six hour drive not the issue.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Did I read he doesn’t have a driver’s license. For that reason only I would say no, unless you are not from the US. Need insurance to cover for accidents for your car and others, if he is at fault. Six hour drive not the issue.


Read again. The husband has a drivers license. It’s the high school kid that doesn’t have one.
Anonymous
1. Either track him with GPS of have him stop every hour for a check-in call.
2. Make sure they both wear masks in the car.
Anonymous
This is is easy and super safe!

He can drive an hour or two and stop for coffee, then drive some more and take a long break for lunch. Then drive another few hours to the hotel with another coffee break if needed. He can drive in daylight the whole way AND he has a passenger to chat with so he’s alert.

Come on. What’s really going on? This is safe to the point of absurdity.
Anonymous
OP, you are ridiculous. Let his leash go just a little bit.
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